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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Any decision I make now I'm afraid I'll regret later!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I have a serious problem. I had a 4 year relationship with Alex and we were extremely close but I started having worries that I was too young and wanted to have a small break to experience more things. That happened 3 years ago and Alex and I never ...

Should I tell guy 1 how I feel? I don't expect to break up with guy 2 and get with guy 1.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - hello, i am here to ask for some advice and please, i do not want judgemental replys. please. if you are going to say something nasty, please restrain yourself and read another question and do not reply. Thankyou. Okay well long story short, it...

Same guy, same story, different day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - ok well me and this have been sleepin together for a lil over 9 mnths. and he lives 111 miles away from me.(at college) and weve grown distent.and i dont like it. we were really close friends before and now we really dont talk. we both hang out with ...

No one will talk to me because he has a gf and I like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - The guy i like who already has a girlfriend likes me, and now his girlfriends mad at me and now no one will talk to me! What should i do?...

My feelings for him have changed and I don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - hi there. i promised myself that life was too short to think about thinngs so deeply enymore so i said as a new years resalution that i would just go with the flow (with in reason of course).. then i met sean... he is a big man i mean as in body ...

Introducing my boyfriend to my family...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - How soon do you reckon i should wait before introducing my boyfriend to my family?? We've only been going out like 4 weeks already but i've met his family already but by accident and i really can see myself with him for a while. I'm worried inca...

He don't want him to need a drink to make a move on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - ok i've started seeing this guy about 4 or 5 weeks ago and everything is going well - i'm quite surprised at this because all my life i've had failed relationships and i'm not really that confident when it comes to relationships. When he's drun...

Is it unreasonable to ask that this friendship ends now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend saw his ex and kept it a secret from me and recently saved some photos of her in her underwear. we've talked it through. he said he wants me and me only. he wants us to work and I am willing to try and give it this relationshi...

How does a 31 year old tell a male 27 year old to shave his bush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - How does a 31 year old tell a male 27 year old to shave his bush?...

Any comments are appreciated. I want to be in a relationship but I just don't see it happening again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Its been 9 months since my ex broke up with me. A part of me always foolishly held onto the hope of her coming back. Any hope I had stopped when she found a new boyfriend. I'm not mad at her about it. I want her to be happy and if she finds ...

My relationship is on rocky ground and to top it all I've found out I'm pregnant! Now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I have just found out im 6 weeks pregnant. I'm 23 and have only been with my boyfriend for a few months. The last few weeks we have been having a really bad patch, always arguing. He says he wants me to keep the baby but i dont know what to do about...

PLEASE! I need an outsider's perspective about this relationship.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I had a bf almost a year ago whom I had broken up with because I found out he was cheating on me. This had hurt me so severely I was depressed for months, had nightmares and developed a phobia on certain things and places. For some reason, my ...

How do I tell him I am ready too have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about three months and we understand each other very much. He is becoming my best friend and our relationship is close to the point when we can honestly say that we love each other. I know that 3 months are not ...

How do we get that 'naughty' spark, back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Ive been in a long-term long-distance relationship for over 3 years. We've had our share of challenges including trying to keep our sex life heated up. Our sex life has not been great for more than a year now. The distance keeps us apart for weeks ...

Boyfriend's mom seen nude pics of me and says she's going to show everyone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I sent my boyfriend some nude pics of me, and his mom saw them and took his phone. Now she is saying she is going to show people the pics of me. I was just wondering if there was anything i could do. Now before you judge me, i have been with my ...

Did I blow my chances with this guy I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - So theres this boy I sit next to twice a week and I really like him. So I may have flirted a bit.His mate noticed and went around telling everyone that I like him, so I told everyone that I don't, even though I do. His mate does not believe me but ...

Why didn't he say he was with his girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - the other day i was laying in bed watching tv with my boyfriend (we've been dating a few weeks.) a girl called and asked what he was doing and he saying "just laying in bed with my friend (my name)." i know he used to hang out with her a lot, not ...

Can one cultivate a sexual attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Can one cultivate sexual attraction? If possible what steps need be taken and what are the odds of a positive outcome? ...

We check each other out, but nothing comes of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I am finally to have a relationship after breaking up with someone about 8 months ago. I have tried online dating for the last 6 months and haven't had much luck. I recently reminded of a guy at the gym. I noticed him way back at the end ...

What do men find really irrestible in women???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Is it possible to make someone fall in love with you? Im not talking about attracting a guy so you can sleep together, but the kinda love where he wants to meet your parents. What do men find really irrestible in women??? please be honest,...

Do muslims have to marry their own kind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - i met a muslim guy in oct and having been seeing him once a week as he works in a restaurant so very busy day and night. i very fond of him and he brought me a ring for christmas not a engagement a costume ring with crystal on and its silver very ...

Choosing between boyfriend or new friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Here's my situation..I have been with my boyfriend for 5years beginning was crazy cheating you name it. He has been trying to change..but he gave me an ultimatum to have a kid so he could feel like he has a secure thing going..Mind u I have two boys ...

Understanding low self esteem and dating a best friend of 12 years who suffers from it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - I am looking for some opinions on low self esteem and dating. My best friend of 12 years has very low self esteem and not suffering from it myself, I find it hard to understand how she feels. I looked on the internet and found a comment that an ...

Reluctantly Romantic: How can I reverse my romantic feelings for my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, There's this girl. (Cliché, right?) She's just about the cutest thing I've ever seen, and at the same time she's so independent and self-sufficient. She's not interested in a boyfriend and that's part of why I find her so attractiv...

Do I throw away 4 and half years of hard work for this friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 n half years now n everything was good to begin with. We have been through a lot as well and still stuck ny each other. Now, it feels like I'm.just a cook,cleaner and dog walker. I do everything in the house an...

I'm 22 and can't seem to get a dating life! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I'm 22 years old. I have never had a boyfriend, I have never really been on a real date. It was only a couple of months ago that I actually first (tongue) kissed a guy. It was some random guy at a party who really liked me and we talked and made out ...

My boyfriend likes to wear clothes with naked women on them...I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - My bf likes to wear clothes with naked females on them. I find this quite offensive. If he wants to look at porn, thats ok, as long as I am not subjected to it. Why does he have to wear it on his clothes? It makes him look like a sleezy pervert i...

I feel really guilty...how do I come to terms with my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I just finished college, and my last semester was one I unfortunately regret in many ways. I dated a guy for two years and he broke up with me right before first semester ended. He was my first serious boyfriend, and this hit me pretty hard. We ...

I'm sick of being single! How can I be less reserved and more available?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - i'm almost 18 years old, and i haven't dated anyone in probably 3-4 years. in my last 2 relationships, i noticed that my first boyfriend was much more physical than emotional, and i ended up breaking up with him, and with my second boyfriend, he was ...

Is she cheating? She lies about where she is going...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - ok im 21 and my gf is 20 and we have been dating for 4 years in the past two years we have had two kids both babies stil every thing was goin good until about 2 monts ago she went to a holloween party with some guys from work now i dont want to ...

I'm curious about this guy but I don't have a crush. What do I do?

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11 January 2010 (F) - So, I'm in a bit of a strange situation I guess. I've been home for the winter break. It's only about 45 min. away from the university that I attend but with no car and the fact that I haven't driven in over a year, it seems like a long way. I live ...

I need a second opinion on whether he's interested or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I'm 17 and he's 18. We have known eachother for about six years now, and (I think) that there has always been that attraction between us, because he always seems to treat me differently than other girls, and he seems to behave differently around me ...

Am I just the rebound girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - So after months of asking to see me again, I decided to go on another date with a guy I saw over the summer. We were only seeing each other (not serious), but he ended things when an ex came back in the picture. I knew he liked me (and still does). ...

Where do I go from here...I've only met her once...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Well I am 16 and I go to an all boys school. I met this girl but I only met her once and we talk on and off on facebook. I really like her and I dont know what to do because I dont have alot of experience in relationships or even asking girls out. ...

It seems my ex has moved on...its been a year and I can't seem to...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - hi im 20 years old and i'm at university i dated this girl a year ago and we were very close we only went out for 5 months or so but we were friends before that. We broke up because -quote ' you just don't have time for a girlfriend' so she left me ...

We messed around one night so does he like me more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Ok im really confused. Me and afew of my mates went out one night one of which is a guy ive liked for a long time, things have always been difficult between us due to people(who we dont see no more) winding us up and so its made it awkward for us to ...

He says I'm the best thing that's happened to him. Is he for real?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I'd like to know why this man who is 20 years older than me winks at me every time he sees me, and usually when we are alone, and what you think of the rest of the situation ?. I am 25, and he is 45. He is single, and has never been married, and ...

One-sided love affairs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - This is for anyone who has been in a one-sided love affair. If you have pined over someone, idealized them to the point you question your own worth and felt continuously disappointed by the affection you have not received...this message is for you. ...

I told him I am in love with him and he needs time to process all of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - He is my sister's ex. She gave me her blessing to see him. He is 50 and never married and has no kids.I am 48, divorced with 2 adult children. He asked me to Christmas shop with him. We went out 4-5 days and nights each week for about 5 weeks. We ...

Why do I like older men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Alright here it is. I have always been attracted to older guys. Even when I was little, like four or five I would try to kiss all the adult males (not blood related of course) that were around me. I'm nineteen now going to be twenty and by this age...

I know she's had sex with others in the past and it makes me sad.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - i have been dating this girl for a few months now and ive loved her for along time and she has loved me for along time to a few years i think like 8 or 9 years and i know shes had sex with other people before we got together anyway i know it souldnt ...

Can't talk to him but love him with all my heart! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - so me and my boyfriend were talking and he started talking about this party that went on and was asking me all these questions and he asked me why i didnt kiss him.i would turn my head and not let him kiss me the whole time and its like that now i ...

Do I ask him out even though he likes another girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - So, I like this guy and he likes a girl that's in our bio class. We hang out. Until, our friends threw us into a greenhouse together and he was forced to ask me out, but he didn't he pounded the door until a teacher came to let us out. And we didn't ...