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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He still wants to see me and have sex with me but doesn't want the title of my boyfriend!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Ok so I met this guy and it was like love at first sight for both of us so as days passed he asked me out on a date and obviously I replied yes and accepted so this date turned into a relationship. we dated for 3 years, only problem was he was a ...

I feel if I get too close to him he'll leave me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - i have been with this guy for over half a year and realy like him and trust him about everything but for some reason we have never made out... every time he tries to i stop him after like 10 sec and i dont know why, i think about him all the time ...

Pregnancy Smyptons

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I need some advice. I read many posts on this site and I value the advice u give people. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex just after my last months period but not durin my ovulation period. I was just wonderin how soon can u experience ...

I love my b/f but I also wonder what is "out there"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I am 23 years old and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years, he is my first everything and so for a while now I've been feeling like I want to know what's out there before I commit to him entirely. I love him and he's perfect for ...

My friends seem to chose guys based on looks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (?) - When I talk to my friends, their requirements for guys are mainly based on looks. My friends are very pretty- they have always been told they are pretty and they know they are pretty. When they talk, they talk about wanting to date a "hot guy" or ...

My b/f danced with, and almost kissed, another girl, now I can't trust him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Hey. about 2 and a half months ago my boyfriend of then 6 months went to a club and danced with another girl (i mean proper dancing - he told me he had a semi) then as she pulled him to kiss him he realised what he was doing and pulled away as lips ...

I want a holiday, I don't want to pay, b/f has no money, how to convince him to come?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - really want a holiday this summer but boyfriend has no money and i don't think i should be expected to pay. how can i convince him to go away with me?...

My boyfriend is heavily in debt and I don't think it will be cleared before he retires

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of 50 is in £25,000 debt and it doesn't look like it's going to be cleared by the time he's retired. he says it's a mixture of things but generally bulit up from everyday living - i can't really see how because he hasn't had any ...

I can't show affection to my boyfriend

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17 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, why cant i show affection to my boyfriend? he says when he trys to kiss me i either move so it lands on my cheek or if i kiss him on the lips its just a peck. and i never show affection in public. he says i never used to be like this.. w...

I want to give my new boyfriend head...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

17 January 2010 (?) - so i want to give my new boyfriend head. we`ve been together 3 months and we have started to get sexual. ive done it before to my ex and the ex before that and they always said it was really good. but the problem is... they were both ...

She dumped me, moved on and has a new boyfriend, but is calling me - why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - Long story short; My Ex and I went out for 18 months. Last month we broke up (she broke up with me a few days after I talked to her about how she is always lying to me and others). We were deeply in Love. We also lived together. Anyways, the bre...

He messed with my head telling me he wanted to get back together when he didn't, did I do the right thing telling him to f*** off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - After a month of NC with my ex boyfriend, he text me telling me he misses me, that he loves me and he would do anything to get me back. I didn't reply, but on Friday after thinking about it for a long time sent him a text telling him I loved him ...

We broke up because I had depression and he cheated, we still have sex, should we get back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Hii.. Mmm.. The name is Daisy and nearly seventeen. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for 2 years, we've been having intercourse for one year. we broke up due to me getting depression and i needed time alone and he cheated on me - but...

He calls his ex when he feels down... shouldn't it be ME he comes to???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - hey there so pretty much my life sucks...my bf treats me like crap he told me he has nothing to look forward to in life which made me feel just wonderful...(not!) and he texts his ex girlfriend when he is down and needs someone to cheer him up and f...

My mom has just told me my boyfriend is my cousin

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Ok, erm I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I am madly in love and everything was going fine. Until that is when a few days ago my mom drops the bombshell on me that we are third or fourth cousins, I don't understand why nobody ...

Why does my ex want me to resend messages about my other ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - My ex (Ted) left me for another girl about a year ago. This was really depressing but I tried to move on and after 3 months, I had a new boyfriend (Jim). After about 3 months, Jim and I broke up as he was moving to another place and he wanted me to ...

I can't move on from my first love and it's tainting my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf cumulatively about 8 months while we've been on and off for about a year and a half. My feelings for him are definitely growing and now they are to the point that I do love him. The problem is, I can't tell if it's in a romantic ...

My boyfriend says I have to ditch my best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - My best friend and me have been through a few rough patches including some really rough ones. we have spent the past year or so patching things up. We have gone through a lot and known each other for years. My partner is now telling me that ...

We broke up as he preferred video games, he has a new girlfriend but says he still has feelings for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother) 6 months ago. Our relationship was great but he got to the point where he had started avoiding me and was always playing computer games. I didn't want too break up, I was in love with him ...

Does anyone here HATE the dating game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - does anyone here hate the dating game? i went on a date with a girl who lives about 1hr away from me, and it went really well, and we are going to hang out again soon. I always am wondering if she likes me or is she getting bored of me, does she ...

I'm a girl starting to notice girls??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Ok so this is totally weird for me. I am straight, but recently I have started to notice girls too. I don't really like them that way, but I'm interested in their bodies more than guys. I don't think I'm bisexual, but I don't know if this is just a ...

Dating: My parents still see me as their little girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. I feel I am ready to date, but my parents have different ideas. I know that when it comes to stuff like dating, they still see me as their little girl. I try to talk to them, but as soon as I start, they won't li...

Sexless relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now and at the beginning he was very keen for us to have sex. Problem was I was a virgin and I told him this. Anyway the first time we tried to have sex, it hurt and I bled a little. The bleeding carried ...

I feel I am being pulled into a relationship I'm not ready for yet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - I'm 25 and I've been dating this girl who is 22 for about 2 months now and everything has been fine. However, recently she brought her five year old daughter to live with her which changes the dynamic of our relationship considerably. Originall...

I'm not sure if he wants to have sex with me or not... how can I bring it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 monthes and I know he's not a viqin and he jokes about sex all the time but never asks me about doing it or anything. I really want to have sex with him but i dont know how to bring it up. I'm not sure if he'd ...

My boyfriend needs to chose, me or the weed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (?) - Hi...so I have a huge problem going on right now. My boyfriend of almost a year is amazing and I'm very much in lovve with him as he is me. But he has a past with drugs and is now starting to want to get back into doing them. I tell him I don't want ...

I need advise of a sexual nature

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend loves when I give him head, but I can't do it for very long because I start to gag. Is there anything I can do to prevent gagging while doing this?...

What can you expect from girls in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - what are some things that guys have to deal with when being in a relationship with his girl? some things that girls just do but you have to deal with....

I have a crush on a "straight" guy.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I’ve been debating where I could actually post this and get opinions and thoughts on it. I’ve tried typing out the situation I’m about to explain many times, but I often lose focus and tend to just stop writing… This is kind of lengt...

Should I assume she wants to equalize the treats?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - I just got rejected because the girl happened to have a boyfriend and all... We decided to meet up for coffee but then she asked me if I want to do dinner instead. The last dinner we had, it was on me so I am assuming she wants to equalize the ...

It's just problem after problem...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I've been with the same guy for three years and I've been living with him for two out of all and we've broken up twice and fight like cats an dogs. I'm not going to lie we were both once hard into digs and have quit but he hasn't I've gotten him to ...

How do we move on to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - i have been with a guy for almost 1 year now and the other day he tried to go a little farther and take my shirt off. no guy has ever done that with me before becose he is only my second bf. anyways i dint know how to react so i just asked him to ...

After sex with new boyfriend, is it normal to have an irrational fear of being dumped?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I had a longterm relationship that ended over a year ago that was full of lies and abuse. I thought it would be a really long time before I'd meet someone else, however I met someone about 6months later. We've been together for a while ...

Advice needed please. Problems with sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and we want to make love. To my distress we're both virgins. He can't seem to get hard at the right times and yesterday when he did and got a condom on it all went downhill from there. I don't ...

Everything was good, how did it go wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a couple of months and we have the same likes in almost everything we like the same football team, we are both compatable in sex we like the same music and even the same candy if i wasent wrong i thought we are ...

Boyfriend LIES!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years lies to me every time he hangs out with his once friend that I'm not fond of. Whenever he goes out to see him, he always tells me he was with his cousin or with another friend. However, I know that he's 100% lying because ...

Why won't she tell me what's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - Hey, I've been with my girlfirend for about a year now and I must say, it's been going well. Since I went to university, we've been fighting more and more. Little things turned into huge matters. She used to be able to tell me anything that wa...

No visa - no win situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Hey there This is a bit complicated so please bear with me. My boyfriend Albanian but lives in Sicily where we met six months ago. He can't visit me because his residency gets him into the shengen countries of which our lovely UK is not part....

I want him back but he showed me up by cheating on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

I worry about when he is ready for sex that I still wont be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - First off, I am 15-years-old. My boyfriend and I have not been dating for very long, but I feel like he's the one. I've had many boyfriends before and he is the only one I have ever considered having sex with. (We're both still virgins, by the ...