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writes:Ok, heres the problem. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and it was ok for the first few months then as time went on we moved in together. When this happened i found little things that bothered me and made me feel insecure about our relationship. First i am a thick girl but not fat. He would constantly tell me to work out cuz he liked thinner woman, then sex was a joke, he was selfish. no foreplay, just wham bam thank you maam, his daughter graduated, he didnt invite me(said he didnt think about it), then eventually about 6 months into our relationship he never talked to me anymore, never spent time with me and yelled at me for anything and everything. Ive talked to him about all of this many, many times. I said your making me feel like you dont give a crap about me or my feelings. Can you please try to change these things your doing so i can feel like you still love me?He always said he would cause he does love me and changed it for a week and then went back to the same old same old.Im ready to give up and move on but keep thinking that maybe he doesnt realize hes doing this stuff to me. And maybe im just being stupid. My question is for the men out there. Can you please tell me why hes doing this? I need a mans point of view. Does he love me and just dont realize hes a dick? Or does he know and what is the reason??
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHank you guys, i knew what you would say before you said it. I know when i love someone i show them and id do anything for them. Thanks for the advice
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reader, dirtball +, writes (3 February 2011):
 Why is he doing that? Hard to say, but he does sound like a dick. Really, he sounds like he's using you. He doesn't love you. If he did, he wouldn't treat you that way.
Actions speak louder than words! His actions show his true feelings. I think you know what those are.
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