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Dating: Help and advice

He hates love 'coz it hurts'. So he dumped me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Right, Me and my ex boyfriend J broke up due to his violent abuse and cheating on me. But the night after I broke up with J, I snogged another boy called T at a house party, I partly think it could have just been because I was hurting, But ...

Does she like me more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - Long story short. I asked a girl out after 2 weeks of speaking to her she said she wanted to be friends. This was about 10 months ago.But I feel she likes me more than a friend. I want to tell her how I feel but I hadn't spoken to her for weeks ...

How can I get my bf to spend more time with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - how do i get my boyfriend to spend more time with me...i kno he loves me...but its jus sumtimes i think different....i don't kno why though....cuz i love him the same....it jus it seems like he wants to hang with his friends more then me...how can i ...

He treats me well but I am not attracted to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Okay.. I finally met this guy that treats me nice takes me out to eat and respects me well. However I'm not attracted to him at all. I love the fact that he treats me well but I want to be sure I can handle this before we get serious. I would never ...

Is it normal to get erect from hugging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - Im 17 and have had a girl friend for about 2 months but she wont hug me without me asking and she wont kiss me. shes always sayin im cute and that she loves me. she recenly told me that shes had 4 boy freind and shes masterbate them after just ...

I can't orgasm..is something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are madly in love with eachother, and when he touches me it's the best feeling ever, but I have a problem. When he really turns me on and tries to get me to orgasm I can't do it. My whole body will shake and I just can't. Is ...

Should we be talking to each other about this, or is it just creepy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - My best friend and I talk about everything. We often talk about sex and our experiences. This seems like something normal for teenage girls to do- brag about how their time with their boyfriend was the night before. I just don't know how healthy ...

He dating another but says he loves me! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - i fell in love with my best friend 3 months ago. but we cant be together, he started dating her 2 months ago and a week ago he says I love you to me. His girlfriend is not letting him talk to me. what should i do?...

We seem to be on different planes of thought...should I just love him for-better-or-worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - When my b/f of 5 years first got with me we'd both been married before so we were in no hurry to go there. We moved in together and things have been pretty good. Maybe a year ago we started talking about the possibility of marriage but didn't make ...

Why don't people think about the new dating partner, before undertaking a 'rebound' relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I now know that I was involved in a rebound relationship. It was about 4 months long started off as if it could really be a good investment. As time went on and now with thinking about my ex's behavior it was only a rebound relationship. He ...

Is he scared of having a relationship with me?

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24 January 2010 (F) - I'm so confused. I really like this guy and i'm pretty sure he's interested too. He IMs or texts me everyday and we always seems to catch eachother at the local coffee shop or he'll come by when he knows i'm there. I'm just frustrated because he ...

Trust issue has cropped up with my bf! Is this a warning sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I have trust issues and my boyfriend knows this . Once in a while I go through his messages, a lot of the time he's right next to me when I do this, either not knowing what I'm doing or just not caring. I know that I'm asking for trouble by looking ...

Question about being the 'chick on the side"...who loses out the most here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Why do guys always have to have their cake and eat it too? And why am I suddenly the one who is getting used? I never used to be that girl, and here I am, the chick on the side. Is it better to be the chick on the side or the main girl? Either way, ...

Mom didn't tell me she is having sex with this family friend..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I just found out my mom has been dating and having sex with someone we go on vaction with every year, my mom and dad are not together but she did not tell me and she always invites him over to our house to hang out. What should i do?...

I was seeing a girl but ended it with anger, now I'm talking to her again, how can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - I still like the girl that i went out with last summer, but we got in a fight, and NOW its all good, i still like her very much but i don't know how i can approach her about going out again. I need urgent help. I was seeing this girl last summer...

My friends say he's not for me....any advise, please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I really like this guy i don't know what to do he is a bit on the large size and all my friends say he is not my type, any advise would be great, please?...

I want a divorce, my wife is pregnant and I'm having an affair with our neighbour....help!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - I am 32 yrs old and have been married for 4 yrs. A year ago we moved to a new town and my wife and I drifted apart. She befriended our neighbours and became close friends with the lady. We would often go to dinners there and I met their now 19 yr ...

She's four months pregnant and I'm not the father...should I break up with her before things get any farther, or just support her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - I'm a senior in high school, and recently started seeing this amazing girl, who's my age. She seems perfect for me-smart, funny, and really sweet. We get along great. The only problem is that's she's about four months pregnant. The father is her ...

Was it too early to confide to him that I'm a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I am 21 year old female in college. I have been talking to this guy for the past month over our winter break through Facebook chat. On the first day back from break, he immediately texted me and asked to meet him at a bar...and we just madeout for ...

I really love him but I don't want to be anyone's fool.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - my ex and I were together for 4 years, lived together and planned our wedding. He wasn't happy in the summer (now know was wedding pressure, mainly financial) so we split up but got back together a few days later with wedding off. About 2 weeks ...

Is there a problem with the age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - hey people. ah i'm really young like 13 turning 14 and i'm dating a 18 year old. is there a problem?...

Terrified she might be prego!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - i touched my penis and touched my girlfriend's clit with same fingers... i didnt ejaculate but a drop of precum might have reached her clit, it happened yesterday.... and her periods date are from 15th feb.... so if she gets her period on time, will ...

LDR: where do we go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - Just met with a woman for the second time in two months. She's from Russia, I live in Hungary. She has a 9 year old boy, she is 27 and I have a 6 year old girl, I am 40. I like her a lot. We have made love, slept in the same bed. We hold hands to...

He doesn't want to commit but there "could be" a future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for around 4 months now, i really like him and everything and he says he likes me too but doesnt want to commit to anything, so at first i was a little gutted but then i was cool with that, so we kinda slowed things down ...

I'm afraid I wont do it right..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - im 15 and im going out with this girl one year older than me we like each other a lot but im afraid, because weve been to the point of almost have sex twice, this would be my first time and im so happy that it would be with her coz i feel a lot for ...

I can't figure him out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Well, I've known this boy for for almost two years now, and I've had a big crush on him for nearly as long. I definitely know he likes me as a friend, but he's always been dropping hints that he sees me as more than that (i.e - shameless flirting...

I'm in love with my best friend but he doesn't seem to care

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - It's been 4 years that im in love with my best friend. He always tells me that he loves me and he likes me. But i dont think that its true because anytime my brother tells him to ask me out he tells him that its none of his business and tha...

Are guys bothered by squint teeth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I am 27 years old and have really low confidence due to my squint teeth, I have always felt like ths but I know I can't get a fixed brace I couldn't live with it, I have never had a boyfreind, hate getting my picture taken, I have heard about ...

How can someone take advantage of a person who showed complete loyalty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - My question is how can someone take advantage of someone who has shown true loyalty and love towards them and they trample all over you like a doormat? We had been dating for about 4 months, initially things were really good. Then I would say ...

Why do his exes delete him off Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - what does it mean when a guy goes out with girls for only few weeks?? or months?? what does that say about him?? and the girls dont ever speak to him again?? deletes him off msn and face book?? what does that say about the guy?? and w...

Is there a problem dating my former teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I was wondering what peoples views/opinions were on two people 'dating' that were previously student and teacher. My music teacher (aged 38) from my school and I (aged 19) have been in contact since I left the school over a year ago now and have ...

I don't want to hurt this lovely girl who is crazy about me...but I cant forget my ex...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - a few years ago i broke up with the love of my life, and meet a lovely girl within weeks. i chased my ex for over a year and finally we got back together. during this time i was seriusly ill and told my ex to leave me cause she was too young to deal ...

Since I told him about my family background he hasn't spoken to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Hi! So five months ago i met this guy i'll call him J. J seemed too perfect Claimed to be "Open Minded", Is very Attractive, Seemed to have a Great Personality. We started dating three months ago. Anyways i am Bi-Racial mom is white and my dad...

I date on the internet and now I am in a love square!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I date on the internet and im currently in a love square!My boyfriend is *J* and the 2 other guys are *M* and *N*. *N* is an ex who i thought cheated but didnt hes funny and cute and we get along, *M* is a boy who just decided to love me out of the ...

I want her to have real feelings for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - I am head over heels for this girl I know. We've been best friends for about 2 and a half years. She has had a lot of trouble with guys. She dated one guy who used her to get to her best friend, another who used her to brag to his friends, another ...

How can I move a crush forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I live along with my 3 boys my eldest has now moved out. My bf hhas not lived with me and at the way we are going I do not think are relationship is ever going to change. I want more and I am now ready to move on. I met a guy at him family busin...

I've been having fantasies about kissing and hugging, is this normal for a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - I'm a 21 year old guy and realized that lately I've been having fantasies about kissing and hugging a girl. I was wondering if this is normal, because I thought guys usually fantasize about intercourse and girls are more into hugging and touching. ...

Does this shy girl like me/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - There is this shy girl, who is the sister of one of my best friends, who lately seems to be showing some interest in me. I know she liked me in the past because one time she kissed me and said “I love you”. However, that was at least six years ago ...

How do I get a date with him after he cancelled on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Hey How do i try and get with a guy that i was close to going on a date with then he cancelled and asked to go another time but it never happened? We had been speaking lots for about 3/4 months and he started metioning he'd like to get to know me m...

Is there a "nice" way to break up with someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Is there a "nice" way to break up with someone, or a right way? I reconnected with an ex-boyfriend over facebook, and we've been dating steadily for the past 3 months. We have a lot of common interests and get along well, but I am not physical...

How do I ask for a date without looking stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - hi everyone, i would consider myself as a very attractive young looking slim and intelligent,i aint no dolly bird and am very down to earth. i get asked out all of the time, some are very good looking but alot younger than me, i dont want a toyboy, ...

Shes back to stripping, she says she will keep her knickers and ring on,all week I saw her for a few hours on wednesday and thats it! am I being unreasonable...?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I want some other peoples on opinion on this as I don't know whether its me being unreasonable or whether I am justified in being upset. I have been going out with a girl a while and we are engaged and we are very much in love. In the pas...

Can someone please call 911..lol..any help anyone??????????? major help is needed..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Im baaaaaaaaack.. well it's been a minute since i've been on cupid and just to update everyone on whats going on with my life.. im still with my fiancee, he's been laid off for a year and two months. I've gotten my GED and now I am enrolling into S...