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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We want to move to different places. what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - Well, my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and living together for half that time. We do love each other and are good to each other and with each other. She's currently 32 and I'm 28. The problem I'm facing is that we live on ...

He said he loves me but has left me to go abroad with his ex. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner on and off for six years. I am now 37 and he is 48. It has at times been the most fantastic caring loving fun relationship with amazing connection and intensity, yet at other times he has treated me with no respect. ...

What to you think of a girl who is dating a guy but has a lot of guy friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - So I have been seeing this girl for a few months and things have been great. We seem to be getting along quite well. My problem is probably a result of paranoia but it's still bothering me. You see, she has a ton of guy friends. Which I'm comple...

My girlfriend is a bitch to me, but I still love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I'm in high school, my girlfriend and I have been going out for like a month and a half now. I really do love her, but there has been some problems lately. Okay well, she's white and thinks she's black, she says she loves me, but is constantly ...

Help! On the pill, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom, i am on the pill and he withdrew every time. Could there be a possible chance i am pregnant?...

Help! Should I wait it out.. I don't know what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - i have been dating my boyfriend for over a year. we went to the same school, we saw each other every day. we were inseperable. recently i had to move out because of my mother, and now im in a different town, and going to a new school. On top of ...

He's moving 9 hours from me... will this relationship still work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two years. because of our families and backgrounds we have had to move to different countries for university. neither of us are ready to let go and we are hoping to see each other during holidays but ...

Just a misunderstanding or worse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I've been together with my bf for about 2 years now. The last time I went to see him something happened that I can't stop thinking about. One night when we went to have sex I guess he decided he wanted to try anal. There was no talking about it ...

Help! What are these bumps on my vagina?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 8 months now. We were both virgins and in fact both each other's first ever partner so we had never kissed or had sexual contact with anyone before. We had unprotected sex the first time but he ...

He broke into my home and stole my jewellery!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I'm still having problems with all this guys. i have mentioned before about this thief of a boyfriend i had, he was convicted of fraud and theft on myself last year, has been in and out of prison and has stolen from EVERONE he meets for his ...

I wish I could just make things right and show her what she means to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - Hello, So I'm 28 and my girlfriend is 24 and we've been together for just over 2 years. Throughout the relationship I had the upper hand and as I reflect on it she has definately put in more effort. Approximately a month ago we got into a stupi...

I feel so ugly compared to Monica Bellucci (my boyfriend's heart throb!)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I feel so ugly... my boyfriend has a huge celebrity crush on Monica Bellucci, and has seen many movies in which she has sex scenes, with a lot of nudity. I know that she's really beautiful, especially for her age, but it still makes me feel bad that ...

How can I help her to get over this attack?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - Myself and my girlfriend are both 17. Before meeting me, my girlfriend was forced to perform oral sex on a guy at a party; although drunk she still said no and resisted. In a previous relationship, she was also hit twice. Now, whenever I kiss her...

Does he like her or not? Why does he move away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Have you ever known a guy to do this? Both him and this girl are my friends. They both like each other. Hes naturally a good guy, hes friendly and will make the effort however with her he is extremely shy. He wont talk to her much or anything. I ...

Do you think she forgave me for talking to her boyfriend like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - ok well my homegirls boyfriend is really cute abd i like him. yesterday i was on myspace and we were going back and forth asking questions. he asked me if he was my type and i said yes and then i asked if i was his type and he said idk i dont want ...

She told me she couldn't do "girlfriend" and took it back. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I have been dating this girl for about 5 months now. She is a rape survivor and it happened about 3 years ago in a long term abusive relationship. She really is an amazing woman who had to deal with alot. Recently she said she want me to be her ...

I really like her, but we go to different colleges, and I feel as if I'm bugging her when we talk online. How do I make something of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (?) - Hi people :) Well first off, im a 16 year old male, so the stuff im about to explain you've probably heard a million times over. Ive never been the ladies type of guy, I was always the one who was "a good friend". Now that ive grown up a...

Any tips for a goodnight text that will put a smile on his face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - i have been going out with a guy for a few months and like him a lot. i send him the usual goodnight, love you dream of me texts but i want a goodnight text that will put a smile on his face. something thats sweet but not too overpowering. thanks :)...

Is it wrong to date an older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi ijust met this guy he is 46 is it wrong to date someone older then you? and there is this other guy that i really like but he told me to move on what should i do? there is a friend that keeps coming over wanting to have sex how can ...

I hurt her feelings but I want to make things right because I like her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I hurt her a girl feelings accidently, and now she doesnt want to talk with me or let me talk to her. i was going through some problems so i didnt talk with her one week or 2, i dunno rly what to do,im feeling guilty and i really like her and i cant ...

I'm the new girlfriend around all of his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend is taking me to a party. ALL of his friends will be there (boys and girls) and I won't know a soul (okay, I'll know one guy). Now, I tend to be socially awkward sometimes, I'll probably be very quiet and reserved, cuz I don't really ...

Should I not have kissed her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - OK people, I just need some advice. I have developed feelings for a girl who recently separated from her boyfriend (it wasn't planned!). On Sunday we met and it went better than I think I dreamt of, we held hands, cuddled and even kissed when sayi...

He messed me around so I blocked and deleted him. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - ok so this guy i really liked..we got one..screwed me over..gave me false hopes.. screwed me over.. basically.. we were dating for a while.. we had sex..i gave in cos he kinda pressured me and i regret it soo much..the night we had sex.. he told ...

Our relationship is secret so should I worry about the other boys that like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hey this is a good thing well.. i think it all started when i went swimming i made friends with some randomers and now im being argued over and apparently 3 of the boys like me well ... great the thing is im going out with one of them and we are ...

Questions for the girls: Is my height and my scar a turn-off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - hi to the girls: whats the lower limit of height of the guys ud date? how bad is 5 10? i also have this big scar under my penis starts from right under the head to the balls is that a huge turn off for girls?...

My heart has been broken one too many times and I'm scared to let my crush in, am I driving him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid There is this guy at work which I totally adore, and I have the biggest crush ever on him. He is everything that I look for in a guy! My question is that my heart has been broken once too many and i'm so scared to let him in, am I dri...

Valentine's day....what to do? Should I drop some hints reminding him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 10 months. As this is our first Valentine's Day we are about to celebrate, I don't really know what to do, or what to get him. I've never been in a relationship on valentines day, so I am a bit clueless. I am...

Why would a guy lie about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - This guy I had a crush and I was talking about our final. So he said that he asked for my friends phone number so that he could call her and ask for help. He said that he couldnt get her # because she said that her boyfriend would get jeal...

He says he was scared...shd I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I'm 18, and I have been dating someone for almost six months now. I have always had a problem with connecting to people, but with him its always been different. I feel like I can spend the rest of my life with him, but he has two children with ...

Did my FWB actually ever like me or was I just some random girl to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Guys, your point of view would be interesting. So I met this guy, not interested in him at first but he was in me..very interested. I decided what the hell, give it a shot, and we started dating. First off, I slept with him on the first date. ...

Missing Him...What Should I Do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I've been kind of seeing this really wonderful/fine/sexy guy on and off for about 1-1 1/2 yrs now but he doesn't want to committ to a monogamous/exclusive relationship with me at this time. When I bring up the "relationship" topic he claims ...

They all say I'm pretty and nice but why do I go home alone every night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - ive met cocky guys players jerks who only want sex or guys who have a gf but say they like u more and i wait and wait they just never break up,leaving me bleeding inside..and i dont believe "im too good that guys get intimidated" it's a lie.. so yea...

Is my soon to be ex husband's friend off limits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been apart since 2003/2004. He started using drugs/alcohol and abondoned his family in 2004. He has caused nothing but pain and anguish... but I did try to stick it out because of my wedding vows and our child. Over the years, ...

Is an old, young looking guy going out with a young woman, creepy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - If a guy is 45, but literally looks 27, and goes out with a 20 year old, is that creepy?...

Online dating and trust

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi there, I need your advice on my situation. I am an international student in the US. During my thesis writing, I felt so stressful and boring, then I googled and joined a chat forum where I met a guy from Singapore. We started to talk and he s...

Conflicted - To leave or to stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 6 years, I am 24 he is 29. we have been living together for about 5 and a half years. Anyway, recently I have caught him out lying and being dishonesty to me in regards to his activities on dating websites. I bas...

Should I be friends with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Last week, my boyfriend broke up with me (for the third time but this time I don't want to get back together)because he had enough with all the stress from me, school, and family (his parents are breaking up and he would had to get a part-time job ...

He's a pathological liar, and says he's still in love with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused as to what to do with a situation concerning this guy I dated. It's been over a year since we broke up, but we decided to remain friends. Before anyone gets any ideas, I have not been intimate in any way with him since w...

My boyfriend needs to be more motivated...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I have recently got back from a year travelling. My boyfriend and I met one year before I went and as it was something I always wanted to do I decided to go anyway and we decided to try and make it work as we really liked each other. We worked at ...

Spicing up the sex life.. advice on confidence and outfits!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi everyone! basically i want to buy some sexy outifts/lingerie for myself so that i can bring something new and spice up the sex life.. but im very self conscious and havent let him see me fully naked or anything in the time iv been dating him! im ...