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The man I am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment.

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Question - (31 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2008)
A female Czech Republic age 51-59, anonymous writes:

The man i am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment. Although i don't agree with him i see him because he is interested and i like to spend time with him. When i meet him i develop feelings for him but i try to hide them as he doesn't want a commitment. Should i show him my interest and call him or should i hide my true feelings, be more indifferent and leave him try to find me?

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A female reader, lopikult United States +, writes (31 October 2008):

call it off you don't need a guy who needs to be explained how he feels you need kids for that!!!! imagine a guy who was passionate about you and really wanted you that's what you need don't be afraid of real men and compensate with loosers who will dump you pregnant and all, my experience as a woman..

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A female reader, Reebe United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2008):

Reebe agony auntThis guy has told you he doesn't want a relationship. You can either enjoy it for what it is, or if you want something more serious you need to move on.

Be grateful he's been honest, and hasn't led you a merry dance!

You'll find some one who is looking for the same thing as you.

Good luck!

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A female reader, tykdyidt United States +, writes (31 October 2008):

When I try to ask my husband what he means about an issue his response is that he is not that deep and what he says is exact what he means. We as women try to over-evaluate a man but evidently what they say is pretty much straight forward. Remember they are usually self centered.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008):

It depends on what you want. If you don't mind sharing him with other women and don't expect him to be faithful or loyal or be around in three months and you like his company, then act how ever you want.

If you want a boyfriend who is in love with you and sees only you and is willing to have a committed relationship, then move on, he isn't lying to you.

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