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writes:My best friend and I talk about everything. We often talk about sex and our experiences. This seems like something normal for teenage girls to do- brag about how their time with their boyfriend was the night before. I just don't know how healthy this is in our situation, because it's incredibly weird. She is dating my twin brother and I am dating her older brother, so when we talk to eachother about stuff that has happened, we both know in the backs of our minds that the other one is talking about our brother. Should we stop talking about things like this completely and risk potentially becoming distant in our friendship, or just deal with the fact that it's creepy for both of us?
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reader, unknown_unknowns  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Yeah, that's a little bit creepy. My brother's girlfriend came on to me once, and I was totally nonplussed. It is totally normal to compare notes the morning after with your girl friends. But in this case. . . ew. You should talk about how creeped out you feel, and if you get it out in the open, it will ensure you don't become distant in your friendship. If your friendship is based entirely on sharing kiss-and-tell stories, it's not that strong anyways. Have fun!
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 Eww, that would be nearly as bad as hearing about your parents doing it ..lol. I think I'd pass on that conversation.
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