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writes:I really love my boyfriend but when we have sex he is really rough... even though e trys to be gentle he ends up going really fast and i end up crying from all of the pain. He knows it hurts me but he cant seem to go slow because he slips out and then gets fustrated. When he goes fast it kinda feels good but im just not used to it hes way bigger then my ex....my ex was about 5 inches and now my new bf is about 8-9. When i first saw it i was amazed and didnt know they could be that big. If we have sex more will the pain soon go away? we've been having sex for about 2 months yet it still hurts.
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reader, tux  +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Have you tried any other positions where he can be gentle and yet not slip out?
But well, it should get better, but then he needs to accommodate you as much as you need to accommodate you. Sex should feel pleasureable for both parties, not just one. Perhaps you should try other positions..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): You need to tell him when it hurts, and if that doesnt do it push him off of you or something. He needs to listen to your crys, by the sounds of it hes not.
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