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We're just sex buddies...even though we broke up 2 months ago! Any advice?

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Question - (27 November 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hiya everyone, i now this is sounding stupid and desperate but, me and my ex broke 2 months ago for the past month we've been having sex as in f**k buddies, the thing is we both we not getting any and he hardly has any money and so he puts it helping each other out, im giving him money so that we can both have sex as he needs it and in a way i kinda new sex as well

Please dont hate me but i just need advice dows anyone else do this with there ex's

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A female reader, Gypsii United States +, writes (27 November 2008):

Advice: Use the money that you're wasting on him to pay for therapy. He's not interested in you and is only using you for the money. I don't know a man on earth whose sex is so great that I'd pay him for it! You're having difficulty letting go and you feel responsible for him, etc.. Trust me, he doesn't have money because he's too lazy to go out and work for it. As long as you keep enabling him, he's going to keep being your victim. Move on....life is too short for losers.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

Oh dear, you should probably save that money for English lessons!

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntSorry darling I dont understand this post at all.

Are you saying that you are paying your ex just for sex or do I have that wrong??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

how can you not see that he's using you?

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A female reader, xxaziexx United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2008):

xxaziexx agony auntokay you pay him for sex ???

have a bit of respect for yourself

no i dont know anyone who pays their ex to sleep with them :S it isnt right, and he must think this is flippin great!!! gettin money and all the rest he wants

please think about it :S

good luck

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A female reader, tonya_n_ark United States +, writes (27 November 2008):

I think that many people have sex with their exes. Paying their exes is probably a different story, though. When you're with someone, it's hard to let go. Having sex with them is validation that the relationship wasn't exactly an entire waste of time. However, you must have had a reason to break up. If it was a break-up over something trivial, like you or him just being stubborn, get back together. If you broke up over something important, though, you need to keep that in mind. You don't want to be screwing your ex if you happen to find a nice guy. It would be much better to cut your ex off and just enjoy some alone time. If sex is an issue for you, ever heard of toys? I know they're not the same as a warm body, but they can offer some relief.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

i honestly think he's using you. if you're giving him money and hes just giving you sex with no intentions of paying you back its the same as going to a "pro". i think you should save your money and find a nice guy date him and then eventually have sex with him for the right reasons

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