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Dating: Help and advice

Long Distance - Not Allowed - Relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - So I had a very serious relationship last year and it ended in July 16, 2010. After my ex and I broke up we didn't talk for awhile, and he got a new girlfriend and everything and he started talking to me again and he still had strong feelings for ...

Getting married soon and have never had sex before... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - hi im 23 years old and about to get married to my boyfriend. We haven't had sex before. The problem is that i dont know anything about sex, how does this operation start, what happens in it, how does it end, what is the couple doing during it,...

Are my reasons for wanting to end this whole thing and never enter into a relationship with him again reasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of four months around one month ago. We had been friends for three years before finally deciding to go out, so we decided to go back to being friends. It turned out that we ended up being "friends with benefits". ...

How do I get him to prove he's been cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I was tidying his room today and found a reciept for a hotel room from 2 weeks ago, 6 Nov 10. The hotel is in the city centre which is about 10 minutes from his house so I know he wouldn't have stayed there ...

Is there something mentally wrong with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - So listen i been dating this guy for a year and some change. Well it's been a rough patch. A week before sweetest day i broke up with him, He was very verbally abusive and talked about my child, not to mention I was pregnant with his child. Well ...

What more can I do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I decided not to have sex till we're married, its hard though, but we're coping. We do do other things like fingering, muffing, licking and sucking her boobs. But i want to know what more can i do to pleasure her without having ...

Trying to squirt... what am I doing wrong???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but we've known each other since we were 15. we were talkin about our sexual experiences and he brought up squirtin, something I have never done but hes made females do. so one night we decided to ...

Help!!! Should I tell my boyfriend that my ex tried to call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - My current boyfriend who I am seeing for 7 months now used to be my bestfriend. There is no secret he doesn't know especially about my ex who I have struggled so much to forget for almost a year. Anyway, he helped hasten my coping up with the brea...

Stuck between two men!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Ok, so i have been dating ben for 2 years now, i am 15 and he is 16, he was also the first guy i was intamate with. But, for the last 3 months we have been getting to comfortable with each other, i feel as if i am one of the guys when were alone and ...

Do I wait another 5 months on him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - As I've said in another question, I've been with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. Like quite a lot of people I'd assume, he's been in his fair share of trouble. About 6 months ago he finished a 12 month prison sentence, and ha...

We both want different things in life... help!

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20 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a dilemma and I need some advice off someone who doesn't know me so cant judge or show biased views. I've been with my fiancée now for 2 and half years and to say it's been rocky is an understatement. I know there is...

I know I don't want a baby right now... so why do I keep thinking of them???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - So, babies! To start at the beginning (obvious, right?) I didn't have the most amazing childhood, and my parents didn't have the most amazing marriage (I know no one has things perfect but I would have at least wished for 'average') Be...

Should I stay with my girlfriend who has love addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (M) - I have a dilemma: I think my girlfriend has love addiction. I have been dating this woman for over a year now. She is 44 and I am 47. I have discovered that she has been in lots and lots of relationships before we met, some lasting a few days to ...

Relationship has broken down over trust issues, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Well I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend, it just turned 1 year and 9 months. The problem with out relationship is that he doesn't trust me. I don't know why though. But what really is bothering me that he doesn't trust me with my bestfriend. I ...

Has he lost interest, moved on, what??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we've been apart for the past month but have lived together for four months proceeding him leaving and were a couple. He's gone to the other side of the country for four months so that he can renew ...

Why is my gf so moody or is it me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (M) - Hello dearcupid and everyone else on it. I've just been having some girlfriend issues lately and was wondering if anyone could shed some light on this.. See, there's my girlfriend; She's really, really hypersensitive and when I like to...

Give it another go with the ex and move on to the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Hey lovely Agony Aunts, I've wrote a few times about my Marine (ex) boyfriend.. quick background: we started dating this summer, I couldn't have been more excited, everything was PERFECT. He went back to his base and everything fell apart. He s...

Do I ask him outright if he is seeing someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy on a dating site, we have been seeing each other since september,i really like him, only see him once or twice a week as we don't live near each other and he works late afternoons, i know it's not very long, but i know he is still on ...

Gifts for a 14 year old boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - me and my bf have been dating for 2 years now and i dont know what to get him for christmas and i dont know what he is getting me and i need some ideas for christmas gifts for a 2 year relationship and me and him are both 14....

B/f asked me to change my plans, why can't he change his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend works long hours on weekdays with the weekends off. So this saturday, he's spending the entire day with a friend and wants to see me sunday which is my cousin's birthday. I told him I'm sorry but couldn't, he asked me if I ...

Will I get bored with just one man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I have a rather complicated question, to be honest I think I am looking for reassurance rather then an answer. I have struggled for a few years with my mental health due to this I decided not to interact romantically with men,I knew that I was ...

Why can't I meet a man my age with the same level of inexperience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - How come I can't meet a man of my age with the same level of "inexperience"? I wouldn't mind if he is younger than me as long he is over 21. But I was raised not to take sex sightly and do it with people you are in love with. that doesn't seem the ...

Date 7 - talk about being exclusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, The guy I'm dating hasn't said anything about get getting exclusive and this wk we have Date 7. I know he's a guy who probably should stay a bachelor. Very busy, has tons of friends. Should I tell him on our date what I want - to be so...

Boyfriend is away and my feelings for my best friend are growing stronger

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - hi there, well i have a problem i'm dealing with right now. my boyfriend is out of the city for a couple of months doing a recruting thing, honestly before he left he really didn't say "i love you" as often as i wanted to hear it and right now i'm ...

My boyfriend of three years keeps breaking promises

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I am a 21 year old college student, who has been dating the same guy since my freshmen year. I am now a Junior in college. My question is about my boyfriend and how he makes broken promises. Basically he has made plenty of broken promises, he is the ...

How do I meet women with moral fiber?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (M) - I'm not a bad looking guy; I'm just angry all the time. Nobody really knows that I'm angry. It's not like I walk around growling, breaking things and shaking my fist at little kids. The problem is that when it comes time to be happy or talk to ...

Sex used to be a pleasure now it's just a chore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - so i have been dating my ex foe about 7 months, hes 31 and im 29 and just recently broke up(at his request) mainly because i dould not give him "head" everyday or whenever he wanted it, or out in public, in the parking lot of the mall, la fitnes ...

Does she want me to be her boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (M) - I met a perfect girl. She gave me her number so we could discuss a thing I had for sale but that same night we talked about much more. This would happen many times; we'd text from 4 pm till 1 AM. She had a bf at the time but ...

Is it wrong for me to look inside my boyfriends phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Is it wrong for me to go in my boyfriend phone? My boyfriend laid his phone down so i picked it up and went in it i saw women pictures text saying when u coming back to see me and him telling someone he love them and the woman saying she love him ...

I don't know if my girl is being genuine and faithful to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (M) - First of all, thank you for taking the time out of your life to hear and possibly help mine. This is a really long and possibly boring story, but it's a story that I need to be looked at and told what to possibly do. It's driving me crazy. Comments ...

Did I blow my one chance with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (M) - I met this girl in my program on a week long field trip last month. I met her formally the first night when a few of us went to watch the movie but really hit it off with her the 2nd night at a bar with everyone on the trip. We broke away to another ...

How to Approach a Guy without looking desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I've known this normally outgoing, confident guy for about 6 months and our relationship kinda goes like this: we ignore eachother and stare when we don't think the other person's looking. Then by chance, one of us will say something and we'll spend ...

Why do these guys talk bad about some girls when I think they actually like them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - my question is confusing, but its important to me to know so any advice i get i appreciate. i dont understand why some guys call girls who do crazy things like; "trains" or sleep with whoever wants some; they call them foul names and make fun of t...

I don't understand what I have to do to get a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (M) - I don't understand what I have to do to get a girl. I mean, I understand, but I don't want to do certain things. I think I suffer from nice guy syndrome. Let me try to explain. From what I've noticed in my years being alive, when I meet peop...

Have I read too much into his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - does he like me??, he flirts with me like tapping my shoulder, pulling my foot, and putting his hand in my face lol and recently i was drunk and hugged him and he kissed my cheeck which gave me little butterflies in my tummy lol. then i got all...

My girlfriend lives with another guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

20 November 2010 (M) - My Eastern European Girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We used to live together but because my job means I am now away for a lot of time time she has moved in to a flat with 3 of her freinds - two girls and a guy. She has addmit...

How do I approach him on the phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Hi. I used to like a guy in my class a lot while at school. Since I am a kind of very shy girl, I never talked to him about this. Our conversations were largely related to studies and career. Though it has been many years now and we are hardly ...

Where is the best place to look for a "decent" guy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Hi guys I would like some advice please. Every guy I am interested in, sadly has a colorful past. Way too much for my taste. I have tried different environents even at church! And those men still have secrets that you can't imagine! Anyway, I ...