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Dating: Help and advice

My mom won't stop calling my boyfriend gay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Ever since my boyfriend and I started dating, my mom has poked fun at him. I usually just laugh it off, because I used to poke fun at her boyfriend, but lately it's been getting a little harsh. We've been together for 7 months, but we haven't h...

We don't know if it is right to date each other due to the age difference

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Ok so me and this guy been there for each other but the thing is he is 19 and im just turning 15 and we really dont know if its right to date. We liked each other for a really long time, and he has met my parents and everything and he even said to ...

Is he taking advantage of all the freedom I give him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend spends a lot of time with his friends playing football, video games and other stuff, but i think he spends to much time with them and not enough with me sounds crazy right, well i do things with my friends but he hardly do anything ...

Do you think what happened meant something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I kinda have two questions. Firstly i'd your opinion on if you think anything could come of this and secondly i need some help talking to this friend of mine. Heres the situation. I've known him afew years now, always thought he liked me, i alwa...

Does sex always hurt first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hey i need a bit of help i`ve been getting to that age now that i have been thinking a bit about sex. I feel like i want to do it and my boyfriend sean who lives in ireland wants me and him to do it when he comes down soon. But when i talked to this ...

Should I worry about the three little words?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hi . I am misssing the elusive : " I love you " that I have been waiting for . I have seen a lovely , caring older guy . Fifteen years older than me . He is kind , caring and passionate . He has told me ....that I am special , and big in his l...

Would it be wrong to date my brother's former friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - dear cupid i really need your help. im 19 and my brother is 22. for years he and his 3 best friends were inseperable and i was always tagged along. i wasn't one of "the guys" i was the annoying little tag along sister ever since i was 15. i stayed ...

We were getting along great and suddenly everything has changed, I don't know what went wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - okay i know this is probably a stupid thing to get so upset about. i just really dont know what to do! im 17 now, when i was 14, i met this guy.. he was 18, so i never thought anything would go further than the comforting hug which i got every now ...

Why is my boyfriend not replying to my texts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend went to his dads for new years and because of this he had to break off a date. he didn't text me at all or call and i texted him 2 times with no answer. then at new years he texted me happy new years and i told him that back and th...

How can I make sure that she will want to resume our relationship some point later down the road?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Hi, i my girlfriend recently just broke up with me. For the past 11 months i have been very happy with the girl i have been with. She is terrific and i love her very much still and care about her. I know she still has feelings for me but i can't h...

What is he trying to tell me? Does he love me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hi all so the guy im seeing told me he loves me but is not in love.But then he said he used to think he was in love with me.He also said he has deep feelings for me.What is he saying?...

How do I attract boys when I go to an all girls school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - hii I go to an all girls school and me and my friends really want to find some really good looking boys to become friends with, meet up with every weekend and then possibly go out with one. got any suggestions on where to find some or how to ...

Should I start a relationship with him when he lives so far away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hi, well i dont really no what to do with my relationship, here is the story: i go to turkey two times a year because my grandad lives there. and i met this turkish boy about 3years ago and everytime i go, i see him. and we are really close. but ...

Was he avoiding me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Ok so I was acting childish about this guy, I admit it. So I decided to take all the confidence I could muster up and be an adult so I gave him my phone number and even asked him if he would like to go to a New Year Party and meet some new people. ...

My boyfriend seems more concerned with getting his ego boost from this older woman rather than considering my feelings in all of this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I am 21, and my bf is 25. We have been together for about 10 months now. When we first met, I remember him telling me that he usually goes for "older women" and has never dated someone younger. I felt a bit insecure and on edge because of that. ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that my ex raped me, which would explain why I am struggling to have sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - About 2 years ago, my bf at the time (now ex bf) raped me. We broke up a few days later. It was a pretty traumatic experience for me. I tried so hard to stop him but I just couldnt. I tried fighting him off me, but he had me in a pinned down ...

Something feels wrong but if I dump him I'll never get him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - hi, my name's bea and im in a mess! I liked my boyfriend for a very long time before we went out, and about a year ago, i told him how much i liked him; he liked me too. he wanted to take things further than friends, and although i really did like...

Her mom caught us making out and now I think she doesn't like me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - we have been going out for a month. today we were making out in the back seat of my car. next thing we know it, her mom caught us. it was about 12 midnight. my car was parked in her driveway. thing is, my girlfriend strictly followes he's abstinence ...

Does he have any kind of feelings for me if he is still resolute to hang out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - So I dated a guy for a few weeks. The day before he broke it off with me and said he wanted to be "just friend" he had told me he was starting to like me etc etc. Well after that he broke it off and started with the whole friends thing. Anyways we ...

Why didn't he kiss me after our first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I just went out on a first date with a guy I met last week. I was so excited to see him because we had a great conversation and he is very nice and attractive. I had a great time on our date and I would really like to see him again, but I'm afraid ...

Should I care what others think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Hello dear cupid. I’m with my GF 3 years already, and on Christmas she told me she wants a « heart breakable « jewellery for the both of us. She told me that it would represent our eternal love, and relationship. Well at the beginning I didn’t ...

Is this my problem...or our problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been dating for eleven mos. It's been a pretty rocky relationship, and a lot of it stems from the fact that I suffer from both major depressive disorder and PMDD and I am not settled on any medications yet ...

Not sure what to make of her signals please help me interpret them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - She is sending me mixed signals and I do not know what to make of them!!!!!!!? I met this girl a month or two ago and it seemed like we immediately hit it off. Lately we have hung out a few times with friends and **** and that is always cool, bu...

How do I know? what are the signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - well im 14 i like this guy and im nt real sure if he likes me i dont wanna straight up ask him cause 1. what if he dont and 2. it would be just plain weird it may mess up our mkship.. and i dont want to get my friend to aks him that just a lil ...

When he's with his friends he treats her like a jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - hi there im a girl here and i have this problem its about my sister.well theres this guy that she and i work with[we work at a movie theater].she texts him all the time and wen there alone hes all nice to her but i think wen hes with his friends hes ...

Player? Or sincere guy who wears heart on his sleeve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - What is the opinion on a guy who REALLY REALLY likes you in the beginning of a dating relationship. I've been seeing this guy, he's not clingy, but he makes it clear that he really likes me. He doesn't pressure me for sex. He calls me when he...

She acts like she's interested but then blows me off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - So I have been talking to this girl now for a couple of weeks, she seems like she is interested, but whenever I ask her to hang out she just kind of blows it off. for example the other night I told her I was going to bed and that we should hangout ...

Men and Rejection

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I once heard that once a man has rejected by a woman he will never pursue or respect her again. I am very curious to know how bad does rejection hurt the male ego. Is it really that hard for a male to get over the rejection and just be friends with ...

Am I A Monster?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - I am not a perfect person and i dont believe anyone is. But i do think i should be better than this. Im only just starting to see how much of a nasty selfish person i am. What i want to know is am i as bad as i think i am. Is there no hope for me to ...

Why are guys so afraid of comittment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - can someone tell me more about commitment and why guys are afraid of it so much.i don't understand my bf told me he wants to make the relationship work but he does not want any commitment.i tried breaking up with him for the new year and he was in a ...

I'm just frustrated that she would like to him! Leave the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Hello, I have a woman I'm dating and one day when I was using her laptop I happened to see that she maintained an active profile on a dating site. I was also able to see one or two emails where she maintained active contact. Reading one or t...

What is my best approach with this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - I'm 53 years old going on 25. I have been married for almost 15 years and both my wife and I agree the marriage is over. I'm still living home because of children and financial situation. I met someone last year and it woke me up both emotionally ...

Can I kiss this guy and get away with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Heya, I'm 24 (just to put that out there)! This guy and I always flirt a lot at work, and I always hug him goodbye before I leave. I always wrap my arms around his neck so our bodies press together real close but I noticed that he only let me hug ...

Is this a case of cold feet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Ok. This is my issue. I am recently divorced (42) and I have been seeing this man for about 4 months (he is 45. We live 3 hours apart. Things were going really well. We were spending almost every weekend together. Then he went cold. Phone calls ...

Age dfference, but can't help the feelings!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hello, I am a fourteen and a half girl. Anyway this is my dilemna and I'd really appreciate it if you could give me your input or some advice. Just recently , I went back to my homeland, where I was actually born. There we have really good fami...

He makes me feel so rubbish about myself that I have doubts about us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hey, I've now currently been with my boyfriend for two months, I have known him for six months we were together before for three weeks but it didnt work out as we never saw each other much but we realised we both wanted to be with each other AL...