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writes:my bf and i was having sex the other day when he wanted me to stick my finger up his bum, why did he want me to do this, he said he liked it mut my nails where to long, i was going to do it again last nite but he said nowhy did he want me to do it in the first place for me not to do it again Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): The reason he wanted it one night and not another is probably because it was all clear and clean up there that night, whereas it may not have been the next night (as he wasn't prepared thinking you wouldn't want to).
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (27 November 2008):
male G spot!
use a condom over your finger. use plenty of lube and enter his ass slowly. if you really dont like it, then tell him and don't do it. after all sex is a 2 way pleasure thing. it's not all about him! but give it ago and c how you go.
his Gspot is located about an inch or so up his ass towards his belly button. apparently a male G spot orgasm is real intense for them. so enjoy seeing him cum if you find it.
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reader, InterCntlCHmp  +, writes (27 November 2008):
Finger in the bum can be lots of fun; especially during a BJ.Lube up[ and put a condom over your fingers; use 1 finger at first and then two; insert and make a 'come hither' motion gently massaging his prostate. He'll go nuts a have a very powerful Orgasm.Have fun; you should be happy that you are in a relationship with open sexual communication; try things out and enjoy; be healthy sane and safe. Sex is supposed to be fun and we're supposed to try new things!!!
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reader, Kathh +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Men are creatures who like to experiment so he was maybe more in love with the idea rather than the reality. Talk to him! If he was keen on the idea it could be that the nails were too long so suggest cutting them.Must be short short for safety reasons and use lube, ensuring its a brand suitable for condoms.Some men love having things in their bottom and some don't so its a case oof talking honestly about it
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reader, MissUnique +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Maybe it was just a spur of the moment thing and he might not want to do it now. Talk to him about it, when you aren't having sex, and see why he wanted you to do it.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (27 November 2008):
 He was obviously in the throws of passion when he said it. Sex can be different each time and maybe he didnt get anything out of it like he thought he would the first time so he decided not to go there again. The only rule in sex is if both parties don't object to what they are being asked to do. Don't dwell on it, just enjoy yourself and things will be okay. hope this helps.
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