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writes:Okay I just told the person that I have had a crush for an year 1/2 now. And it was really random I just kinda exploded and told him. He acted fine with it but it was akward talking to him after. I don't know what to do should I still talk to him or just wait until he comes to me? I don't what to do! Help! I'm so lost.
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reader, Ven +, writes (8 November 2010):
You got it off your chest, so there is nothing left that you need to say. So until he responds don't be awkward or nervous, just enjoy getting to be around him.
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reader, Little tiny girl +, writes (8 November 2010):
 You should go to him and tell him how he felt when you told him you have a crush on him. Hopefully he won't think it was too random when you told him. I hope this helps. Good luck :)(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): Hmm .. give him some time to digest the fact that you confessed to him. Maybe sometimes people are just not prepared for the impact.However, in these few days think to yourself - does he like you back? or is it just a one sided crush? Sorry to say, but if it's just a one sided crush there really is nothing you can do about it but to move on. To do anything else would place him at an awkward position and he might even start avoiding you.Now if you aren't sure think to yourself (not fantasize): when you've previously talked to him or met him, is he always interested in what you say? does he always look at you directly in the eyes? Search up on google "body language" related to love, and think hard about whether or not the relationship can work out.After a few days if he still hasn't talked to you about it, maybe you should confront him and ask him if hes thought about what you said; followed by asking him if he likes you or not (if perhaps a relationship can work out). If not, then I suggest you forget about him even if it is painful, even if you think of him every time you see him, even if you continue to like him, don't think of him as your potential lover, but rather something unattainable and just give up.I know it sounds harsh but most people has had this experience at least once or twice in their lifetimes, and just know that we human beings move on. It's hard but life goes on.Hope I helped,Jason
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