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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm 42 yrs (young) and about a 1 month ago just started dating a man I met on myspace. That is something I thought I would never do, but I did and it's so far been real nice. The problem is, I haven't dated in over 4 yrs. (Mind you I said dating) My problem is things to talk about. We've talked about family, work, you name it..even sex, and I feel I've ran out of things to talk about. He's not boring, he's actually very outgoing - spontaneous kind of guy, yet a bit of the quiet type. He seems to be interested in me, he calls and texts daily and we see each other at least once a week. He lives an hour away. He moved here from another state to assist his mom who is very ill. So, we've even talked about that. I guess I'm lost in the world of dating since I've been divorced for alittle over 12 yrs. On days I don't feel I just know what to say, should we have a bit of space or what? I don't want him to feel I'm not interested, because I am...and the last thing I want him to think is that I am boring. He thinks I'm all bubbly and such a happy person, and I am...but sometimes I just get lost in things to say. I also don't want to appear always nervous even though I am. Bottom line...I don't want to seem boring because I'm not a boring person, just feel lost and really would hate to lose him when right now is the akward part - the one month - not sure what to say or do anymore. Is this an age thing or what? Do I just feel to comfortable maybe for being single so long? All help is appreciated...thank you.
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