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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating a girl and we had sex for the first time the other day but I came really quick and I don't think she was satisfied. I was a virgin before that but she had slept with other guys. I just want to know, will she be comparing me with the other men she has had sex with? How often do women think of their previous lovers and do they remember them all really well?Thanks
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (6 October 2008):
 If you come too quickly dont put too much preshure on having fully penetrative sex straight away, There's alot to be said about a long session of foreplay, im sure all the women on here will agree (by this i mean the guy giving, not receiving).Ask her what she likes in bed, whats the worst that could happen?but as the previous answer states, they are ex's for a reason, forget about them, because right now she is with you, and if she didnt want to be she woudnt. Stop thinking about them and just be happy that your the one she has chosen to be with.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (6 October 2008):
 No they dont. I dont think ive ever thought of an ex when in bed with someone else. And I rarely think of exes at all.They're exes for a reason.Dont be worrying about it, cuz thats gonna cause you performance problems.C xxxxx
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reader, penguin64 +, writes (6 October 2008):
 yeah they do. but i wouldnt worry about it. if she knows you were a virgin she should understand. the more you do it the better it will get. try not to think about ex's. as you get older everyone u get with is likely to have an ex. you just have to try and get over it.
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