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30-35,
*oveiscrazy
writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. This winter he is going home. We literally live a world away and in two different continents. He is going home for a month and I am going home for a month. I am afraid he in not trustworthy. I am scared of how he is with girls when I am not there. When I met him he had a girlfriend. We had sex and he never told me had a girlfriend. He would always say he was talking to his friend (she also lives in another country.) He later told me he had a girlfriend, but we still had sex for about two months un til he broke it off with her. Now, he is going home and going to very far and i'll be lucky if i talk to him about once a week. I asked him if he would dance with another girl and without hesitation he said yes. He has lied to me before about talking with other girls. I am afraid some girl is going to come a long and do to me what I did to his ex. Previously, he asked another girl who hangs out with a lot(and says they are like brother and sister)to go with him to a concert and he never asked me until i brought it up..sad and distressed. Should I trust him? Will be do something when I'm not there? I really want to trust him because I love him.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (8 November 2008):
 Hunny
Im going to give it you straight after what Ive read Im not to sure and if Im ever not to sure about things in my life it usually means dont missuse this imformation that feeling. And think if you are not trusting this guy even for a minute or a day, And for something to cause you pain like this, You cannot be with the right guy ,If this were me id have been gone by now. waisting my time! I do think he would cheat but can I say he may not because you no him better than me..All I can say to you hunny is if he makes you unhappy like this, can this be the right man for you because hunny you sound a lovely girl I dont think you would be this worried for no reason..The likely hood if he has done it in the past he may do it again...I dont think you lack security I think with the right guy you would be happy give yourself the chance. Im sorry if this hurts love as I hate hurting anyone but these are my thoughts, May be the other aunts can say something, Maybe Im wrong but you sound desperate and hurt and scared and this is how you will feel the whole time he is away, This relationship is not for you, I personally dont think You are going to be treated right if I can say this ..Please send me a p.m and i'll be happy to chat as you cant write about everything and hopfully im wrong..Id really wish to say dont worry but im not going to lie love this is all that I got from you post PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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