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Dating: Help and advice

I'm sick and bored of every day. I've never been in love and I'm turning 22.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - I'm sick and bored of every day. I've never been in love and I'm turning 22. I'm sick of going to lectures, studying, and then coming home. Every day, nothing happens. I don't meet new people because I'm too big of a loser to go out socializing. ...

Is it strange that me and my fiance don't shower together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - My Cousin stayed the weekend with me and my Fiance recently and we had got done making Dinner and he went to take a Shower and my Cousin says 'your not gonna take a shower with him' and i say No 'Why and she says have you ever showered together, i ...

Where's this relationship going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Where's this relationship going? I met a guy from a post I made on a listing site. Basically I wanted to go out/hang with someone. He seems decent and respectable. I dont know him well, he could be a total creep honestly (glass half full). But he ...

I swallowed his cum but it burned my throat. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Okay, the other day my boyfriend and I were having sex and he came inside of me, (Didn't use a condom-I'm on the shot.) and it burned really bad after. Then, I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and I swallowed and it burned my throat (its the first ...

What do I tell her when I ask her out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - Simple question. Do I tell her exactly how I feel, or do I just ask her out? Or both? Thank you....

Is he giving me a hidden message/hint or is what he's saying legitimate?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Been seeing a married man for the past 10 mths. He has broken up with me three times (he rekindles us each time after a few weeks). He’s stuck on the theory that it’s unfair and selfish of him to expect me to wait around for him when he’s home with ...

He's not picking up my calls or replying to any of my texts... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Hi Me and my bf argued and had a fight 2 days ago because of him avoiding me often. Now he is not picking up my calls and not replying back to any of my texts. What should i do now. Please someone help me....

I HATE my body... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I hate my body, it's horrible and one sight of myself can make me deppressed. I have a boyfriend and i'm scared to sleep with him because i don't want him to see my body. I weigh 10 stone and my stomach is much bigger where as my legs are thin. I ...

I'm becoming a wreck... I don't know what's going on any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 10 months now, long distance, im planning on seeing him in decemeber, we use to talk on the phone for hours at a time, now it comes down to him on the computer on the site imvu talking to like girl after girl, ...

2 years together... how do I move on? I'm heartbroken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - How Do i Move On from my Ex Girlfriend? -we dated for two years and in early september she left to college. we didnt break up but at the same time we didnt say it was over. its been two months since i seen her. and now she barely talks to me, she...

I Can't let my escort/girlfriend go...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - I don't know where or how to start. I am so emotionally messed up. I'm 40 years old and I met this girl who is an escort and fell in love with her. The first time I slept with her I knew nothing about her life of prostitution. She was a 27 year old...

My married lover wants me AND her husband! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - hi, i am sumit and I would like to ask a question. I am a 26 year old man, unmarried but I have a married girlfriend and I can't live without her, thing is she doesn't want to leave her husband OR also me. what do I do? Please tell me urgently......

What to do about my so called friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Me and my ex broke up, now one of my best friends is dating him, at first i said no big deal but now i really care sumthing can up between the two of them and he told me he was using her to get over me. I geuss he still loves me and cares about me ...

So should I tell her and end the friendship. Or just suck it up and see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Hi. So I met this guy online about 3.5 years ago. Both of our profiles said looking for a serious relationship. We corresponded via email for a couple of months and then dated for about 4 months. I am a single mom and at the time I worked 2 jobs. ...

Why do guys seem to lose interest for no apparent reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I'm wondering why guys just sometimes seem to lose interest for no apparent reason? I have been out on four dates with a guy I rally liked and everything seemed perfect. He was making lots of effort by taking me out to dinner and cooking for me. We ...

He's in love with my best friend, but still wants to date me..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and this guy who wants to date me is 17. I admit I do like him a little. But he also admits he loves my bestfriend, and she loves him back. But, she is with a guy, who the love eachother. I don't wanna date him, cause he's in love with my ...

Do guys accept small breasted girls?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I am a very petite girl with small breasts size cup A. My boyfriend told me he love me for who I am and always kiss and fondle with my small breasts but I feel so sad for him as I think that he loves bigger breasts. I start to feel ashame of ...

Nightclub questions for the ladies.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, I've just signed up here so this is my very first post. Probably wont be my last though! :o). I'm curious for the female perspective on this, but i'd welcome feedback from anyone. I'm 32 and been been single for 2 years now, so ...

Why do I feel so guilty about watching porn by myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - My partner and I both watch porn but I prefer to watch it seperately as i feel uncomfortable watching it with my partner and i like to be soley with him when we are together. i know he would like to watch it together but he doesnt press me to watch ...

Chemistry and clicking...does it go both ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I am single and have been dating a lot this past year. Last week I had an amazing first date with this guy. Going into the night, I knew we had a bunch of interests in common, but I tend not to have high expectations wit...

He wasn't the one for me, yet I was so into him - why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Here's a description of this guy I dated 2 month and who just ended it with me: - he's 33, smart, well-travelled, athletic and very attractive - he's had many gfs but has never lived with one - his ideal Friday and Saturday nights are goin...

What's the perfect gift for a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - What do you think is the 'perfect gift' for a guy from his girlfriend ?...

The Center of Her World

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - Here is my question, plain and simple. How should a guy approach his girlfriend when she thinks that he is the center of their world? When I began dating my girlfriend, the center of her life was diverse and balanced. She took time to be with ...

We have nothing to say to each other anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for 11 months. we used to talk for hours about everything, laughing and smiling, but now we just have nothing to say. we don't make each other laugh or smile as much, and we've talked about it, but we don't ...

How do I move on when I have to see him daily at work? It hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I've been dating him for four months, problem is his ex is always around, they do things together that sometimes i feel left out. He told me not to worry abt it coz she s just a friend, i get so jealous, so angry and i cry so hard..its like im not ...

How do I approach my boyfriend about these butt comments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were watching tv, and there was a shot of a girl with a big butt bending over. And he makes the comment "she ain't got any kind of panties on". Now in the past I have gotten upset at him oogling over YouTube videos of girls ...

Confused between 2 guys and wondering what people will think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I am confuse and in love with 2 guys.... how do i choose? I am 21 and have been with my bf who is 25 for 18months and i think i have feelings for a 31 year old and i dont know who to choose? I started dating the 31 year old for 6 months then lef...

I'm confused over the crush on my friends sister..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - Hi,i'm 30 years of age and really feel confused about a friends sister whose been flirting on and off with me.On a couple of occassions she's kissed me (not the opposite way around). Even at parties other people ask if we're together because we seem ...

Yikes!!! Boy trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I just met this guy at a friends party and we got chatting, we hit off straight away and I knew as soon as I saw him he looked like my next boyfriend! So we were gonna swap numbers but never got round to it. My friend gave me his number and h...

How do I be confident around girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I've been waiting for soo long, everyone tells me to wait, the right girl will come. That was almost three or four years ago. I'm sick and tired of this. Some advice on how to be confident around girls would be appreciated. THanks!...

I'm afraid I'll end up in love with him and he'll start going out with his ex again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I recently started liking a guy from work. He became my friend and we talked and hang out together outside from work. He just got out of a bad relationship turns out his girlfriend cheated on him with his best friend and ...

I love him...He loves her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I love him! But he loves her... How do I let him know my feelings without being rejected? I am a sophomore in high school and there is this senior boy I have fallen head over heels for! I met senior boy last year during cross country last y...

In love with bandmate who is dating my other bandmate now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - I'm in this band for about a month now and I've grown very fond of my bandmates, especially our female lead guitarist. Just yesterday I found out that my friend who is the rhythm guitarist asked her out and now they are dating. It pisses me off ...

I don't know how to get a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - hello i am a 15 year old sophmore. the last time i had a boyfriend was in 7th grade. i feel so left out all my friends have had their first kiss had a ton a boyfriends while im just alone and dont have anyone special. and i am starting to lose hope ...

Do I have a high tolerance for pain and just don't like sweet romantic stuff?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I'm not quite sure how to put this, so I'm gonna do my best. From the beginning. When I was younger, I used to have a lot of fun with my friends. We'd play and talk and have all sorts of adventures together. One such game we used to play involved ...

Husband has me under lock and key I'm not happy but worry about our son

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - my husband and i dated for about 2 years , found out we were pregnant, got married when i was 5 months pregnant had a beautiful boy,about 10 months after we had our boy we separated for about 7 or 8 months and durring that time i started to see ...

Betrayed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I had dated for a little over a year, and we were originally matched together by a mutual friend from high school. This mutual friend was an former ex of my boyfriend's. Now I knew at the beginning that my boyfriend and his former ...

Broken hearted, he's become a player, how can I get him to fall in love with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - this is the thing: i like this guy a lot. he has a broken heart and he's become a player, even his friends are worried about him because he's not like that. i have a broken heart too, but i solved it from a different approach: faith, so i'm good ...

I'm a tomboy but realized how much appearance can influence someone's impression of you!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - Hey guys, first of all I would like to thank each and everyone of you in advance for your help. Second, I apologize for my grammar as english is not my native language. Well, here it goes. I've always been the "tomboy" I wouldn't take it to the extr...

Has anyone ever been in an out of balance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - Basically, I'm sick of feeling like crap about myself. I have been with my girlfriend for approximately six months. We have been taking things very slow. We haven't slept together, our affection is limited to quick hugs and pretty much closed ...

How do I make him feel special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I can't describe how I feel for him . he makes me happy , I get weak-kneed whenever he's around , and I just want to stay with him forever . I want to give him a blowjob or handjob , butt I know he hasn't gone through puberty yet and I'm just so ...

I cannot have a woman - how I can get rid of my feelings for women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - I'm a 36 old guy who never had a girlfriend,has never been friend of a woman and of course never had sex. I understood long time ago that it's impossible for me to have a woman(unless I don't look for the ugliest) and that no woman will never li...

My g/f's mom won't let us be together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (?) - my gf mom's will never let me be with her daughter. my gf says its impossible to talk to her as an adult (my gf is 18) to get her mom to change her mind. what can i do i tried talking to her but her mom always tries to block me from the conversation ...

Three guys and I don't know which one to date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - hi,i started dating this guy, then he lied about his age, and now has decided to live with his childhood sweetheart and his 1 year old kid which he didnt know about this was about 9 months ago, Now There are three guys that like me and want to date ...

I'm ready for my kiss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating since the 5th of november . I'm ready to kiss him , butt I'm not sure how to . I've never had my first kiss and he's shorter than me , which just adds to the butterflies . I really think I love him . can someone ...

Am I truly in love with her or just feeling rejected?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

7 November 2010 (M) - How do I know if I am in love with my gf of two years and it didnt hit me until we broke up? We have been dating off and on for two years and when she broke up with me the first time it didnt seem to bother me and i wanted to date others thinking ...

How can I address the problems in my relationship in the right way, rather than always trying to break off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of three years (on and off) told me he can't trust me with his heart. He says my feelings are too "wishy/washy." My feelings always remain the same...I love him, however, I do not know how to handle problems so instead of dealing with ...

If my quiet social life bothers him so much, why does he still want to be friends with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - I met him on a dating site and dated him for 2 months. The first month things were going really well and we were spending almost too much time together. The second month is when things started to go downhill especially after telling me he wanted to ...

My boyfriend is verbally controlling and abusive. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

7 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is 19....4 years older than me. hes such a gentleman bt hes verbally controlling and abusive. weve been engaged for 4 months now and were planning a family. i dnt know if i should stay or go...