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writes:My boyfriend cheated on me we've been together for two years and i found out he slept with the girl he said that he realize he wants me but the trust is gone i thought he was a good guy what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Never give a cheater a second chance, because cheating is voluntary. Dump him immediately. Do not inform him that he is dumped. Your time must no longer be squandered away on him. If he approaches you in person, do not acknowledge him. Just speed dial 911 and file a nuisance complaint against him. He needs to go back to suzy or jane or whatever girl he noodled. A trustworthy man will show his face when you least expect it. Patience is all that you need. This boy is not your one. He can't be trusted again.
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (3 February 2011):
Sorry to hear your boyfriend has cheated on you, its a horrible feeling isn't it!
I personally think it may be a good idea to have time away from him and gather your thoughts. It is extremely difficult to forget something like this, even if you are able to forgive. Don't rush back into a relationship with him, if he loves you he will understand and give you space.
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reader, bernergirl +, writes (3 February 2011):
 Ugg! I know it hurts, I've been there. I know for me trust, honesty is important in my relationship. So it was a deal breaker! I would just say life is short. Spend it with people who really care for you. People treat you like you want to be treated....in other words, you are in control. Don't allow him to hurt you. Stay strong and let me know how you are.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 I'm sorry to hear about your situation...but its entirely your call now. If you think you can trust him and put the cheating behind you (provided of course he is 100% honest with you from now on), then you can give it a shot.
However, if you think that the trust is damaged beyond repair and you cant get things back to where they were, end it with him and move on. I know its easier said than done, but if you think you're constantly going to be fighting, and angry and hurt and depressed because of what he did, then its better to be without him than with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Break up with him. If he truly loves you, he will do whatever it takes to earn your trust back without you having to take him by his hand and lead him. Remember, he shit on you so you owe him nothing and especially not the privilege of being his girlfriend. If you want to go out with other boys, do it. He broke up with you when he shit on you. Live the single life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Break up with him. If he truly loves you, he will do whatever it takes to earn your trust back without you having to take him by his hand and lead him. Remember, he shit on you so you owe him nothing and especially not the privilege of being his girlfriend. If you want to go out with other boys, do it. He broke up with you when he shit on you. Live the single life!
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reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
 guys make mistakes. if you love him, you have to forgive him. Most men have cheated. its wrong but he is human.
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