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writes:I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 years. We broke up 2 years ago and since then have gotten back together and broken up many times. In the meantime, I met someone else that I've seen off and on over the past 2 years. Neither knows of the other one ... The new one seems happy enough to get together every so often like every couple of weeks. I'm confused about my feelings and who I should stick with. I did love my boyfriend completely until we broke up 2 years ago and still do I rhink ... but it's different now and I am not controlled by him anymore. But at the same time, I can't quite let go of him and he is always wanting me around. But now I have feelings for this other person too ..I don't know what to do. Does anyone have an opinion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): i think what is happening here that your boyfriends want to have you 'around' as you said it yourself from now and then. Being at that age non of them want to be bothered that much by a very close relationship. They want it light and easy. Boyfriend #2 wants to see you every 2 weeks, boyfriend #1 wants to see you sometimes. They don't want anymore to chase constantly some strange women, so they have you around.But what do you want? Does it satisfy you? This off and on relationship with 2 men? if it satisfies you than it works for everyone, if you want something more like a boyfriend who sees you 2-3 times a week, and there for you on holidays and vacations, then you realy should stick with one guy.
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