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writes:My boyfriend (who is 18) and I (turning 19 in a just a couple months) have been together for two years and lately, things have sort of... slowed down for us, sex-wise. It also kind of has to do with his mom wanting to interrupt us all the damn time (make sure we're not behaving like normal teenagers)! She's come up with these ridiculous rules like "leave the door open", "all lights are to stay on", "do not be on the bed together or under the covers together", "you are not supposed to wear only underwear when you have guests!", "be on the computer or watch a movie. I'm not going to condone sex in this household". She's a freak and I want to know how my boyfriend and I can get out of this. Especially since neither of us have cars.Also, what can he and I do to get ourselves "up" for it more often and mix things up?
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (21 November 2008):
god i hate how some parents are so OTT. it's ok if you are like 15 or something, but 18,19 it has to stop.
i had a similar sort of situation where an ex's mum always got in the way. one time we were having sex and she knocked on the door asking for the tv remote. luckily he had a lock on his door. but what a way to ruin the moment! parents need to learn to give space, especially when their son is a legal adult
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (21 November 2008):
 I remember all this! There isn't much you can do about it, unless the other person in the relationship has parents who are more laid back and don't mind.
I hate to say this, but it doesn't change until you have made the break and you are married!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 November 2008):
You are in her house so it's her rules I'm afraid.
You'll just have to learn to drive, or hurry up and get a job / go to college so you can have a place of your own.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (21 November 2008):
 Sweetie, having been treated in almost exactly the same way when I was dating my then boyfriend [now husband], and I have been married 26 years. Nothing changes!! I have subsequently found out from the parents of my daughters friends, that they are finding it hard to accept that their kids are sexual human beings. Find it hard to accept that they might have an active sexual life and find it hard to accept that they might be growing up!! Most parents nowdays still think of their kids as being very young and forget that they are now adults who have to go out into the world and make choices of their own. The best I can suggest is that you play it by her 'rules' when you are in her house, but if you get a chance to sneak off somewhere for some fun, do it!! It might make things more exciting for you!Honeygirl
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