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Dating: Help and advice

How can you fight depression in your love life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I'm not dating anyone now,and i have no time to see anyone! recently ive moved away from my friends,and most of my family,and now its made me more isolated from everything. Im not the person I used to be,ive changed alot and I dont give a damn ...

I truely love her and I need to own up to the truth! I'm just to shy and nervous to do so!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - Hi, i'll try and make this short so i dont bore you. I feel like i;ve screwed up big time and if i dont do something soon thats it. basically i met a girl afew years ago, i liked her from the moment i got to know her and eventually fell in love with ...

How do I approach this girl I really like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - Hey i was just wondering if some of you could give me some advice. I really like this girl, but i don't really know how to approach her. I do fairly well with girls, like i can talk to girls and get with them without to much hassle. I never find it ...

Friend keeps falling for other guys while she has a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - right, my friend katie is with this guy and i think she should leave him because she is emtionally attached to another guy but her boyfriend and her have been together for a long time and he keeps falling for other girls so she turns to this guy ...

How do I end this relationship with sensitivity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - How do I end my relationship with my boyfriend who is so kind, considerate and loves me to bits, when I just dont love him any more and can't see a future with him? I hate the feeling like I am lying to him whenever we are together!...

I need ideas! What can I do to get him to try and lose weight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - Recently I have noticed my fiance's weight gain. To me it's not a problem, I still find him attractive no matter what. But he's noticed it and has got a complex about it, his frineds call him 'fat' fatty' etc and I can see it really gets to him. ...

Been dumped by my first boyfriend and my best friend in 2 days. HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I'll try and keep this as simple as I can. I am 16 years old and recently was dumped by my boyfriend of 9 months 3 days ago. He said he felt that our relationship had "run it's course". He hurt me a lot, but we eventually decided to just be good ...

I need us to TALK... but can't get the chance. What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - So I have some trust issues, and this past weekend, my boyfriend and I fought like crazy. The next day, I wanted him to come over so we could talk about it in a calm and rational way. He tells me that he already made plans to hang out with friends. ...

How can I find someone similar in nature to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I had a 3 month relationship with someone recently which I knew wasn't going to be long-term as she is going to live in australia in a few months. She didn't want anything serious and she stopped the relationship. I was still very down as we got ...

Does anyone have experience with larger men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I am a virgin and yes I'm aware of protection and wait till you're ready. I am ready now and I'm going to be in a relationship soon with a boy who's kind of on the big side. I wondered what kind of things am I going to have to do.. as I'll hav...

Sign over your rights!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I am 4 weeks pregnant. I discoved this on New Years Eve. When I told my then boyfriend he was very excited. I havent heard from him in 4 days. He wont answer my calls, he took me off his FB (how childish is that?). I texed him and asked him to just ...

I can't stop thinking or dwelling on the fact that she has been intimate with other men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - Hi there. I could really use some help. I am currently engaged. I love my fiance. She is the best woman I could ever ask for. Here is my problem. I can't stop thinking or dwelling on the fact that she has been intimate with other men. Particu...

Does my fiancee have a say about my decision to send my children on a summer trip?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - I am a 50 year old WIDOWER with two children - an 18 year old and a 16 year old. I just engaged my girlfriend who is 44 and has an 18 year old. We live in our house - they live in theirs. We plan to marry late 2010, after her 18 year old goes off ...

Anal anxiety!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I've never had anal sex nor had my ass eaten out. My boyfriend wants to try something new and I'm up for it. If I've never had anyone barely even touch my ass, will it feel good when he does it? Or will it take some getting used to. I'm kind of ...

How can I help him try to get a better job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a few months but have known each other for years, he works a job making pay that isnt that great and his hours have been cut... he's been looking for another job but "says there's nothing he likes" i pay for ...

I don't know who to believe, my girlfriend or my friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - ok so last night my girlfriend's friend told me that my girlfriend has been cheating on me like a while ago during 4 months of our relationship, got fingered and fooled around with guys so i confronted her about it and we had along talk to just find ...

Shouldnt he put a little bit more effort in now that we are together in a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - When I was 16 me and this guy dated for one year, we used to go the same school and he was my first love and I was his.. We really loved each other. We were too young and we ended up breaking with each other. However, we managed to stay best friends ...

He's dating me, but he's engaged, what would you do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - hey, im a 16 year old girl really need some advice... i recently got a job on weekends and at my interview met a boy who is now 21. ive been working for 2 months now and weve become better friends over this time, he was always helping me out an...

Confused over long distance relationship. Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (?) - I need some advice on how to handle a situation. me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months. out of those, 4 have been long-distance (we live in different continents because of college). We have a lot of history together, (i was his firs...

He was seeing someone else when we started dating, I don't know what to think now! Advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - Does it matter if my fiance was seeing some one when we first started? Until we really got serious maybe several months into the relationship. Now he says there is no one and we are getting married. Should this be alarming. They shared a phone ...

Fear of being alone...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year and i'm only 17, starting university in september. Everything is going great for me but for about two months now i've not been attracted to him or feel like i love him any more. I've told him ...

My girl said she hates me... but does she mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - I'm currently going through a break up with my girl. She ended it and said some things to me that didnt make sense. i tried reasoning and asked for the truth with no reply. i love her so much and after 6 days of no contact i seen her. She's changed ...

I know she is not good for me but I can't get her out of my head...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - Hi All. Thanks for reading my question and please reply as I am pulling my hair out with this problem and it's really getting me down. I split up with my girlfriend of a year and a half around 4 months ago. It was a very up and down relationship...

Relationship woes at the hands of his daughter...do I stay and fight or walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I am a mature, very attractive, independent woman dating a professional, very sweet man (M.D.). Four years now. He makes excuses for not having me meet his two children, both very needy in their own ways. They both live out of state. Both in ...

Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very ...

Should I send her a letter trying to explain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - I'm reposting since i didn't get any good advice! About two weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend over some pretty hurtful things I saw on her phone (yes I looked through her phone). The month before she had told me she didn't know if she want...

Has it slipped his mind that I hate noisy bars and clubs? Why is he asking me to go there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I recently started dating someone who seems really nice and compatible, and things have gone really well between us so far. We've both admitted that we're starting to establish a real emotional connection, plus genuinely good chemistry, etc. ...

Should I wear my heart on my sleeve and see what happens?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - ok so here is the deal. I wrote previously about some other guy. We ended up breking up becuase he became distant after finding out i didnt want to believe the doctors about me having a misscarriage and i have been fine until now. I turned 21 on...

How to keep a relationship going

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - a relationship is very important you dont want to loose it over something simple or small to keep a relationship going you need to do a few things always remember ur loved ones birthday and celebrate it in a special way always keep good coversations ...

Is the army making him emotionally unattached?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I met this guy back may just as he was headn for another deployment n iraq and we emailed, then IM'd and talked on phone alot then i flew to see him for thanksgiving in germany after the deployment because i work for the airline. Well had a blast ...

Will he forget me when he's gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I'm feeling seriously bummed. Me and this guy just started flirting for a couple days and he's so sweet. We text and IM eachother all of the time but now he's leaving for 2 weeks to do some family stuff. Do you think he'll forget me while he's gone? ...

How do I make her feel better so I can kiss her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - So we have been dating for a while now. We're kind of young I'm 16 and she's 14. She's two feet shorter than me and almost twice my weight and not confident at all and we haven't even kissed yet. She has never even kissed anyone. How can I ma...

Three months and he hasn't even attempted to make out with me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for three months. we were both each other's first kiss, so we're both fairly new to the whole kissing thing but i really want him to make out with me but he hasn't even tried. i think he's afraid he'll do it ...

Girlfriend and porn...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years with my current girlfriend. Things are going great, and we both confide in each other for pretty much everything. Porn has been a little bit of an issue in our relationship, though. I like to watch ...

Why is an attractive woman pushing men away by not having sex with them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - I am single again after 10 years of marriage (wife passed away 2008) I have meet a nice lady has a teen age son, divorced since 92, and I think very attractive. Problem is she has not had sex in 10 years and refuses to even talk about it. I love her ...

Are my looks turning guys off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - Ok so here it goes. i am twenty years old, 5'6, 110 lbs, have long brown hair and blue eyes. i also wear glasses. so what can i do to get a boyfriend? i've never had one and im beginning to think i will always be alone. any tips on how to get one? ...

He doesn't call or text me often

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We get along really well, I've met all his family and friends and he's said that he's never been more sure of anything in his life like he's sure of his relationship with me. One thing though that I ca...

What can I do to last a bit longer during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - Basically, me and my girlfriend have recently started to have sex. She's the first girlfriend I've had that I've been having sex with and when we first started doing it I lasted quite a while. Within a few times of doing it i had lasted 90 minute...