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Dating: Help and advice

Baby situation as well as boyfriend!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and want a baby at least one, so we have been trying for a while but I don't no whether he wants as much or his hope is just lost, at the minute we are waiting to see if i am pregnant, but if i ...

Romantic ideas for valentine's day???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I'm looking for help and ideas of what to do on valentines day. in the evening/night me and my boyfriend are going out to a nice restaurant for a romantic meal and then off to a nice bar for some drinks but i want to arrange something for during t...

How can I change this mentality he has about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I've been with a guy for 3 years now, however, I have doubts about the relationship. When I first met him, I wasnt living a good lifestyle (I was Bi-sexual, and had a lot of guys), and because of him I changed for the better, I stuck with him ...

Head says move on, Heart wants him so bad.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I was seeing a guy for 3.5 years and in October he sent me an email saying that he had to finish it as he loved his kids more than me (they don't know about me) and he wasn't ready to move in together. We were looking at flats together 2 days before ...

I feel violated by his video antics!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Last night I found video on my boyfriend computer, about a week old, of him filming up the skirts of women. I found 5 videos, i dont know if there are more. The video clearly shows his face, and him on escalators, putting his camera phone up girls ...

Things are going good, but is it too soon to tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I haven't been in an actual relationship in nearly four years. My last boyfriend and I broke up at the end of our freshman year of college due to distance since it had become a long-distance relationship since going to college. Recently (abou...

When you love someone with all your heart... how do you know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - How do you know when you love someone? When you really love them with all your heart? Me and my girlfriend have only been together for a month. We have already had sex and we can talk about everything. Even love. But I feel it is too early for us to ...

Still in love with my ex but I have a boyfriend now! So confused... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I am torn. Completely and fully torn. I have a boyfriend his name is Rick. He and i have been dating for almost 3 months. Well recently my ex boyfriend who i never really resolved things with, his name is Jake, have started talking again. He was the ...

I feel betrayed and cheated. Did she cheat on me or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - So here's the story: I started to hang out a lot with this girl last year (I've known her for a while from college). She still had a boyfriend but he was to leave her after four years and eventually she cheated on him with me. We had a wonderful ...

Boyfriend flirts with other girls, what should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - So I have been dating my boyfriend not to long and I really like him he treats me so good, he makes me laugh and smile and is very sweet. He has told me before we dated that he is a flirt but he will not date other girls well he get's these friend ...

I am not coping with his past and the 3some he had!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Years ago my partner had a threesome with his then wife and her female friend in their house, in their bed whilst their child was at her granny's. It was his wife who initiated the threesome, she took her friend back, etc. His wife has always been ...

Give the engagement ring back... or sell it???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - I was with my ex-fiance/girlfriend for nearly 4.5 years. Our relationship was very up and down, and I believe I never could make her happy. In fact, I don't think she's a very happy person at all. When we met, we were friends, her then 4 month...

Help! I don't know if I can trust him with his mates on holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of 11 months is going to magaluf with his mates and says he will not cheat as he loves me and i am the one. Although he slept with a girl 2 months into the relationship but felt so bad because i was so hurt. i do trust him but all his ...

How do I get over this so I can see the real him even when I'm not in contact, so I can finally move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - So me and my ex have been broken up for a while... he had a lot of issues, called me names, didn't respect me, flirted with other girls all the time, etc. Whenever he and I are talking again, I can see all the reasons I left him and I want nothing ...

Is he a friend or a bit more? I don't know what to do about him seen as I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I have known my friend for nearly twelve years now but we never got close until secondary school, now he is always on my mind but i have a boyfriend and have been with him for two years and i do love him but its my friend we always talk we are so ...

Is it ok to date my Brothers ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - I would like some answers on dating my brothers ex girlfriend My brother and his ex girlfreind split up 21 years ago and he passed on 3.5 years ago. Is it ok to date her now?...

Does she have a "different" kind of orgasm than other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I have just started having sex with a new woman I'm seeing - everything was great, and she seemed to be enjoying it, but she didn't seem to have an actual orgasm. I asked her about it later and she said that she doesn't really have one big orgasm, ...

How can I change his mind about not wanting a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I continue to go out with the man i dated last year when he asks me that but now we have rather a friendship than a relationship. We stay friends as he was not interested for a serious relationship. Can this ever change and can he ever be serious ...

My boyfriend cheats on me, I wish I could just walk away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - well my Bf is a jerk, we've been together for more than year and a half. he keep lying and he does a lot of internet dating. I went on holiday for XMas and came back on the 4th, when i came back he aid we will make a fresh start and he gonna stop. I ...

I think he sabotaged our relationship because he anticipated it wouldnt last

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I hung out recently. He's been M.I.A. for months due to personal/financial probs.He contacted me,he was in the area - We talked and flirted for hours in the car.He talked bout hating the dating process,wants companionship,someone ...

Could friction have caused my problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Moderator's Note: This question has been edited to remove sexually explicit descriptions. My boyfriend and I have now been together for a year and a half. He had been working out of town for about three weeks, and when he came back he picked m...

I even joined the military to help forget her, but it isnt working

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - im in some trouble here. about half a year ago I started this girl who lives in canada while I live in the states. yea a ldr. we had such a connection. all the same likes and dislikes. are connection was so strong that thru some days after meeting ...

How do I stop worrying and enjoy my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5222 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I don't know how to deal with my insecurity issues. I've been with my BF for about 5 months, known him for about 6 and he's really amazing. Before him I didn't have a serious relationship. One guy I dated cheated on me and lied all the time, an...

Is it wrong of me to think this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm here to find out... am I wrong for not believing in getting married? I love my partner, we've been together for 13 years and have three kids but my parents marriage kills my hope for ever wanting to do it. Is it wrong of me to think this ...

Out with the old and in with the new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for nearly a year and the past 3 months we've gotten closer.My ex(dated for 5 years broken up for the past year) decides to call and tell me all the things that I've ever wanted to hear him say and is aking me to give ...

Why do I treat him like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - what is wrong with me? theres this guy i lile and i am often very mean to him. he likes me too were friends. i always treat other guys nicely, flirt with other guys, dance with other guys even though im not doing anything serious after with them.the ...

Am I doing the right thing by telling her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - I am a 28 y.o shy guy who has been battling with these feelings over a friend of mine a 20 nearly 21 y.o girl for 2 years and I should explain that we are both christians. Sometimes I feel like she likes me other times I can't be so sure and I am...

How do I talk to this new boy in my class?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5222 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - i will try to make this a shot as possible for you guys! thanks so much!:D ok so im kelley (im 16)(: and recently there is a new guy in my class(he was in a different english class) and his name is tyler. the second i saw him i felt like, we co...

I crave to be with her but she says she is not ready, if I give her a baby will she come and live with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - I met this girl on a nightout I fell for her hook line and sinker we speak on the phone everyday and have done for 16 months I love her she has had a lot of problems and there is a 13 year difference I'm 31 she is 19 she says she's not readt to be ...

I offered to be a FWB, he agreed but now he isnt talking to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Last week, my boyfriend broke up with me (for the third time but this time I don't want to get back together)because he had enough with all the stress from me, school, and family (his parents are breaking up and he would had to get a part-time job ...

Boyfriend of 3 months OR friend of 9 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - First things first I have a boyfriend ( harry ) but i like a guy ( nick ) who I've only just realized I've liked for 9 years..and he has a girlfriend ( mollie ).. We went to a party last night ( house party ) and i got a little drunk, my boyfri...

Help! I really like my guy friend but I don't know if he likes me back

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - sorry in advance for all of the spelnng mistaks, im in a hurry :P so me and this guy have been friends for around a year, but we barley saw eachother. just recently, we have started hanging out together again, but his little sister and my lit...

Shouldn't relationships be built on trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5222 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - here's the situation. i've been dating this guy and he's said some pretty mean things to me/doesn't apologize/etc. and i've tried to break up with him but always he somehow convinces me to get back together with him. then we traveled togethe...

Is she into me or am I just her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - This girl I've known for a while just wrote me an email calling me a jerk and an asshole for teasing her, telling me she recently had a one-night stand for the first time ever, calling me a cutesy pet name, asking me like five questions about what's ...

I have proof she cheated but she is still in denial

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - what if you're you been a girl with a year now, and she thought she could be slick and have a side relationship with a another guy, but when you caught her and even gave her sure proof, she denies it. even when u have proof of them flirting...

When I go to college I am scared that he will go looking somewhere else for sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

18 January 2010 (?) - Hi..I am 17 years old and me and ny boyfriend are sexually active. Well the problem is that I am a senior and he is a sophomore. I got accepted to college and will be leaving this summer. This means I won't see him as much anymore and I am scared ...

I have proof she was cheating, but she still denies everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - what if you're you been a girl for with a year now, and she thought she could be slick and have a side relationship with a another guy, but when you caught her and even gave her sure proof, she denies it. Even when u have proof of them flirting...

She said she liked me, and I started liking her, but now she says she hates me, what did I do wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (?) - I'm 14 and this girl used to have a major crush on me, and i didn't feel the same way, eventually i started liking her and now i am totaly obsessed. We went out and even though her feelings hadn't changed she ended it. She then started ignoring me ...