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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Confused by mixed signals! How can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi All, Wonder if any girls could help me here? Ive known this girl for some time now and she said at the end of last year she liked me.... I turnt her down as nicely as I could saying that I didnt know her enough and wanted to get to know...

Got back with my gf and she wont get over me sleeping with someone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me and i slept with someone else because i thought there was no chance that we would get back together. Now we are back together she cant get over it and keeps making me feel really guilty about it ...

Will his children ever forgive me for breaking up their family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - About a year ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. Well, shortly after that, a family member of his (whom I've always been attracted to but never thought anything would ever happen because he was married) contacted me to consol me for my ...

Feeling sad! I don't think my boyfriend is the one but don't want to end it either!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Im in my mid twenties, living at home, have a good steady job and a boyfriend of 7 years. I am now utterly depressed. My boyfriend and I were about to fill out a form for a flat but i just broke down in tears and couldn't face doing it. Problem is, ...

How can I tell her I liked her without hurting my other friends feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - hi i had to choose between 2 girls and now i've picked 1 but another one of my freinds asked her out and she rejected. Now i dont want to tell her how i feel in case it hurts his feelings and damages our freindship. i wont see her til saturday...

Things were great and as soon as we had sex things changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I hope I'm not just avoiding what I already know, but I just want to make sure I'm not over reacting or letting my emotions get the best of me. Ive been dating this guy for about two months. Its a little wierd though because we met over the holidays ...

She has a kinda promiscuous past! how do I deal with this when it comes up?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been dating a girl for 7 or so months, and she is great. A little while into dating her, I started to find out that, to put it plainly, she was a huge slut in her past. Not only that, but a lot of the people she was promiscuous with...

His ex is causing trouble! Is he telling the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i`m having a bit of trouble i talked to a girl who claimed to be my boyfriends ex girlfriend and she told me that he asked her out a few weeks ago when we have been going out for 5 months he has already been out with her and she went out with him ...

Why don't I have a boyfriend if I get checked out all of the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Guys tell me im very attractive all the time and i get checked out while im out quite often, but i haven't got a boyfriend and i'm just wondering why?...

Should I continue this complicated secret friendship/relationship with a teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - So here is the deal. I was infatuated with my female performance teacher. 47years old, 1 child and a partner. I am 16 years old, graduating in 2 years. Since I have managed to tell her about my feelings for her we became friends. But that was one ...

Issues with my boyfriend, pregnant with his baby, upset by his actions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm in quite a serious dilemma... I met this guy and fell pregnant the second time we slept together. The good news is that we've both stepped up to the plate and decided to embrace our situation. The only problem is, i'm battling to accept is ...

How do you stop talking to an ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - What is the best way to cut contact from an ex? I am in a very toxic relationship right now and I know that cutting contact is the best thing to do. But how? What if you can't resist yourself but you have to cut contact? I wish it would be that ea...

He didn't respond to my texts! what went wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I met a man online we had two very nice dates in the same weekend. I asked him if he liked me on our first outing he said yes a lot staright away I said I did too. We hugged and cuddeled a bit both times we saw each other, and I mean just hugged - ...

Do husbands always lose interest when their wives age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm so panicked now... When I read this posts ,it looks like there is an epidemic, of marriage goes bad almost like scheduled ,for 20 -25 years. I keep reading about husbands ,who goes off sex, and losing attraction,or just simple luck of love. Me ...

My ex won't talk to me and he's seeing other people and I can't let it go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I feel like I am about to explode this minute. I don't know why but I have been broken up with my ex for a year and I never can seem to let it go. I know he's an asshole as he left me for another girl. I know guys like him don't deserve a single...

Is it a good sign she doesn't want to talk about women I'm involved with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - I've been getting back in touch with a friend of mine through email. There was a lot of sexual tension between us when we worked together last year, but things never materialized for various reasons. She drops hints about men she's been invol...

He said that I was better off without him for the moment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I am really sad at the moment...im 40 and my boyfriend is the same age, anyway we had a great time on friday and last night he said he was thinking about me on email...we were still exchanging emails and he thought i was in a funny mood with ...

How can I get her trust back?help me plz

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - i had a girlfriend before and i was so in love with her.i did everything she wants but she only breaks my heart she loves someone and not me.she breaks up with me and it really hurts. the day after our break up i hang out with my friends ...

Our date was on thursday and today its tuesday and he hasn't contacted me. why is that??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i went out on a date with this guy and everything seemed to go very very well. the chemistry was there, we were laughing and had a really good time. probably the best date i ever had. we really clicked. he also kissed me first. and i think he had a...

Her ex was 'bigger' than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - well, we are a evangelic couple, and we'll have sex just after marriage, before both of us turned evangelic and knew each one, we had another partners... we don't amke sex yest but she putted her hand on my dick when i came out from the bath and...

Did not want him, until he had someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I have a friend that has this friend that she talks to on the phone and go out sometimes. Her friend has asked her many times to become his girlfriend, and she always said no, and she would tell him how she never felt nothing for him, that he was as ...

She blames me for having HPV.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - So this is kind of a unique situation...My ex girlfriend who I love with all my heart had cancer a few years back and it was very intense for her life and overall emotional state. It is something she would never want to go through again. Initially ...

2 guys! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - well i liked a guy and he really likedmeback but i still had a little bit feelings for another guy but now the othe ne won't talk to me because i am aing his friend i feel horrible what should ido cupid and the obne already asked meon a date ... ...

Why is he not turning me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - am dating this guy i thought he was really great but now am not soo sure. hes a rich kid at uni.. and very good looking..but when we kiss he doesn't turn me on and i dont know why. on face book, all his friends are girls..they give him...

How do I get out of this sad, draining relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i am 28 and he is 35, the problem is we are always fighting as a result am so drained and dont think the relationship is going anywhere, i want out but he doesnt, we promised each other to change but nothing works.I tried everything to make this ...

She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...

I want her but she is hanging out with him and I'm hurt...what can I do?

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26 January 2010 (M) - ok so i posted only last night and got one answer that was kinda helpful but you see the girl i like and want (my house mate and my best friend) shes got a guy in her room she said hes just a friends from work and that they are hanging out but ...

I need insight on contraceptive methods...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hy everyone. I am little bit suspicious with condoms as a prevention of pregnancy. I know that they are pretty much safe because they can also protect person form all kind of sickness, but there`s a small posibility that makes me nervous about ...

Why did he cum so fast? And why am I missing him so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi i would like to ask you guys for some help. The issue that i have is love related. Il try and cut the story short. I have been going out with this guy for nearly 2 months. How the relationship started was extremely strange. I didnt know th...

Even though we used protection I am paranoid now about being pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Well ok I'm 22 years old. Last time my period ended was on December 25. I lost my virginity on the 7 of January. my boyfriend and me had sex three days in a row.. but every single time we used a condom we even checked before and after condoms ...

WIll he 'grow up' without my intervention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi!!! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and a half and I am 18 now, and he just turned 20. I know that he loves me and I love him too. There is only one problem... I am afraid for our future. I know that I am young but I am ve...

His friends staying over is affecting my sex drive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and have been living together for 3 years. Almost everyday his friends or his brother come over and play either madden or Modern Warfare 2 until late at night and one of his friends ends up sleeping ...

My girlfriend spends a lot of time just thinking ......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Me and girlfriend been dating for couple weeks now, well it is going good by far. She been thinking a lot about stuff like us and she always seem to be down. What can she possibly thinking about? I don't know, it kinda bothers me... What can ...

Is this new guy serious about me? Can we ovrcome cultural differences?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I've been in this ambiguous relationship with a visiting prof in my school for a couple of months (I'm no longer taking any classes from him and would probably not be doing so in the future), and it's really kinda tormenting because I don't know how ...

I can't get my b/f to orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. We've gotten to fingering/handjobs, but I have a problem. I haven't ever given handjobs before, and I seem to be really bad at it because I can't get him to come. He can always get me, and I'm ...

My boyfriend doesn't touch me ..............

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - how can i get my boyfriend to touch me.i wonder if he is cheating on me and am i teh problem...

I keep questioning my boyfriend about his feelings for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend who is 21 and i(17)been dating for 11 months now. we haven't had sex. I feel like he might be cheating on me or has lost interest in me. we live 3 hrs away and he comes to my house every weekend, we are on the phone every night till ...

I went too far with him on our first date, now I am worried if it made him think less of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hello guys!! I have a question: I went out on a date with a guy I met at my college. At first I didn't even want to go out with him although i liked hiom because I had a huge crush on someone else. But when we went out I had an amazing time with...

Unrequited love, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - ok i'm 16. i have this really big problem. i really really like this guy, but he only likes me as a friend. i think its a case of unrequited love. i just can't get over this guy. i've liked him for almost 2 years. i also met him 2 years ago. and ...

I'm a flirt with no backbone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Well here be the thing I flirt A LOT... but i never really follow threw. I guess the reason why is i just am not sure if i really like her or not, but its kind of annoying i guess you'd say. Any advice? (Mod note: title was written by poster)...