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writes:i need help. so my friends are pretty much telling me we should go our seperate ways cuz i have a bf. they say i think boys are more important then themm but thats not even close to true and i always tell them that. so whenever i hang out with my boyfriend they gotta say something to me. and yesterday i asked one of my friends to go to the mall just me and her and she didn't want to so i was like whatever.. then she textes me while i'm at the mall with my sister and is like let's hang out with ryan (my bfs friend, and also her friend) and zack (my bf) SHE SAID IT! so i was like okay.. so we hung out and more of my bfs friends ended up hanging out with us all too. so it was all good. then we went downstairs to watch a movie and i was sitting next to my friend and i got up and sat with my bf cuz he was all by himself and i wanted to cuddle ya know. (my friend was on the phone fighting with her little love)so she goes "i guess boys are more important, frank (my other friend) was right" so i got so pissed off that i just tried to ignore it and didn't even say anything. then she leaves and doesn't even say bye. then today she textes me and says the same shit. and i explain everything and tell her that she always has to go against me when i'm happy. and she just goes "i guess we should go our seperate ways, maybe we werent meant to be friends" so she stops talking to me and leaves it at that. now shes gonna go to frank and tell him all this shit and they're both gonna hate me. its like they're fucking jealous of me or something.. and i can't stand it. and this is getting to me so much and i don't want it to.. how could they treat me like this? i spend time with them by themselves and then when im not with them i get all this shit.. should i just let it go and stop being friends with them or keep on fighting? sorry for this being so long.. thanks if u can help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni don't even neglect them! i hang out with them just as much as i do with my boyfriend. and sometimes they don't even wanna hangout. and the other friend hung out with his love and my friend didn't say any shit to him. it's so messed up. they're both mean to me, they bring me down and all that. and i almost wanna cry. i just can't go on living like this, with them always bringing me down and controlling my life..
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reader, Kathh  +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Honey you said it yourself, they are jealous of you.
Your friends always will be a constant so don't neglect them but make your own life and once they see that you are still you, regardless of boyfriends they will love you still for it.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Its always tricky, where boyfriends come in to the picture. I'ts fine if you and your girlfriend go out with a boyfriend and his mate, but your girlfriend feels, not only jealous but pushed out as well. Maybe if you see your boyfriend at a seperate time from your girlfriend for now it may work then she may feel special again. I'ts all in the process of growing up. When she gets her own boyfriend she will understand more, maybe. hope this helps.
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