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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend says there is something like weird about me physically.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says there is something like weird about me like physically. But idk if he is being serious and it is really starting to like freak me out. Because i do have quite a low self esteem when it come to people making fun of my body. And i ...

I feel lost. It feels like my boyfriend does not love and appreciate me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I feel lost. It feels like my boyfriend does not love and appreciate me anymore. We've been together 3 years. It just seems he's more excited by talking to his friends than me. We'e doing long distance for a few weeks now because I am student. But ...

Am I crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - Am i crazy for not wanting my girlfriend to have guy friends. she told me before that she doesnt want guy friends but she recently decided that she wants to start haging out with guys. she thinks i dont trust her but i do. We've been together 5 ...

Hey, I'd love some advice, especially from guys out there, about whether it's good to play a little hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice, especially from guys out there, about whether it's good to play a little hard to get or not. I've been with my new bf 2 1/2 months. We both work shifts, so don't get to see each other too much. I really like him. He ...

Should I give it a little more time to see what he's thinking or should I make some kind of move to let him know how I feel.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I'm recently divorced after a miserable 15 year marriage. I never cheated on my husband, but I never loved him so I've been 'emotionally divorced' for years and ready to move on with my life! I recently connected w/ an old friend. We've chatted ...

I trust her 100% and she trusts me 10%

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I like this girl but I can’t seem to get to really know her. I have been with this girl for 5 months and getting any kind of personal information is like the most impossible thing I have ever done in my whole life. I just feel like I’ve told her ...

He kissed me at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I was having a bad day, new job new city, overworked/stressed, very sad missing my sister, my little brother, etc., When all of a sudden my guy friend/co-worker (whom until this moment seemed oblivious to my emotional hang-ups) pulled me into a ...

I love her so much but sometimes I think about her getting hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about three or four monthes now, I love her to death, I'm in love with her, she's the most amazing person I've ever met, and we live about 4 1/2 hours away from each other, and I recently told her all the ...

I love him so much, I can't live without him! Am I clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I am in total love with my boyfriend, he is perfect in everyway for me and obviusly were going to have some fights, of course its natutal, but we alwasy fight over stupid things, and i think its because of me, we only ever really fight over the ...

I made the mistake of hooking up with this guy that I've been dating for three weeks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I made the mistake of hooking up with this guy that I've been dating for three weeks last weekend. We had been seeing each other 2-3 times per week (so it was plenty of dates) and he seemed nice, respectful and interested. I thought it would be okay ...

Prostitute girlfriend crazy emotional situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - This is a crazy trip and one which I have ridden probably for too long but here goes: I met this girl in a lap dancing club and had a VIP with her and could not keep my hands off her. She eventually at the end of the night broke the house rules ...

His feelings for his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - its all about his feeling for his ex who he knew her since they both were so young, but she died, and that was like six years ago, since then he's tried to find her in someone else, lied himself its her, but he couldn't lie til end, so i say he ...

How do we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I am asking for help on how to make my relationship work. I have a girlfriend for more than 6 years already and we had a son at an early age. So after graduating, we decided to prioritize our own careers and were very distant from each other. I am a ...

I'm trying my hardest to make things okay again, but I don't know the next step.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I suppose this is a longer story, but I'll try and keep things concise. I would just post the question straight up, but without proper insight on what has happened, the advice I get may not be what I'm looking for :) So here it goes: My girlfr...

Is it okay or even beneficial to flirt within a male-female friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - OK, I have another question. I have a friend who is female who I have a bit of a crush on. There are problems with the relationship as I stated in my other question which I recently posted. But throughout our friendship, I want to set boundaries. ...

Does he fancy me? I hope not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - One of my guy friends fancies a girl, and, as usual, me and loads of the other girls have been trying to get him to tell us who. One of his friends has been joking that it's certain girls who we know it wouldn't be, or at least presume he wouldn't ...

Guys, would this put you off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Question mainly for the guys but general opinion as well. If a girl who has never had a boyfriend and is in her late 20's, very quiet and shy, just goes to work and it easy going and doesn't have any real friends like from school or work would th...

He asked me to hug him like I mean it. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - iv'e been talking to this guy for 5 months now who just got out of a relationship and he comes over everyday and just lastnite he hugged me and told me to hug him like i mean it. i don't know if he's into me or is just being friendly ? (help would ...

I don't want to mess up my first ever date!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (?) - Hello, this is going to sound sad but i've been asked out to go to the cinema with this guy from college. I know him, but we only speak online so it's kind of awkward. I'm 16 and it's like my first ever date if thats what this is. I'm seriously ...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Im a chinese divorced woman met this Englishman 18 years older than me. I love him and try my best to learn English. We've been together for 2 years but we dont live together. My english improves a lot but there is still misunderstanding ...

He called me fat!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...

How come I feel like something’s wrong and he’s being really distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Right now I’m in a 3 month relationship and everything is working out for the most part. He just got his license and is looking for a job. I have had both things for a while and started new job. Anyways our relationship started out great, we texed ...

We don't speak the same language!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I'm in love with a chinese girl and I believe she loves me also. She doesn't speak English. I don't speak chinese. We can only communicate through email, mobile and friends (interpreters). What should I do?...

What should I do now? I'm reluctant to text or call again and I really am not into mind games....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy on a night out last Saturday, my friends informed me that he kept 'checking me out' i'd just arrived at the pub as he had with his friends. He then came upto me knelt down besides me in front of my friends and told me that he liked ...

Whats going on in his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I need help im seeing this guy that i thought i liked untill he gave me mixed signals...one day hes showing affection towards me and always looks at me when talking and then the next day he has no interest in me only glances when i ask a ...

I can't put up with this abuse any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - Well me and my baby's dad been together for 5 years, and a little after a year he started throwing things at me, yelling at me, now its kicking me, socking me in the side of my head and at times he does it in front of our kids and he only does it if ...

I think I'm wasting both of our time because I love her but am not in love and don't think I ever will be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - Please take a minute and help me try to find an answer to this insanity I feel I am living in. I have been dating a gal for a little over 6 months. She is 28, I will be 32 next month. We had been online friends for nearly 5 years before we started ...

Why do these thoughts pop in my head about my girlfriend getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - this is more of a pshycology question, why do random thoughts pop into my head??? and why can't I control my own mind?? some thoughts pop into my head, and they're thoughts I'd never think of otherwise, because one is of my amazing girlfriend ...

Is she interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (?) - I can't figure out if the girl I have been dating is interested in me or not. She tells personal things, she really opens up to me, and we have a great time together. We've slept together a few times, but not had sex, I've never made a move, and I ...

Out of love and feeling depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - It's been a while since I was in a relationship face to face; in the flesh. I'm a strong women and I can take care of myself. And I'm also independent. But now, i've been depress because all around me I see couples, and I've long to be with my ...

What could be the reason for her change of attitude?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - I'm slightly confused at the moment, i've known this women for 2 years now,the first time we met we hit it of well, not to sound corny but we sensed something in eachothers eyes, she flirted with me by always looking deeply into my eyes, always ...

Is wrong to have a boyfriend but to practice sex with a friend to get ready for boyfriend?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend now but one of my guy friends wants to be friends with benefits. I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but is it wrong to have a friend with benefits to practice for my boyfriend?...

We've been dating for a year and I'm ready for sex! How do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - hi I am a virgin 16yr old and really want to have sex with a boy. Right now I really fell in love with one but I dont know how to to tell him that I am ready (we have been dating for 1 year now ) it be great if you could help thanks :) ...

Kissing in public

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - Hi I am 14 and I have a girlfriend, I really want to kiss her properly next time we meet in the city... we will be with friends... can someone advise me on the appropriate steps to kiss her in public? we hold hands in public, by the way she is ...

My therapist says that my boyfriend should marry me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

4 November 2010 (F) - I started seeing a therapist a few weeks ago for weekly sessions because I'm working on my confidence level that's been down because of unemployment. Told the therapist that things are going well, besides the financial side, which is taking it's ...

Is she confused or just plain upset that I didn't propose to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over five years. Last spring we moved in together, and things seemed fine. Three weeks ago I came home and she told me she wasn't happy and she didn't want to be with me any more, and she said she ...