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*ambino2008
writes:Just met with a woman for the second time in two months. She's from Russia, I live in Hungary. She has a 9 year old boy, she is 27 and I have a 6 year old girl, I am 40. I like her a lot. We have made love, slept in the same bed. We hold hands together. We have spoken about meeting again, she says yes. She has to have an operation to remove an ovarian cyst in a week or so.Whenever I send her text messages, she doesn't respond. She is rarely on Yahoo and when she is, she is invisible. I have chatted with her a couple of times on Facebook. We spoke on the phone on Friday.I kinda get insecure about the situation and I don't know what to do to take it to the next level. Should I suggest something more serious? Should I ask her if we are bf and gf? Should I wait until the next visit? Is there anything I can do to get more "reaction" from her? Long distance is tough...Thanks for your suggestions and help!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (24 January 2010):
 She needs a dad for her son and you need a mom for your daughter. Two months is mention bfs gfs, nothing too serious yet. You need to know each other better. If you were a single mom, would you choose yourself as a mate? What makes you stand out? Of course everything has potential. Of all the women in Hungary you chose one from Russia. She needs to know that she is indeed special and not because you are desperate. Also I would ask if she sees herself living in Hungary. Maybe tell her how good Hungary is? Just because you are intimate together does not mean it could lead to something serious. Did she come to Hungary for a business trip? Or simply just to meet you?If you don't get more response from her then it's probably just a fling.
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reader, sick  +, writes (24 January 2010):
oh if you really like this girl.. don't play games. tell her how you feel and be ready for whatever she decides on. it's the only mature way to make things work in a relationship.
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