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writes:After 8 months of no contact, last week, my ex tried to call me, but I missed the call, later on that day, he texted me and asked me if I’m ok. I texted him back and said I’m ok and also asked him how he’s doing, he texted back and said he’s not ok. Then I texted him back and said that I’m sorry, hope he can forgive me for putting him through the pain. Then I have not heard from him. I thought that he has already forgotten about me and has moved on. I was really surprised and happy that he contacted me, but what I don’t understand is how come he didn’t respond when I said “hope he can forgive him” ?? Why did not contact me the first place ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): He still likes you and he didn't finish all of his feelings he has with you. He might not of dealt with it properly and still needs clouser. Be weary you guys broke up for a reason. Good Luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): I would bet because he still cares. I also think he didn't respond because he hasn't gotten over the pain of the break up. He might not necessarily want to get back together either. Its just a nice gesture on his part to see if your ok. I wish I could communicate with my ex. Lucky you guys are on speaking terms.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (8 November 2010):
 So did you finish with him? If you put him through pain and want forgiving for it?
He hasn't contacted you back because he is afraid of getting involved with you again, I think. And we all know how easy it is, after a break, to fall back with someone.
He texted you because he was having a weak moment, I think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): perhaps all he needed was your apology. Or perhaps he re-evaluated the advisability of contacting you.
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