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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I've never had a girlfriend, is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - Ive never had a girlfriend,is that normal?. I go to only boys school and really i havent spend much time meeting girls. With the last girl, i had a crush, she was maybe the most beutifull girl i have met, but she was not only beutifull, she was ...

Friends don't accept that we are together

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12 January 2010 (F) - So I have been dating this guy who is 2 years younger than me I am 16 and he is 14 its all been going good between us but still after 6 months, people wont accept that we are together. this makes it hard as I cant do things with my friends and him, ...

Do players get too old to play?

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12 January 2010 (F) - what happens to a player when he gets too old to play? the man Im in love with I know to be a player , Ive been seeing him 6months (casual) he is 42. He is very overweight and has to use viagra and gets very puffed out during sex so I have to do ...

Is it possible to go out with some one in the army?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - ive recently started going out with a lad that im crazy about ive known him for years n we have always been close. but only started going out for a few weeks. i knew when we were friends that he was going into the army but its only recently hit me ...

"If you love something set it free"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - You know they say 'if you love someone set them free, if they come back they're yours, if they dont, they never were' or something to a similar effect... what if you let someone go and they come back, and then they leave again? :-( X x ...

I'm dating a distant relative & worried it might be like kissing cousins

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - This year I met the most wonderful boy whom I had never met before. We started talking a lot and later on, he told me he fell in love with me. At first, thoughts in my head screamed and said, "He's your cousin don't do anything your parents wouldn't ...

I think the girl I'm dating has a drinking problem!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - dating this girl for about 8 months and i think she may have a drinking problem..she goes out a few times a week for "dinner" with friends and has called me from the cab at 1 am and seemed drunk on more than a few occassions..she also has a few ...

I broke up with him because he had a g/f but now he doesnt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - i dont know where to start. i live in manchester and theres this lad who lives in birmingham. i got his number and we text eachother, then in the summer holidays last year, he went wales the same time as me. he wanted to meet me, but i didnt feel ...

Tried to finger a random girl then she told all her friends

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12 January 2010 (M) - I was a nightclub recently and i was kissing a random girl and i was feeling extremly horny. I attempted to finger her but with no success. She told her friends and i am getting alot of stick about it. What should i do?...

His mum controls his life!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I'm 29 years old, my boyfriend is 46 years old, we've been together for four years now and his mom is 71 years old, she controls his life tells him what to do what he should be doing and what he shouldn't be doing with his life. she wants him to ...

She cheated on me at christmas and I don't know what to do for the best...

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12 January 2010 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for about 4 months now and she told me the other day that over christmas she got drunk and ended up cheating on me, she didn't have sex with this person but they did other things. I really don't know ...

Has anyone dated a twin and is that difficult?

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12 January 2010 (M) - i have just begun talking to this girl who i think is amazing and beautiful, and she has a identical twin. Has anyone dated a twin and is that difficult? i would think there are things that are hard to say, like if you tell her shes beautiful t...

My friends have laughed at me because I worry I might be pregnant

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12 January 2010 (F) - Hey guys.. Ok, this may seem really stupid and funny to ye but im actually freaking out here.. My periods a week late. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex (although we've talked about it). He's fingered me and I've given him hand jobs.. Is there any ...

She has found somebody else but expects me to haang around nd comfort her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend met another guy and split up with me after we both got into a depression when our baby girls were born prematurely and died. She lacked affection and apparently found the perfect fairy tale guy to give her everything she needs. I have ...

My partner puts me down all the time ... and I don't know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm really hoping for some help. I think you guys are great (I've posted on here before) and now I'm very upset so I thought maybe I could get some perspective here. I've been with my partner since 2002 and when I first met him he was loving, ...

It all seems very positive, but he says he doesn't want a relationship

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12 January 2010 (F) - ok so I have known this guy for more than 5 years and in the past few years after loosing contact have been catching up. He was always a private guy and never really opened up to me, I can understand that as he was hurt sooooo badly in the past. H...

I want to break up, but he keeps telling me how much he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - So me and my bf have been dating for a good four months but it feels like so much more and now it's like smothering and want to brake up with him. The problem is not only the fact that he used to be my best friend but the fact that when ever he ...

My boyfriend kissed his ex, and I have started stalking her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I'm in a real mess and want to stop with what I'm doing... A while back, few months, my boyfriend told me that he met up with his ex oneday and she asked if they could kiss one last time, and they did. I was so hurt by this, since we've been ...

I feel like I'm missing out!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

12 January 2010 (?) - Here goes, im 36 years old, have a daughter who is ten and me and her dad split up when she was six monthes. It took a long time to get over him, stopped crying every night for four years and since then i have dated every once in a while, slept with ...

Cut my losses now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - so i met this girl at a party over the weekend, we have been talking alot since then and we are going on a date later on in the week, shes very cool and seems so chill and not fake, i really like her but i just found something out that may ruin ...

I try to maintain the "I'm fine as I am" stance, but most guys seem to go for the trophy girl sort

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

12 January 2010 (?) - I have always thought that it was best to be myself- people always say "just be yourself" but then you have the Hollywood idea where looks are everything. Perfect hair, tight clothes, no brains. (Apparently it isn't "cool" to be smart or ...

We were going great until his friend referred to me as his girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the deal. I met this guy while we were co-workers in the DHSS office we worked in. We started talking and dating and he ended up leaving the office for another job. Things started getting more serious, so I asked him what his intentions ...

I can't attract girls!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - No matter what I do, I just cant seem to attract girls, and the rare occasions I do, They get bored and move on after a short while. (But that's another issue). I'm not very confident, so going out and meeting new people is a bit hard for me. I'm ok ...

My friends say he is just using me, but he just makes me smile

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12 January 2010 (F) - First off let me say he has a very good job. Now we met in September and by October he had to be deployed untill this summer. When I was with him I was the happiest girl in the world. I just got out of a bad relationship, my ex was marriend and ...

I can't say no to the ladies!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - Help! I am a 24 year old male and the problem i have is to much sex/ relationships. Every weekend i go out and i will go through between 2 and 5 woman a weekend, i cannot say no! I am a good looking guy and very cheeky and flirt alot, i have settled ...

Should I leave the love of my life to go to medical school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 9 months tomorrow and plan on making the relationship a lot longer than it is now. I have not had sex with him yet...yay me! lol...We are very very close and have been friends since we were 4 or 5. I plan on ...

I thought I had it all, now she tells me she was faking it all through

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - hi there, im 18 and and i am in a relationship for 1 and half years and i love my gf alooooooot more than myself. she accepted my proposal and said even she loved me. we both hugged, kissed, fought, loved, said srry 2 each other and did everything ...

I don't want him to take advantage of me!

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12 January 2010 (F) - I have finally gotten enough courage to ask a guy that I have been flirting with over that last year. By talking to him over this year he has given answers and made comments that made me think he was single. After asking him out I found out that he ...