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Dating: Help and advice

I've dated a lot of jerks, but this game where he throws me out only to ask me back the next day is new.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - ive been with this guy for 7 months now. he seems to have a hard time opening up, and seems like someone who nevr really could want a relationship. im the idiot who chases him. so here's the situation.. we moved away from our hometown together, we ...

Does my girlfriend like another boy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Ok so i have been dating this girl for about 4 weeks now i really like her and would do anything for her she also likes me the same way.Well im just wondering if she is loyal to me? because i introduced her to a freind of mine and she couldnt stop ...

Am I killing the spark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Ok so Im going out w/ this guy "Josh". Josh seems cool and nice but im not rlly attractied to him...I rlly wanted a bf so i kinda jumped on the chance when he asked me out but the thing is Im just not rlly feeling it. Like the spark! Or even like a ...

How do you get the one you like to like you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - how do u get the one u like to like you..?? or how do u get a boiyfriend..?? i mean cuz i talk to my guy friends everyday and i still want to know how to get a boyfried if there not coming to you at the moment.. i mean dont get me wrong i do have ...

I'm so ticklish it interferes with intimacy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I'm in my late teens and have been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years now. We have been friends since childhood and so are pretty close, and are very comfortable just cuddling and watching a film, playing computer games, going to ...

Is it strange that my boyfriend says he loves me after two months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Hi guys. This may seem like a really silly question but it's something that has been on my mind for a few days. I've been dating this really great guy for about two months now and our relationship started getting physical a couple of weeks ago. Our ...

Are we dating/getting to know each other or are we just hooking up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Are we dating/getting to know each other or are we just hooking up? - known each other for four weeks - he's always followed up on everything he planned or said - he pays for everything (even though I offer and sometimes we split) - he never ...

I feel pressure to have a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I constantly feel this pressure from my friends,or the whole damn society that I should have a boyfriend. I've liked a couple of guys,but nothing happened because I didn't want to. I find love a bit stupid,because you just end up hurt. And I don't ...

I want to show that I'm interested, but not a creepy stalker

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Hi guys. Just need some advice about something that is slightly confused me. Last weekend I met this really sexy lady at a club where I work as a bouncer. The story was that This woman was outside the club with her friend (woman.) looking to grab ...

Troubled, Physiological Issues With Boyfriend. - Lying to me to keep me happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf now 5 months, when we started dating i thought he was just your average guy, nice, caring, sweet thoughtful..it was only week after week i would find out something new, he didnt tell me at the time because he knew i would be ...

My family says move on but he's my whole life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Me and my first and current boyfriend of almost two years were dating when I found out the shocking news that two and a half months ago he had cheated on me with my now Ex-best friend. I found out by her phoning me early in the morning and her ...

Why did my ex text me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - After 8 months of no contact, last week, my ex tried to call me, but I missed the call, later on that day, he texted me and asked me if I’m ok. I texted him back and said I’m ok and also asked him how he’s doing, he texted back and said he’s not ...

He's perfect but he's going to be a dad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Hey people any help would be appreciated, I'm seeing a guy for the past month now I'm 18 he's 21 and hes really nice,caring an all round good guy and basically everything I'm looking for right now. The only problem is he's expecting a baby...

Does she have a crush on me, or is she just ridiculously shy of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - A girl at my work has been there for almost 3 years. I've been there around 5, so I've known of her since she started. I think she is really beautiful and seems nice. Apart from a few rare exceptions, we've barely spoken to one another due to our ...

Is he just sparing my feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - To make a long story short, I met a man and neither of us had a desire to be anymore than friends. Well, we fell deeply in love anyway! He's 59, I am 51. We dated and were together for 8 great months untill he lost his job and couldn't find ...

Why did he stop calling me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I dated this man about four times, we didn't sleep together but we did really connect - or so I thought. He went to lots of effort wining and dining me and he always text the next day to say thanks for a nice night and how much he had enjoyed ...

If he don't please me, should I have to please him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend admitted that he only cares about his sexual plessure and that he isnt worried about me getting mine. witch explains why all this trying to convience him that i want more forplay isnt working. i tried to explain to him that the type of ...

Our sex life has disappeared...I think he's cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, sex was fine at first however he started having trouble keeping an erection during sex after 3 months. However, foreplay is not a problem. I confronted him about the erection problem...

Girlfriend asked for Space, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Hi: I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 and 3/4years, I'm 23 she's 18. Just 3 days ago, she asked for a break or to have her own space. I was completely blindsided with that request because it was unexpected. Initially when she told me, I r...

Should I try to contact him or is there a reason he hasn't gotten back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - So me and this guy went out a bunch at the end of this summer, he bought me dinner once or twice, we did some real fun stuff together. Then september rolled around and we're both at different unis, but in seprember the calls and txts were still ...

We're good friends, share much in common, and have mind blowing sex, but why not the commitment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I've in the process of getting a divorce from a toxic marriage the past few months. Back late last summer, I met a guy when I was out with some girlfriends. Though the first night we made out, we quickly just became friends after he learned a little ...

My bf broke up with me because he said he was getting too attached to me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Hi My bf broke up with me today saying like he is getting more involved and attached to me which is affecting his other things in life. So he wants to break up. How can he say like this, i can see we are prefect for each other. We literally comple...

She's had sex with her friend before, now he wants to meet her to "catch up" and this bothers me. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. All is grand. She used to have a best friend, a guy, who she maintains she was very close too. One night, they had sex, she insists it was a mistake, 'a complete one off' and tha...

She doesn't even care...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Uhm Hi. I'm only 16 years old, going on 17 and my girlfriend is the same age as me, though 8 months younger. I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 17 months. Things were really good when we started going out: she was really nice to me, she ...

Is he over her?

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8 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for well over a year now, and I feel very close to him and I know he loves me very much. The problem is that I feel he is in love with another woman too. She lives far away and when we first met, he told me openly how ...

Foul smell is too much for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Been in a relationship for slightly over a month. Things went on well till we made love the first time. She's got a foul smell which doesn't go even after she bathes. Am turned off and I want to quit. What's the best way to quit? ...

How can I get the girl I like to accept me? Is there even a chance of this happening?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - two boys and two girls. Boy B1, Boy B2, Girl G1 and Girl G2. B1 like G1 and B2 like G2. At this point, all of them are just friends, not in a relationship yet. Both boys treated both the girl they like equally. But the outcome is different. In th...

Has anyone reached my age with zero experience in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Dear agony aunts and uncles, I have yet to ever be in a relationship. I am 21 and gay, and incidentally have so many self-esteem issues. I don't know who to speak with, because i think expressing it vocally will only make my friends think I am ...

What should I get my nerdy gamer boyfriend for christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I don't know what to get my boyfriend for christmas, we've been dating for 8 months officially, but have been best friends, and are really very close. He is a nerd, he's a gamer like me, loves technology, but has mostly everything. i bought him a ...

Visiting my holiday romance but he wants to stay in the city, will he pay for this? How do I bring this up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4927 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I had a whirlwind holiday romance. He said he was going to come to England to visit me as soon as he could get time off. Since then he has kept in regular contact with me and things have been great with all signs that he is really into me. He had ...

Should I be completely open or wait for him to make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Hey guys! Okay i want to figure out if this guy likes me or not. He is a really sweet guy and just an all over great person, but im having trouble figuring out if he is interested. We do work together so im being cautious about the whole situation. ...

I need to take the best decision for my baby.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has stuggled with addiction for 16 years. Drug, alcohol and porn. We have know eacjh other for 15 years. We got together 2 years ago after reconnecting....he and i were so excited to be together...and everyday we worked as a team to ...

Now that he's single he doesn't want to be with me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I am a female who had been dating a married male of this same age group for approximately 18 months. my dilemna is, now that he is single he seems not to want to be with me and build a relationship. he was being very evasive about it all at first, ...

I'm falling in love with her and falling out of love with myself.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - I'm a shorter guy, 5'6 and 1/2. I've always been subconsciously self-conscious about my height but it's never really bothere me too much as it's taught me to grow in other areas such as a good sense of humor, empathy, my creative side, and ...

Should I wait till he comes to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Okay I just told the person that I have had a crush for an year 1/2 now. And it was really random I just kinda exploded and told him. He acted fine with it but it was akward talking to him after. I don't know what to do should I still talk to him or ...

If he's into me, why doesn't he just call me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - First, I apologize if this question is too obvious or stupid. But all through hs and well into college, I dated the same guy. That was 6 years of my life. I don't have dating experience, I'm awkward at it, etc. I would like your opinion on if th...

Sneaking around dating the professor, but I hate secrets!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I'm 33 and I just went on a date with my 38 year old professor. It's against school policy. Should I sneek around and risk him getting fired or back off? We text everyday constantly and we really like each other. I offered to drop out of that school ...

How can she say she love me and then say she wants to "try" other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Ok....I know I'm asking a lot of questions in a relatively short time but I'm stuck in a hard place at the moment....Ok so me and this girl went to her cabin with her family over the weekend. We where supposed to be "just friends" But last night I ...

How do I become a good girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - okay guys , please answer . I am wondering what guys like in girls . or how to be a good girlfriend ? what do you guys think is a good kisser ? please help !!!! [guys and girls answerthis one ) me and my boyfriend are gonna have our first dance ...

I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

8 November 2010 (M) - Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...

I'm tired of this double standard relationship. Is it time to let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - Here it goes. I've been with my bf for over two years. We have amazing chemistry unlike any I've known. He tells me daily he loves me, compliments me says the sweetest things at times to me. Also, speaks a lot of marriage. The problem is he's ...

I don't think I'm ready for sex!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I'm only 14, my boyfriends 15 and has had many different girlfriends. He's not a virgin anymore. I love him, I think... :S But we've actually negotiated a day to have sex (New years eve, 2011) and I said I would because I don't want to loose him. ...

Is our relationship failing? Is there a way I can get the spark back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - How can I get the spark back? Me and my boyfriend are in holiday in Barcelona and he just now said to me that through out this whole trip he hasn’t been happy with me and that he thinks that whatever he does, I will never be satisfied. That...

How might her ADHD affect our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

8 November 2010 (?) - hello every one now my gf has ADHD and i've been with her for well over a year she takes meds for it but i want to know because of her condition can it lead to problems with our relationship?...

Are we really working toward more in this relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 November 2010 (F) - I need your opinions on this please... I am in my mid 50's and have been dating a man who is also in his mid 50's. We met online about 4 months ago, he lives very close by, and we have been seeing one another occasionally ever since we met (it star...