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writes:AM I HARD ON HIMI am 25 years old and I have been dating a 30 year olg guy for five months. The problem is that he doesn't want to show me where he lives. He knows where I live and he visits me every day. I feel like he is hiding something from me although he has denied it. Do you think He really loves me or is it because he has a wife? Is it too early to know his home? Reply to this Question
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reader, boo22  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 Hi there, of course it's weird and you're not giving him a hard time. I would make it my business to find out what he's hiding and the sooner the better. good luck x
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (8 November 2008):
 Hey.. Probably he doesn't have so nice apartmant/house like you. I think he is just embarrassed of his own place. I can't answer you if he has a wife or not.. do you have any friends in common? Ask them about his wife if you're still not sure. But I guess he needs more time to trust you, that you are not obsessed with material stuff (I hope you aren't).
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reader, loveiscrazy  +, writes (8 November 2008):
No, it is not too early to know his home - 5 months is a pretty long time to go without knowing where he lives especially if he visits you every day and lives by. I think it is more of matter that he is ashamed of something. I mean, maybe he still lives with his parents or he lives with the boys - and is too embarrassed to bring you over because it is too messy. Also, you should tell him that unless he comes clean about this 'unknown' home of his, there is no way you can continue. If he is already hiding something from you now.. that is not a good beginning. I don't think he has a wife.. it may not be a serious as that.. might be parents, the boys or maybe a kid. Good luck
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reader, Anonny +, writes (8 November 2008):
5 months is a long time to wait to see where someone lives!! - Usually, unfortunately the reason could be that he has a partner back home!! - Either that or he just lives in a pig sty!!
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reader, babyboi  +, writes (8 November 2008):
Five months... you should know where he lives, he's either hiding something or is just ashamed of were he lives, either way be sneaky about it, ask friends, follow him but don't get caught cause if you do it could cause problems but I would say there is something he is not telling you.
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