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male
age
26-29,
*onfuddled545
writes:I am head over heels for this girl I know. We've been best friends for about 2 and a half years. She has had a lot of trouble with guys. She dated one guy who used her to get to her best friend, another who used her to brag to his friends, another who just dumped her for no reason and asked out the next girl he saw (literally the next one..I was there, and beat the S**t out of him for it)The thing is she only dates one type of guy, she says she has a thing for Brunette runners, but they just keep hurting her. Yet she still only dates brunette runners. I am not a brunette runner.A while ago I told this girl how I felt, it was about 2 months ago, maybe longer. She said she wanted to stay friends and wasn't ready for another relationship. I went into a major depression for about 2 months, I just got out of it about a week ago. She has now started dating another Brunette runner. This one is also a total *******, he's dated 3 girls at once before, and in my opinion that's just terrible.She keeps dating these terrible guys but I'm so nice to her, I tell her how beautiful she is every day, I make her laugh when she's sad, I listen to everything she has to say, I bought her very expensive and nice Christmas and Birthday presents this year, I've written her poetry too. But she shows no interest.Everyone with eyes sees that it won't last between him and her, and I don't want to see her get hurt again, seeing her in that much pain is unbearable. I don't know what to do. I want to painlessly separate them but I can't and won't because it'll upset her and I refuse to do that. I wish she would show me some interest too so I could show her that there are guys out there besides brunette runners, and not all guys are jerks.What should I do? I want her to have feelings for me but not false ones, and the guy she's dating...I just don't know what to do...
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (24 January 2010):
 Be a jerk, treat her like $hit, don't be emotionally available, date many girls, then she would fall in love with you, with REAL feelings.
NO, just be yourself and love and real relationships would come to you. Don't make relationships more complicated than they have to be.
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