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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend likes to make me jealous to make himself feel better

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I am 22-years-old and I'm in a relatively new relationship with a guy. We are going on 4 months together, and we've already said "I love you" to each other and I really feel like it's true. My question is about his possesiveness. The other day I ...

I'm getting threatened because I think I'm not good enough. Is it just paranoia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Im having trouble with my boyfriend I love him a lot, and he says he loves me back, and we've been going out for 9 months now, so i feel like i can trust him, but recently we've got a bit distant and i dont see him as much. He's a twin and My best ...

Is it terrible to stop liking someone because they are fat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Right, I like this girl but shes a bit fat. She's got a great personality and we get on great and she's a good laugh. I'm afraid to ask her out in case I will soon stop liking her because she's big and I don't want to hurt her feelings. I kinda fi...

He's the one I want to marry even though I am young

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I am sixteen years old, and I want to marry my boyfriend someday. I'm not sure why, and we are very young, but someday, I'd like to. I've been dating him a year, and he's been my best friend for three years. He is my best friend, and I am in love...

How can I just go with the flow with dating and not obsess over everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I've been single for nearly three years after a healthy, long-term relationship. I've been told I am very attractive and I have been fortunate enough to meet quite a few men in these three years who have been interested in me but nothing ever seems ...

What should I do if I sit next to the girl I like in school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - I have to sit next to my crush in school because of a sitting plan. I've never talked to her before, and I think she likes me. I want to show her that I like her through my body language. I don't want to say "Hi" because that would be too obvious. ...

Why does he keep asking me out and then cancelling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - This is more of a rant than anything else. But I'm just so confused and a bit pissed off to be honest. I met this guy online (mistake number 1) and we talked for months before meeting for the first time. The first meet went fine, it was over coffee ...

Why do I attract the kind of men that I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - So, I have never had a relationship with someone that I met IRL walking down the street, via a friend, etc. Every guy that I have dated, I have met online or through a dating service. I believed that this was because I am morbidly obese, and a lot ...

I feel abused by this woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - I work with my ex girlfriend. We went out and things were find but she didnt want anyone to know about the relationship at work and even lied to people that we were only friends not lovers. we went on holiday together and all the things that you do ...

What's the cutest/sexiest name you like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - this really isn't a question for help more of just an opinion that people might have. and is for both girls and guys. what is the cutest or sexiest name you like. For me its Natalie that name drives me crazy lol. What is your preferred body t...

Its the opportunity of a life time for him, but I just cant be happy for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - May seem far-fetched, but i do not have any reason to lie on here...I just need some honest, non-biased advice.. My boyfriend and I have been extremely happy together for a year and a half. We know that this is it, we have found who we want to b...

I just want to find someone new and move on! Help me please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hey all. About a year ago now, my ex boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me.He didn't give much info as to why, except that he just didn't feel the same way about me anymore. I was left heartbroken and confused as to how I felt about him. He mu...

He moved out, but he still contacts me! What does this all mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I lived my bf for 1 1/2 years. Last weekend he told me he found a place and needed to do things on his own and moved out. Since then he text me everyday. Says things like we aren't like we used to be. This past Friday he wanted to hang out and ...

Every time I see him I like him more but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - So, I'm a freshman in college and there is this guy that I met who lives down the hall from me. I spend a lot of time in his and his roommate's room and they are both juniors. Every time I hang out in there, I start to like him a little more than ...

How do I inspire my girlfriend to trust me after having been hurt in her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Well recently I started dating this girl. At the moment I treat her like she's the only thin that matters but some how she seems not to take it and rejects it like she dosnt want to get hurt again. She was with her ex for a while and I'm just fin...

I feel like my boyfriend's dirty little secret

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hoping someone can shed some light on the relationship situation i am in. I have been seeing this guy for 15mths now and although when the mood takes him he will say he loves me, i have never felt so unloved and insecure in my life. I am 35 and h...

How do I stop getting so clingy around girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Its been two weeks after a 6 week relationship.We agreed to still be friends and it was a possibility we'd get back together. But the past two weeks I've started being extremely clingy and have text her loads. Including texts like 'i miss you'. I ...

Who should hold whose hand first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and my bf is 15. On the first date I was very shy, and I know he was nevrous. After we went home, he sms-ed me said he wanted to hold my hand but he thinks I may slap him. On the next date should I let him hold my hand or should I hold his ...

Maybe I'm not in the right frame of mind to go out with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) - My daughter's boyfriend's uncle is trying to take me out, I am interested, but maybe I am not in the right frame of mind but is this wrong?...something just doesnt sit right with me on this one....aunts and uncles I need your help..!...

I don't think there's anyone out there for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - I am 36 years old and never had an relationship before. There is must be something wrong with me. I am at the point of giving up finding someone.I go out to clubs, date, and even been on many single sites. I believe that no one out there is out ...

Why is she "out of his league" but I am not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I cant get over something that my boyfriend said to another woman he used to fancy almost two years ago. He told her he thought she was " out of his league " , whatever that means, and said he wished he was confident enough to talk to her one on ...

Should Guys pay for everything on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - So here's a question for everyone. When you're on a date with your girlfriend, does the guy have to pay for everything? I mean sure, it's nice if he did, but is there a rule that says that guy's have to pay everytime? Like when I go out w...

Should I even try with this boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hi guys so I am having trouble deciding whether i should try with this boy, or even if he likes me..no idea. We met a couple weeks ago and we text sometimes (he texts me then a few days later i text him, so on...) anyways he seems like a ...

Jealous about girlfriend's past! Am I too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Hi again , I've porblem jelousing my girlfrined about her past .. she had some guys before and some time i hate the feeling .. do u guys feel same???? or im so sensitive ??? what can help me ??? thaks all ...

My choices are a cheater, or a man who doesn't love me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - i have known my boyfriend for 5 or more years but we just recently sarted dating and just found out he cheated on me but i anm in love with another man that doesnt want a relationship. i love my boyfriendbut what do i do....

Friend tried to hook me up with guy and then stole him when her relationship broke up!

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21 November 2010 (F) - I'm upset with my friend because she tried to hook me up with a really hot guy she knew but she stole him back after her boyfriend broke up with her.......now he's interested in her and I'm left with nothing.....what do I do? How can I get him ...

Are all guys this confusing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, So theres this guy, and i've been told that he likes me by lots of his friends and I kinda like him too, but every time I confront him about it, he says that he doesn't. Proms is coming up soon and he told me that he "might" want to ...

How do I stop from being so maternal or bossy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - How do I not be so maternal or bossy? So, in my last relationship my ex was a bit younger, had less education, and seemed to need help doing certain things. As his girlfriend, I always tried to help him when he needed it. I didn't think it was wro...

How do I ask her out without regressing 5 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - i've known this girl for about 5 years,when i first met her she just looked amazing,i knew than on that i was going to marry her at some point...but thats not the point. How do i get the smallest detail to know when to ask her out without blowing it ...

She invited me to a birthday party at the last minute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - How would you react if girl invited you to her birthday party at the last minute? A girl who's been flirting with me asked me to come to her birthday party a few weeks before that event, but she didn't specify the time and location, just t...

Why do we set up dates and then she cancels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - There is this girl I met 2 weeks ago. We were both interested and tried to meet twice. Both times she had to cancel and postpone. Even though I believe she had had good reasons to do so, I don't feel like setting up dates to have her cancel t...

He's into me, but then he's not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I recently went out on a first date with a guy I met though a mutual friend. The first date went well. Throughout the date he mentioned future dates which made me think that was he was into me. Otherwise, why bring it up right? But he's sendi...

I just don't know how to cope without love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - I think I'm going out of my mind. I'm a 16 yr old guy and I'm horny all the time.I don't really like masturbating, that's why I rarely do it. It doesn't satisfy me. I get really lonely sometimes and I just want to be able to have someone to call ...

Socially anxious female virgin needing help

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hi there I am wondering if there is any advice for a girl like me. I am 25 years old and have never really had a boyfriend at all. I am not that bad looking but I suffer from social phobia which really makes things hard for me. I have been on a f...

Are there any guys my age who actually want a reltaionship?

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21 November 2010 (F) - I'm 23, where can I meet a guy who actually wants a relationship and not just another notch on the bedpost?...

I'm amazing at picking out men who aren't available!

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21 November 2010 (F) - hi i'm 26 years of age and i'm simply really really bad at dating and relationships!i am amazing at picking out guys who are simply unavailable!i've never had a long term relationship or a relationships where i can look back and say wow that was ...

Should I move on to this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we've only been going out for a few weeks. I don't know if I really like him enough to be in a relationship with him but I'm afraid to wnd it because I don't want to hurt him. There is also his other guy who is into me who is ...

It feels like everone my age is engaged or having children

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I'm 23 and its seems like everyone else my age is either engaged or having children. I feel really jealous. Where as I've got out of a bad relationship, where my ex was verbally abusive and I was never a priority. I'm a good person and would never ...

Misunderstood about dating, and want my friend back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - I've had an extremely difficult school quarter. I started out my sophomore year of college by quiting my fraternity. Due to the backlash and harassment I received due to leaving I ended up in a very dark place emotionally and was extremely ...

Should we get married?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 11 years we have 2 children together aged 9 and 8. She really wants a commitment from me in the form of marriage but I haven't given it yet. I have never had an interest in marriage but it's really important ...

A work colleague looks into my eyes and uses my name in conversation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - There is this guy at work who is always staring at me. He is really nice to me but i noticed that he says my name a lot when we speak ... im not really sure if he does that to everyone. he would come in the office to say something to someone else,...

Getting mixed signals...so is he into me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Ok, so i like this guy at school. We are major flirty when we are together, but when he's with his friends, or when im with my friends, we don't talk, but we do make eye contact. I mean, the only time we don't talk when we're with our friends is at ...

I do love him a lot, but he just doesn't care! How do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Well I've been with my boyfriend for 5 nearly 6 years, and we had a really bad path for about 7 months and about 2 months ago he moved out for a week and came back. Well he's back and he tells me he does love me but when I say I love you in a text ...

Am I just another girl on his list! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I have recently been going on dates with a boy from my school. He broke up with his girlfriend the day before he told me he likes me.. So I am the reason he dumped her. I have never dated a guy before, because I think that serious relationships ...

How do I date this cute guy, I really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hey, So I obviously have a problem. There is this guy. He is so sweet,caring, and majorly cute. I'm not positive but I think that he might like me. But I don't want to feel stupid and ask him and it turns out that he doesn't like me... What should I ...

Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications ...

He claims to care about me but then he goes cold. Is this a waste of my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) - i am in love with a friend. we were getting closer than just friends and then he called me (cuzz). Didn't quite understand where that came from. Just a day before that, he spent the night with me. no we didn't do anything. we just layed and talked ...

I want to date her, so should I tell her my true feelings for her or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Hey... Never done this before, asking people I don't know for help =P don't really know how to start... Sorry. Anyways, I'm 16 and have had girlfriends before - though not from my school. The reason being, the embarrassment if I'm told "no" which ...

He said I still have a place in his heart... but he's getting married!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - hey dear cupid friends .. this is my story.. well i dated a guy in my past and we broke up.. we have not been talking for many months now but today i texted him and told him what the problem was, he said i was his precious treasure but i just ...

Long Distance help please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - I am currently in a long distance relationship. My girlfriend and I dated for over a year in college then moved pretty far away upon graduating (~8 hour flight). We decided to try the whole long distance thing since we really love each other, and ...