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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend met my ex and really liked him but doesn't know he's my ex. Do I tell him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I met two guys at the same time last year. They don't know each other. I went out with guy A but didn't feel that 'spark.' Then guy B asked me out and the spark was definitely there. So I stopped seeing guy A and started seeing guy B. After about a ...

I feel like I can't trust him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I kinda need help my boyfriend thinks i'm mad all the time,i mean i kinda am but just cause his bestrfiend told me about some girl he used to date and how he went to go see her while i was at school. i feel like i can't ever trust him and he just ...

We both still love each other, but we're bored. Is there anyway we can save this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and tonight we came to an agreement that this just isn't exciting anymore. We've had discussions so many times before about whether we shoudl stay together and we usually do, but this time we both ...

Is euphoria necessary for love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I am in a bit of a strange situation and need to know if there is anything I can do to straighten it out. My very good friend and I were dating for almost a year. Earlier this year he broke up with me stating that he cared for me but he wasn't "d...

Help! Having boyfriend trouble...What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and I am confused as to what is going on. I havent been in a serious relationship in a long time and I dont know what to do. My boyfriend and I dont see each other that often he lives about an ...

In what way can I improve myself to become more attractive to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - About 6 months ago I got out of an awful relationship (although it was my first ever one) with a muslim girl; I'm a Hindu myself. Of course, the idea to get involved with her in the first place was not brilliant, however, I've always been ...

How can I make him trust me? I love him so much!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - hii everyone, thanks for taking the time to read my story. :) well i am with this guy for 9 months now and i am so in love with him i just cant do anything without thinking about him. its like he is my life now, i feel him next to me whenever...

He's in his 20s but his sex drive is down to nothing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - hey all! ive been with my boyfriend for 4yrs now, we have a 1 yr old daughter together. but the reason that im asking this embasasin question is because its bugging me! we had a fairly modern sex life up to 2 yrs ago. and now im lucky if i get it ...

How do I work with a relationship with such a big age difference.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I am 18...in love with a 48 year old man... We haven't told anyone about it... I'm really confused...I do love him and i wanna be with him more than anything....but i still don't know how it will work out... What should I do?...

I am 35 and don't want to feel I have wasted my life, what on earth should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - dear cupid. I have been in a relationship with my partner for 7 years, we have 2 children aged 5 and 2 years. The problem is that he is 42 and still lives at home with his mum, i currently live alone with my children, he looks after them a few hours ...

If he cant see himself with anyone but me for the rest of his life, then why is it so hard for him to fully commit to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years now, and living together for over 1 and a half years. We talk about the fact we want to be together forever, but when it comes down to him actually popping the question, he always is saying he ...

I'm having an affair with my friend's husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - i have been seeing a married man for 5 months who is separated from his wife but not divorced. he has kids with her though. he says he is in love with me but i find the situation tricky because his wife was my friend. what do i do? Do i run? I am ...

About my ex long distance relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - Why does she call me up some nights and fall asleep on the phone, I don't get it? And then some nights she does not call me up but the past three nights in a row she has called me up and fell a sleep on the phone with me, then last night she did not ...

Is there a reason I literally have no emotion towards anyone right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - About 2 or 3 months ago I broke up with a girl I had been dating for about half a year. I fell in love with this girl and felt things I had never felt before, but she left for college and we couldn't make things work between us because I have trust ...

I like my new girlfriend so much and a convinced I'll never cheat on her but I've made mistakes in the past so who's to say I wont again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (?) - My ex keeps trying it on with me whenever I go to her house even though I have a new girlfriend and I'm afraid one day I might give into temptation. I'm 20, my ex is 19 and my new gf is 18. I have a 10 month old son with my ex which is why I go to ...

How long do I wait? Or should I let him know I'd like to see him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Okay Dear Cupid I need your help! I went on a date with this guy who previously blew me off, I let him know it was his second chance but he wasn't getting a third. Well I didn't expect the date to go that well being as he blew me off before and I...

Unexpected boyfriend -- is it love or just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Last year i had an on again off again "thing" with a boy in most of my classes. Over the summer i became severly depressed and cut myslef off from the guy i liked. During the time we stopped talking one of my friends used the oppertunity to start a ...

I've fallen for my cousin's ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - I have become good friends with my cousin's ex for 10 months now. My cousin no longer contacts me because I kind of got involved during their break up. She asked me to do something and I asked him to go see her. He got mad and that was it. After the ...

"If You Really Loved Me you will.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Hello ladies and gentlemen I'm here to ask you a question. How many of you have been on a relationship where your bf/gf has pressured you to do something you REALLY didn't want to do and they would tell you "If you really loved me, you'll..." and ...

I'm upset about how he reacted to the gift

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - My BF and I are very close. He's very special and i care about him so much. Lately I been feeling like he doesn't really have much feelings 4 me when I tell him I don't like certain things. I been feeling like my feelings don't really matter. S...

Is this something you'd say to a friend, or is more interested than that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Hi - It seems that reading signs is not my main skill and in the past i consistently got everything wrong ! So i would need some external advice about this before I make a new mistake. We used to go out together for a while but things naturally...

I'm afraid I'll be rejected yet again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - I have recently started a course (I’m on Jobseekers Allowance so I have to be on this course) and there is a girl on the course I like but I’m afraid to ask her out. I’ve talked to her a couple of times during the breaks so I know she is single and ...

How do we have a relationship outside of samba drumming?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, Last year I had my heart broken, and found myself single again after a 10 year relationship. I decided at the time that I wasn't going to wallow in self pity and got myself out of the house and joined a group of people doing som...

Confused in New England.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - I'm currently in a unhealthy relationship for the past 8 years and was perfectly ok with it. Recently I have met an amazing women whom is 10 yrs younger that is in a relationship with someone for the past 6 years and own a home together. We have ...

Why is he so obsessed with her, what about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I feel like I shouldn't be asking people I don't know for advice and comfort, but I'm finding it hard to talk to my family about it and I just need some consoling now. I think I like a guy in my college who I've been dating for a few weeks/month ...

Turning a Bootycall into a boyfriend, can it be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Dear agony ants, I've been sleeping with this guy for 2 weeks, mostly after hanging out with him on the weekend. Sex is really good. We have been texting and e-mailing (FB) each other almost every day. When we're out together, he takes me to dinn...

Why the frosty attitude?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (?) - Hi All. I have been talking to this guy who goes to my college via facebook, we talk a lot and he told me he thinks im pretty nice and he knows i like him too. We have been talking every night for the past week on really good terms, just the ...

Why the big gaps between responding to texts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - This question is mostly for men but women feel free to answer too. I was texting this guy now and again and then after 2 weeks we went on our first date. It went really well, and for the first 2days after he would text me all day. Ever since he...

Guy friend troubles?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm 18. I met this guy in my university lectures two weeks ago. I've started to like him a lot as a friend, and maybe as a crush. And I know he likes me back too. I didn't reveal to anyone that I liked him whatsoever. However, my ...

I'm drained financially & emotionally by this guy....and I have no one to turn to now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Hi there.. I am a 19 yrs. Old girl. I feel all alone and cheated by my bf. I am still in a relationship with him, its been 2 yrs and want to seek your advise. I feel he cheated me financially and emotionally. Everytime i go somewhere with him...

She says she doesn't see us "that way"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - well ive been friends with this girl for about 5 yars we get along realy well she is amazing.... but ive developed feelings for her and last week dropped the bomb that these feelings were there..... and she just said she doesnt see us in that way...

What to do with his erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Hiya, been on a few dates with a guy and we made out pretty passionately on the last date and he got hard. I don't want to do anything literally below the belt as we haven't been going out that long. Should I just ignore it, ask him about it, tell ...

Getting rid of these sickening romantic thoughts for someone other than my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I have been really infatuated with a guy whom I admire a lot. Since a few days, I have been thinking so much of him even when I am doing my studies, work, cooking- anything. It's limerence I guess though I am not extremely crazy as to end up doing ...

Shy guy--should I just accept that if it was meant to be he would have made a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Ok, so there's this guy and today I'm going to go for it. We have a bit of history (in the form of me crushing on him 100% about a year ago) but after a few discussions with his best friend who I'm really close with, I have decided to talk to him. L...

I don't want to lose him but I will regret it if I never go out and do my own thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend since 8th grade some on and off parts but not many and I'm 19 now and have been having second thoughts. i know I love him. He is practically family but i don't think I want to be in a relationship this serious so young. ...

Am I an "intimacy-addict", or could this be the real thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I met a man about a month ago at a party, he was a friend of a friend - and we instantly clicked. The first night we spent time alone we went out for a nice dinner, had a glass of wine and then sat down by the pier for hours talking and listenin...

Whats the best way to say, "let's just be friends"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I just started seeing a guy. There was an original spark at the beginning, but after the third date, it felt that I was talking to a little brother that I never had, not a potential boyfriend. I'm new to the dating scene, so how do I let him down ...

I slipped a little and now my girl is with Mr. Loser

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - Sorry for the long question, but this is one seriously messed up situation and I would really appreciate any and all answers I can get. I'm a 19 year old college freshman. I live in the dorms and the most beautiful girl in the world (who is th...

Obsessed with this guy....what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I am 21 and I met this guy two years ago in the class. We talked a little and so I found his myspace and we started communicating through there. I told him that I liked him and he basically rejected me. He told me he didn't have time to be in a ...

I'm left waiting for him to set a time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - This guy will ask me out days in advance but he won't settle on a time until the day of, which is really really annoying because I can't do anything that day other than wait until he settles on a specific time. BTW, when he asks me out, I don't ...

My friends are all attached, I'm still looking and not finding anyone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - All of my friends are either in a long term relationship or already married and here I am, a few months shy of turning 25 and never had a relationship. Never even dated. The only experience I've had with being anything more than "just a friend" ...

Have I put him in a cage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rocky first year to our relationship where he screwed me over and lied about meeting up with his ex girlfriend. Since then he's worked so hard to regain my trust. However he's stopped seeing his female friends on a one to ...

Close pictures with other girls, acceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Just wondering when photos of your boyfriend close with other girls (as in faces touching close) becomes unacceptable? Is it normal drinking behaviour for guys to go out and take close pictures, or is it a sign of something more? I have asked that ...

My boyfriend has a crush on another girl!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - So I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month and before he meet me he had a crush on this girl. Recently I found out that he still has a major crush on her, he also wrote on her facebook wall that she was gorgeoous...she I be concerned?...

How do I show her what she's missing out on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - Hey I'm really interested in this girl but I just don't know what to do. She seems really interested. We talk all the time or at least try to. I think she might be involved with some other guy but I'm not sure I was going to ask her more but how can ...

Need to focus, but not on her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - Hello Everyone, I am just overcoming a bad breakup and I now like a girl who caught my interest with her personality. At first she seemed very sincere and caring which drew me in. I am not sure if she likes me back. I think she does because ...

My gf wants to go to a winter ball with another guy and I don't know what to say!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - Since I am in college and my girlfriend is still in high school she asked me if she could go the winter ball at another high school. I told her yes and why she even had to ask me. She then tells me since the ball is at another school she can't go ...

Do you think he cares?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy, We been hanging out/seeing each other for almost 6 months now. We act like were dating, But were not officialy because my age, Im almost 18 and he's 22, I always had a thing for older guys, I'd rather meet someone that cares about ...

I want the relationship to be like when I was home

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - I am currently in college about 2 hours away from home, so I see my girlfriend once every couple weeks if I'm lucky. Since I have left she texts me continuously and tells me how much she misses me. I don't have a problem with that, but it seems ...

A friend said my crush didn't like me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I mostly hang out with guys although i have a few girl friends. recently my girl friend made me realize i had a crush on one of them without realizing it. when it told 'john' one of my guy friends he asked the guy i liked if he liked me. 'john' told ...

He says I'm "perfect". Should I be flattered or is it going too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I split from my boyfriend 8months ago due to cheating and lying. So ever since i've been pretty cautious with guys, as i dont want to go through that again. Two weeks ago I went to watch the rugby at a bar and when the match finished, a guy approach...

I'm becoming a nervous wreck to the point where my mind plays tricks on me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I'm becoming a nervous wreck because I can't trust my boyfriend, please help? I keep looking at my boyfriend's past messages and looking for times that he may have said something he shouldn't have to another girl. I've been looking through his...

Mixed signals, how to interpret?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - Hi All, I am a girl in my twenties. At the beginning of this year I met a guy who shared a common grad class with me. At the same time he met another girl and they entered into a relationship. Although this guy had his gf yet we turned into best of ...