A
male
age
30-35,
*r.Joe
writes:There is a girl that lives a considerable distance away from me and we text back and forth every so often. I've hung out with her a couple times and I want to ask her out, but every time I ask her to do something she is too busy. I know that she is very busy and I still want to ask her out. I don't really know what to do.I'm asking for some help please.
View related questions:
text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Mr.Joe +, writes (3 February 2011):
Mr.Joe is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you everyone for your help.
A
male
reader, Advice_man +, writes (3 February 2011):
 I think she doesn't seem to be interested. There is a limit on when to give up. You ask once, twice even three times max. But after that if you continue asking her out you are only diminishing your self-respect and you will not gain anything. You made your interest obvious. If she is interested be sure she will come. Best wishes!
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): If you have asked her quite a few times and she's always too busy I would take it as a sign to give up. She can only play hard to get for a while, I would forget it.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): If she wanted to go out with you, she would be taking these opportunities to hang out, etc. or suggesting another time when she wasnt so busy.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): umm keep asking her out til you land a date. i don't like guys who give up so easily.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): If she is telling you she is too busy then she probably doesn't want to go out with you. If she has time to hang out with you she has time to go out with you.
I would find someone else.
...............................
A
male
reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
 sounds like she already has some one that she is spending her time with. Look at the signs man, move on
...............................
|
