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writes:I have been dating this woman for only 3 weeks, but in that time we have spent a lot of time with each other. She seems to be really into me as I am to her but she told me she also wants to date other men. I am newly divorced and have not been in a "dating" relationship in a long time. I'm not sure how I feel about that. I told her how I felt and she said this is something she needs and wants to do. I told her then we need to spend less time with each other because I can't give her 100% if she is not giving that to me. So here I am not knowing how to handle this, not sure what is the best thing to do. I mean I think we have a lot in common and could be something worth waiting for, but I am also feeling like if she was that into me the way she claims then why would you want to date other men. Any input would help. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): You're definitely right.. She should feel compelled to be with only you and if not than she's not all that interested. With that being said, its only been 3 weeks so its possible she may get to that point. I would give her some more time and if in a month or so, its the same than walk away..
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reader, HotANDcold +, writes (8 November 2008):
 I totally agree with you if she was totally into you she wouldn't be wanting to date other men.but in the other hand maybe she was in a difficult relationship and now she just wants to enjoy life and maybe find a partner for the future,im not saying its not you but when it comes to choose the "right one" you really go through a long process of selecting the one.don't give up on her,maybe she wants to see how much your into her and if you really want a serious relationship.don't be all over her because that would make her feel as if she was in prison.Good luck!
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