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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My ex bf is messing with my head but I can't let go! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - i broke up with my ex tim* 4 months ago (we were together for a year and a half and completely in love) because this is our senior year and i felt like i missed out on having fun with my own friends and i felt like i was in a committed relationship ...

I moved across the world to be with him-now he's not sure if he loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - This is a hard situation. I moved to another country to be with my boyfriend, he was pretty scared/nervous/unsure about it but he still did a lot for me as well as his family. I live with them now the last 6 months and he broke up with me because ...

I'm scared to let him give me oral in case I smell!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - heyy, i am in a relationship and love this guy a lot but i stop him going to give me oral because i am paranoid that i smell down there. can you give me any advice on how to over come this? thank you =)...

We fist fight all the time and it's not getting better... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Well i was with my girlfriend for a year and a half. We spent so much time together, and as i look back i think that is where some of the problem started. I had so many friends even me and my exes was cool, and she did not like that. I talked to ...

I need to make a major decision here... any input would be appreciated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend of a year and half. I absolutely love him. I live with him already and it is going great. It hasn't messed up our relationship at all. The thing is I have to switch schools to get the BS I am trying to get and I have two ...

Am I investing my time for it all to end anyway???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - I am in love beyond what I ever thought possible. I was once married (for almost 10 years), and left that relationship a hollow (cynical) man. I spent a lot of time learning about myself, my needs, and ultimately what I wanted. At about the time...

Help! I have a very high sex drive and my fiance doesn't - yet he's watching porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for seven years. We're young- no older than 22 and We've lived together for three of the seven. A few months back i woke up randomly from having gone to sleep early and noticed pink light on the walls from t...

If he finds out I'm banging his "little princess" the man will kill me!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - Ok, I have a HUGE problem. I am 29 yrs old and have been working for a construction company for a year. My boss is totally cool and since I have no family in the area has pretty much opened his home to me. We get along great both at work and off ...

Is it ok to not have a boyfriend at 14? A friend in my class has had 45!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Just wondering if its normal to be kinda frigid at 14? It's just that I have seen girls my age who have gone past the whole "shy" thing and are dating boys whenever they feel like.Theres a girl in my year who' had over 45 boyfriends. I ha...

Just as I got over him he comes back into my life saying he wants me back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend high school sweetheart of 5 years cheated, i believed he was the love of my life but i found out last August that he was in a relationship with onother girl, when i confronted him he agreed he was cheating and said he doesnt need me in ...

She isn't taking my calls..should I keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - Hi cupid, i want to ask question.i need a reasonable answer for this. i met this girl just a week. she came to my office where am working with her elder sister who have married. they came to browse in our office. when i saw her, i don't know what ...

I can't tell if my boyfriend's best friend likes me..what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Alright so I have a bit of a complicated situation. It may seem silly, but can someone please tell me what this situation seems like from the outside? Do you think my bf's best friend might like me a little? Please bear with me as this may get ...

Lately, my gf seems to be going off me'. What can I do to keep her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - Ok so I dont really know where to start I am in love with my girlfriend, I really am. But lately I dont know...she seems to be going off me. And that put's me in a really bad mood which makes our conversations not as pleasent. We've never had ...

Problems with females in relationships! Help me understand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - I'm mad about this girl...I liked her for a long, long time. I don't know if she played games with me or just didn't know how to reject me a way to not offend me. She broke up with me on prom night in high school, and I flipped out on her two days ...

Discussing marriage with my bf...greatly upsets him. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating my bf for 4 years. Whenever we try to have a serious discussion regarding our future (marriage) he gets extremely upset with me (i.e. yells, shouts, HUGE arguments). I try very hard to do special things for him. I cook, clean, ...

I still love him! So how do I salvage this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles i need advice ive been having problems with my boyfriend and i cant seem to get him off my mind. he took my virginity and he did confess to me that he had female friends. but i believe its more. however i have male friends and a ...

Caught my bf masturbating while chatting to another woman, online!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we met when i was 14 and he was 18, i was dating his friend (nothing serious) and eventually he and i hooked up. We had a great relationship in the begining (as most are), then i caught him jacking off while ...

H's bashing me to other people, on this dating site! What is his problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (?) - I dated someone who is now on match.com and is bashing me to the women he is now communicating with. A friend on match.com found this out through her community of members and told me. I texted him and let him know i knew, which of course he denied. ...

He turns angry and aggressive when I attempt to leave him! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - hi sorry this is going to be a long post but i will shorten it as much as i can. i have been with my partner 5 years - we no longer live together - i dont want to be with him anymore but am scared to leave him. He has been violent and ...

Am I wrong for getting upset at the way my bf disrespects me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Ok, my and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years. I'm starting to question our relationship though because of the inconsideration he has for me and my feelings. Last night his nephews and niece had stopped by with his sister. His ...

I really like this girl but I'm scared to ask her out in case everyone laughs at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - i am Polish, i really love one English girl but she just doesnt seem to like me.i am not sure if i should try to talk to her, i always go red when im near her... i think that everyone will laugh at me when they will know that i asked her out, what ...

I feel my boyfriend is taking advantage of me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for ten months now on and off, i do love him but i think he is taking advantage of me, he works and i go to school, i do not ask him for money but he does, where does his money go? well from what i know he less than ...

How do I make my girlfriend happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - what i've 2 do 2 make ma girlfriend happy?...

How can I get him to like me again now that I've lost weight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - i really like this boy but i dont no if he still likes me i mean like we went out and stuff but i got fat and i he called me fat and no thaqt im skinny again i dont no wat to do i want him to like me and i want to get back with him i need help can ...

HOW TO KISS A WOMAN

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Pinkee here~ It’s January, which feels like a good time to get back to basics. Why don’t they teach things like this in public schools? Well, I’ll tell ya- no one ever taught me, OR a lot of the guys I’ve kissed. In case you’re interested in what ...

Is it wrong to date boys in the grade below me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Mt friends are mostly guys that are my age but a grade lower than me. Because these are the guys I hang out with all the time, I usually end up liking one of them, but a lot of people say it's wrong to go out with a guy that's a grade lower, even if ...

What is the meaning of kisses on the end of text messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - So, I'm guessing all you guys and girls get "x" or "xx" or even a "xxx" after texting somebody you like or you care for i.e. mom, brother etc. The whole reason I'm here is because of a girl, I really like. I think she likes me because she flir...

What shall I do when she has asked me to give her time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - I know this girl bout 3years from friendster and we started till then but that time we less msg but juz a friend.. started 2009 we really started to msg to each other everyday although we haven meet yet and really get to understand her bout 1 years ...

Should I ask this girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - im 13 and there is this girl in my school i like a lot and i think she likes me she always wants to talk to me and she hugs me all the time but i dont know what i sould do , she is mature (she reads thees books about vampires giving blowjobs and ...

I am in my mid-20's and still single, and I have no clue why!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - I am currently in my mid 20s and I have never been in a long term relationship in my life. Why do you think this could be? here are the details about myself The longest I went out with a woman is 2 dates and i have had countless first ...

It seems whenever I open my heart for someone I get crushed, its getting really hard to trust girls now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - love sucks. Ive really liked two different girls in the past 2 months, and both of them have hung out with me a lot, told me they really liked me, kissed me and everything looked promising and for one reason or another they slowly became distant a...

He used me in order to make his ex jealous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - i like this guy from same school but different class for 6months..i want to talk to him so badly,but don't know how to approach him naturally. one day he approach me and said he wants my number..i was so happy like crazy person.. so began conta...

Older man or younger guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I am soon turning 26 and would like to make some stable,serious choices concerning my life. I have been dating an older man aged 54 for 4 years. I was eventually tired of a distant relationship etc and decided to break things off.We split a y...

She would really freak me out as a serious girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm 26 years old and I've been having quite a dilemma lately. Here's the story: One of my two best friends is a girl, and well... she tells me everything... she's also very sexual and relates almost everything to sex in a healthy way i gu...

He is such a flirt and it tears me apart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Well I am 20 years old and I have a 4 year old son and a 23 year old boyfriend. I am 13 weeks pregnant with his baby, high risk pregnancy. We live with his mom and step dad cause we are both unemployed. Well anyway my boyfriend has cheated on me a ...

Average time to propose to your girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - For anyone who could possibly know... What's the average amount of time it takes before guys propose to their girlfriends?...

How do I get back with my stepsister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - I was seeing my step sister but we broke up even though she still likes me. She is afraid people would not except it. How do I tell her it is ok? We have both fell for each other very deeply it's killing me and we're not blood related....

Being single sucks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

21 January 2010 (M) - im 14 and my gf broke up with me not too long ago, its middle school so thats to be expected, but i miss having someone to hug and kiss and just relax with. the thing is she was my first girlfriend and we were only together for about a week, so im ...

His ex is always there in the back of my mind and I don't know what to do any more... Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I can't do it anymore... I don't know where to go from this point. I've talked to everyone that I possibly can (except a therapist, because I can't afford one), I've looked up forums and posts on countless sites all over the internet (as well as ...

I can't bear my boyfriend's silent treatment...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Whenever we have a fight, he goes and locks himself away in our bedroom and doesn't speak to me. At first I thought this was just his "cooling off period", but he remains angry at me even after he has had his time alone. Once it lasted for 2 days - ...