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Dating: Help and advice

Sex worries because of his size!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - im a virgin and my boyfriend isnt, i have seen his penis before and it is rather big and thick, he has poked me a lot of times and the most with three fingers, is my hymen broken yet? and will sex be really painful with him seeing as he has a big ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to kiss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he has stopped kissing me. He doesn't like kissing me and when he does there is no passion. It was not like this before... is there something wrong?...

Part time boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Okay hers my problem. Back in Nov. I met the most amazing woman. She was everything I have ever wanted in woman and more. During the next month we had a really great time together. She told me that she loved me and that I was the first person that ...

Sex isn't great with him, how to spice it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hi guys, ok so here's the thing me and my bf have been having sex for a while now and have done it a fair few times, though not millions!!! But it doesn't feel as good as I think it should for me. I mean yeh it feels ok but not as amazing as I ...

I've been 2 years now with my best friend's ex but now she's started to like him again... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - my best friend went out with a guy for like 2 weeks and they broke up. about 3 months later he asked me out and i realy liked him so i asked my best friend if she was ok with it and she said yes. We have been dating for almost 2 years now and i ...

It's so unfair, I should be able to date who I want to!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - well hi there it's kind of a long story but anyway here it is I have met a guy after a year he asked me to marry him, we are completely coming from different culture he is christian and I'm Muslim he changed his religion as I can't marry someone ...

Hypocritical boyfriend.

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16 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a long time now and when we first started dating i made big life changes for him; i gave up smoking tobacco and weed, i changed friend groups, i started eating etc. for the simple reason that he wanted me to. now, ...

She never climaxes... and I can't understand why!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - so ive been seeing this girl and well shes 11 years younger, im 30, come on, do the math its quite simple! ok so we rock out together and have many things in common but i can spend hours and hours yes much oral then penetration and yet she never ...

Is she a woman or a man??? HELP!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - I'm totally confused and I just hope somebody can help me make the right decision. I met this girl at work about three months ago. It was her first week in her new job and we got talking on our break. We hit it off straight away. After a few weeks I ...

With this implant is it safe for my boyfriend to cum inside me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hiya, I can't think of an intelligent way to say this so I am just gonna' say it :) I currently have the contraceptive implant in my arm. Me and My boyfriend have a great sex life, and on occasion we have sex without a condom and he pulls out ...

I'm tired of him and want to break things off but how do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - 3 days ago I told my boyfriend that I didn't feel like talking to anyone or dealing with anything without bitching and he said okay I won't talk to you. I was having a really hard time cause my period was late and I was stressing out cause of school ...

He seems to be so mean to me when he's drunk.

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16 January 2010 (F) - Okay - This is probably not a big deal but I don't know how to handle it. My bf and I have been together about 1 year. We are buying a house together. Twice now he's gotten drunk and and is so mean. Not physically abusive or anything. But he'll say ...

I don't want to sleep with him and feel used... do you think he's serious about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - for the past 10 months i've been 'getting to know' this bloke. We both fancied each other from the start, but for a couple of reasons couldn't 'date' properly. Still, since all that time ago we have spoken every day, and just got closer and closer. ...

Adopting her legally... and the problems I might face.

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16 January 2010 (M) - My gf and i have been dating for a year and a half. Im 26, shes 24. She has a 2 year old daughter. We were just friends when she fell pregnant, but the child's father wanted nothing to do with her once he found out she was pregnant. So i have been ...

What music to heal my pain?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend who i was crazy about and so in love with has recently finished with me to be with another guy. This all happened a bit out of the blue and has shaken me bad. we were together 3 years. Can anyone recommend any songs that I can...

Hi mood swings drain me but I am crazy about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and I'm 21. I've never been bothered by the age gap, we get along very well and were friends first. When we first started sleeping together I'd just come out of a 2 and a half year relationship, and knew he was a total player, ...

What lesson can I learn from all of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i actually thought he liked me.. made me feel so Special. He would ring and text me all the time but he then pressured into sex.. and i gave in and I regret it and hate myself SO much. He didn't even ring to find out if i got home safe or not.....

After 10 years I find I am not his one and only

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have just had the shock of my life and I need your advice! Just a few weeks ago, my boyfriend and I decided it was time for us to take a break. He had been very distant over the past few months.. and confused about where to from here with h...

His behaviour seems to be opposite to what he is saying

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16 January 2010 (F) - Oki, here's the problem, iv been with my bf or about 7 months and I love him so much but there's a major problem which is bothering me . I was left really hearbroken by my ex doing some online cheating stuff, and one day this came around into the ...

She wanted a break but gets angry because I don't contact her

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16 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriend of a year now decides that she wants a lil break. i for the last three days now, i've haven't actually called, text or tried to get in contacted with her in anyway, but we still would talk because she would call me or text or even when ...

Everytime I hug and kiss my girlfriend my body reacts and its embaressing ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Ok I'm 14 and i know some of y'all won't think this is serious and all but it is everytime I hug or kiss my girlfriend i get an erection and it embarrases me and I feel akward and I ant just stop hugging and kissing her because shell notice it and ...

My boyfriend's life has gone pearshaped and there is no room in it for me right now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend who's now my ex just broke up with me two weeks ago. He used the line " I think we should take a break" I"m trying to move on but can't help but wonder, what if. Were both young I'm 20 and he's 22. He says he has alot on his plate and ...

We met online by accident, and now we are talking of meeting up some place

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hello, So this is a first for me. I started talking this guy online some, basically by accident, and we have talked more and more, spending hours on the phone, texting, and web cam. Hours and hours on web cam. It's unusual that I would get involv...

We went too far too fast and now I feel resentful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my bf for 3-4 years, almost entirely long distance. It's so dumb to worry about but it's really getting under my skin recently how quickly we sexually progressed, especially after reading things on here like "if he's worth it/ if ...

My b/f is coming home from Afghanistan, how can I tell him I'm not ready for marriage yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I am in a long distance relationship, with my bf in afghanistan in the military; i'm nervous that when he gets back he's going to propose to me and i'm not ready. while i feel strongly about him, his coming back will signal our first ti...

He often goes out without, I would like him to stay home with me now and again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating the same guy for a year now, and I keep getting annoyed by things lately. For instance, I am 21 years old and still live at home, which means I do have a curfew. It is lame I know, and my parents obviously do not trust me,even ...

She was my first, but I wasnt hers, and that makes me angry!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - She told me about one of the guys she has had sex with before me and Ive been wanting to kick his ass so bad. I saw him tonight and got so close but it didnt happen. She was staying with him when she got kicked out of her house and she had sex with...

His mouth says he loves me but his actions say different

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i have a boyfriend who is upset at me because of somethings i had done in my pass. he has been giving me a hard time about it and even calls me every name in the book.. he claims to love me and will never deni that to me but his actions show ...

My boyfriend has temper tantrums, and my older lover wants us to continue after he marries, I feel he is using me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a relationship with a boy i love however his emotional tantrums over the smallest things are starting to get to my nerves and i do not know if i will be able to stand this for long. However, on the other hand i was seeing an ...

My boyfriend confides things in my best friend that he doesn't tell me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - There's a guy I really like who is really sweet and funny and great. He and I have been talking and getting really close. He always compliments me and tells me that I look pretty. We talk about everything and I tell him things I don't tell anyone ...

My b/f and I fight often, my mother hates him and he also lacks self esteem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - So I have this boyfriend, I've been with him almost five months and we have a bit a LOT of fights. We're kinda in a tight situation because my mom hates him because of something that happened, and he won't let me go to his house ( yeah, i know...

He texted he loved me, could he really mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have known this guy for over 3 years now. At the beginning he was going out with this girl and they were together for 3 years. I liked him for like a year and then him and his girlfriend broke up. The year I liked him was their third year of going ...

After 5 years what is a girl to do???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We now have 2 kids together. I am worried about our relationship...it seems to be fading away slowly. For the last year he has been taking 30 to 45 minute showers. This made me wonder so I looked ...

I'm really worried about a date I was on tonight...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I'm really worried about a date I went on tonight. I was really nervous throughout the date, my shyness always seems to get the better of me. As a result I didn't express myself as much as i'd have liked to. We went for a drink first which calm...

He has NEVER gone down on me!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - So, I've been dating a guy for about 4 months. I REALLY like the guy and we have a ton of things compatible. The sex has been pretty good as well. He is really good at the actual act, but he is not one for much foreplay. He NEVER once has gone ...

I want an orgy but my boyfriend is dead against it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - im a freak. i love sex and sexual experiences. recently i've been craving an orgy. i told my bf about this and he was -so- not into the thought. he said he didn't and wasn't going to share me, and vice versa. is he being selfish?! or did i ask for ...

I don't know how to approach my partner about a sex problem

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16 January 2010 (F) - I have been with this man for some time, and I realize that I probably should have brought this up earlier. Now when we have sex he pulls out just before he releases himself and more often than not I do not have an orgasm. I know that for a lot of ...