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writes:She works at night time and there will be days she works alone in her department.She text for me to call back. It happened few times so I guess she is lonely.I decided to call her everyday during her break time. The problem now is, she doesn't pick up the call. She doesn't call back and it happened many times that's why I felt she intentionally miss it.We only meet each other once in about 2 weeks time. Am I calling her too much? How many times you call your partner per day?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 October 2008):
She could have been busy!
When my hubbie is home I text him and sometimes he will not text back till he gets home because he's been so busy. Same with me. Some times he's bored and texts me lots and I'm just too busy to reply.
Call her when she's not at work and ask her how work is.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Thank you for the answers.
I agree with happytochat. I feel calling once to twice a day is sweet. It doesn't matter what to talk, a short call just to say hi is simply so great. It showed you think of your partner.
icelordess, she never mention the missed call. I brought up this matter once, she became defensive and we had a fight. If we care about someone, we will response to the missed call. Sadly, she never response.
Definitely, I am not feeling easy about this. Now that every time I call her, I know she will miss it. Sometimes, I do wonder why am I still calling when she doesn't pick up and response to the missed calls.
I will find a time to talk to her and I am prepared she will lead to fight again.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 October 2008):
 My husband and I work at the same university so we call and email back and forth all day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Just once - to tell her I'm on the way home and to put the kettle on.
Sometimes it's not so much a case of how often I call her, but what I call her!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (31 October 2008):
I dont think there is anything wrong with calling your partner once a day. In fact, I think its sweet! Ive gone out with guys who liked there 'space'. They would only wanna talk maybe once or twice a week. I found this hard to cope with because when I like someone, I want to see how they are each day and share my day with them.
Your gf might be someone who needs alot of 'space' and 'alone time'. You should make a time to see her in person and ask her about this. Just calmy ask if she minds you calling her once each day and let her know that if she doesnt, she shoudl let you know because yo udont want to annoy her or anything. Ask her if she lieks her space.
If it turns out she does like her space, and you dont, then you need to think about whether or not this r/ship can work. IN my experiecne, if people are so different in the amount of time they want to share together, its hard ot make it work. One person either feels too 'smothered' or the other feels to alone.
I hope you work it out!!!
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