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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is he trying to upset me on purpose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I have no idea what to do this guy i ve been seeing him for 8 months ago but i dont know what to think about him he sometimes is nice sometimes very cold and distante and he says he cares about me,the thing is that he is planning to make vactions ...

Should I be concerned that she hasn't called or texted me yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - So, the girlfriend and I used to text all the time until I got upset with her lying to me and we had a big argument. When I talked to her last night, everything was fine. I have been trying to make myself "less available" hoping that she ...

Advice sought... Why is my period late???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - 20 years old, my bf and I have just starting having sex together for the first time recently. We used a condom and he didnt cum inside of me. My period is late, by about 3 days. So I am scared that I could be pregnant. For the past 3 days I ha...

Pains and aches when in a sexual mood for too long...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Just a quick question. I've recently been getting pains and aches near my lower stomach and balls. It only happens when being with my girlfriend when we're kissing and touching but not actually having physical sex or oral. It seems to be something ...

I have only had 2 orgasms since we've been together... how can we change that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I stumbled across this website randomly and I'm actually quite happy I did. I have been in the military for 3 years now and as a result of that it's very hard to find and connect with women on a friendship level like I used to as a civilian. With ...

New bedroom tricks to wow him!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I just fixed our semi broken relationship and I want to spruce things up and maybe be a little more kinky without freaking him out. Any suggestions??...

Did she love me or was she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 2.5 yrs split for 6 months last year. During that period she had a failed relationship with a new guy and got sacked from her job Then she contacted me again and said she wanted us to work. She moved overseas to be with me again...

Please Help! How can I take the relationship back to being casual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Hi All, I split up with my ex of 3 years 3 months ago. Got into a relationship with a new guy, who is really nice and stuff, but it's moved really fast and I'm not ready for anything too heavy or serious. How do I take it back to being just fun w...

Does love exist? I've never had a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Hello, well i was wondering a lot about love. Ive never had a girlfriend and the last girl i liked a lot, well she told me yes about going out, but when i talked to her by phone, she told that she had boyfriend, she was very beautiful(close to the ...

Sex and my virginity...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I need some advice here. I'm turning 16 in 2 months. I never had a boyfriend. I don't know how to kiss (i don't think any guy will want to go out with me when they see i don't know how to kiss) and I don't personally think I'm ugly, I am confi...

Missed the pill once, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I am on the pill, but accidentally missed one last month and didn't realize it until after my boyfriend and I had had sex the next day. According to my prescription information, I should be ok because I only missed one pill and took two the next ...

Should I keep no contact with my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Hi, My ex is now in what i believe is a rebound relationship. They're going through the honeymoon stage, thinking each other is the best thing in the world, thinking they're already never gonna feel this way for anyone again, blah, blah, those ...

Sex and sexual positions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - What position should I use to best please my girlfriend and me? What position works best for you?...

Am I doing the right thing by having a girlfriend right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend were steady for almost 2 years. I loved her so much and consider her my first true love. In the beginning i fucked up when she said no when i asked her out and i ran back to my ex and then realized it was a mistake and that ...

Why do the guys always go for my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - why them and not me why is it my friends mainly 2 friends i will call sally and amanda get all the men its always the same at clubs and when amanda and me went sppeed dating she got 4 ticks i got none they are slim i am average but not uglier t...

Has anyone been in a situation where you are best friends for years and eventually you do become a couple? I am really hoping that will be the case for us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - I'm 26 (male) and my best friend (same age, female) who I've known since school days suffers from low self esteem. There's too many details to go into, but basically her family are split up and she says she never felt wanted and no one ever cared ...

Why would guys behave like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Ok, to keep a long story short, i’m from a small college and this guy and I are from the same faculty, though different majors. He’s supposedly from popular clubs in school and has a healthy social life from what i see on facebook - clubbing, ...

Should I tell him why I cant be around him anymore? I feel cheap and gutted that he doesn't want to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - This is really long but I think I need some professional help. I have never had much confidence but when I started my new job a few years back it was meant as a new start and I felt really positive, however, after a few weeks things weren't g...

What do women mean when they say they only want to be friends cause they are not ready for a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - I've recently started talking to someone, she knows i have strong feelings for her, but she just had her heart broke by a guy and says shes not ready just yet and this is an email she sent to my ex gf who both get on well and are actually talking ...

Should I give him some more time or just give up completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - hey guys help please..my guy friend told me he wanted to be more than friends with me but he was wary as well having been in a relationship in the past that hurt him..he told me he felt comfortable around me i was really pleased as i also wanted ...

My boyfriend completely shuts down whenever something upsets him, how can I get him to let me in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known each other for a year now and officially dating 2 months . I find that when he is in a bad mood or someone or something upsets him he shuts down completely. I have on numerous occasions tried to make a break through and ...

Should I tell my new partner that I enjoy dressing in women's clothes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - I am a man in my early fifties and I have recently met a lovely woman. I want this relationship to be successful and I want to be totally honest with her. My problem is that my honesty could destroy the relationship. I want to tell her that I like ...

What does she mean by sending me a message like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Hi all, I had a crush with this girl for like 2 months back in March. We both know that we liked each other at that time but as it got complicated(cuz we are really distanced, she's from a state 4000km away from me) we didn't start. I know fr...

He has Erectile Dysfunction and I am not sure if this is something I can cope with long term

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I'm 43, divorced and I've been on the dating scene for 6 years. I started dating this guy a couple of months ago. For the first time since i've been single again, I feel like I found a true match and things were going great. But we are having a ...

Could staying single but still messing around with each other become a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - I have a friend and we both like each other. The thing is, we're not dating and probably won't. We've kissed and stuff before, so it's almost like we are dating, but we don't have the title "boyfriend and girlfriend". Could staying single but ...

Do I ask her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Alright so im starting to get feelings for my friend she's pretty cool. We hang out every now and then like we went to a few college football games this summer and a couple movies. And lately we've been talkin alot i think she might have some ...

How do I advise my friend about her coworker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

6 January 2010 (?) - I need some advice on how to handle this situation with my friend. "Emily" is 25 and last year at work, one of her male co-workers asked her out. Mind you, he also asked out ALL of the other female co-workers as well. My friend said no. She said she ...

Why don't any girls like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - I am a teenage boy in high school. I am pretty athletic and many guys compliment me daily about my physique. I also am dual enrolled in college level classes through my high school. Im not extremely outgoing but im not shy either. What I want to ...

Male suggestions: does he like me for the wrong reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - idk wat this fool thinks about me: urgh idk where to start. i kissed him my prom night cuz he was my date but we were not a couple. after prom he has bothered me many times to kiss him again because he was attracted to me after prom i told him no ...

Have I done something wrong or did I make the right decision?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Well my ex bf and me were in love until somethings like problems came and things i didn't like about him so i felt like i was with him so he wont be sad and do anything stupid to him self well then my best friend really like each other and he ...

Niko or Hector... Which one do I choose?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Ok so theres this guy "Nick" and well we've been going out for a while,after we heard the news that i was moving out of state he suprised me with a comitment ring. So i moved out of state with my family out here and i started talking to this guy, ...

What do you do when you fall in love and they don't feel the same?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - So....what do you do if you fall in love with someone and they don't feel the same? Says he just got out of a bad relationship and isn't ready for all that...YET! But he hugs and kisses you all the time and shit...but wants to be friends right ...

I am going from guy to guy since I have had my heart broken! Why am I like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - So i was dating this one guy' for 9 month's and we were like diggin' eachother alot.. but i f**ked up alot and then i broke up with him and he told me he would always love me no matter what he just doesn't know if he could take the shit anymore .. ...

Girl A or girl B?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - Ok, first off I'm only 15 so this decision isn't totally crucial. There are these two girls, both go to my school. Lets call one girl A the other B. I've known girl A for around 6 years, I like her but she's not really in my friendship group and so ...

How should I start a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) - hello. before i ask, I'll tell you about me. i'm 15 and a sophomore in high school. i'm like the nicest guy my the whole school pretty much. i've actually done my friends hw for them, that nice. i have an awsome sense of humor. i laugh at every...

How can I keep this friendship alive now that I'm leaving?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Help! I'm devastated! I have told my story here several times. I'm the girl who met Mr. truck driver man at work.(Please read some of my posts from mid dec 09-jan 6, 10 for more info on the goings on with this issue). Here it is briefly. We've be...