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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We've been together for three years and the spark has gone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm in need of help please. I truly love my boyfriend but we're going through a tough time right now and I'm in need of advice. We are both go to college, work, and to make things worse he's a 40 minute drive away. Sometimes we only get to see ...

Oh no! I have a new boyfriend but am falling for his mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I fallin in love with my boyfriend's mate. I cant stop thinking about him. the relationship is new and am his first girlfriend. I need help like badly. what should a do? dump my boyfriend for his mate or forever dream about his mate?...

I don't know which is stronger, my desire to stay with her or my desire to go home to the States

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - Hello all My situation is a bit complicated. I live in Spain and work in a Symphony Orchestra here. I met a girl, whom I care for very deeply. On many levels, I believe she has to be my soulmate. I love her very much. The problem is, I...

I lack confidence in the bedroom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid :) After being single for 2 years after a VERY messy break up, I've been dating a wonderful guy for 2 months and he is amazing. I've never met anyone more thoughtful or caring and I feel so so lucky to have him :) But there are 2 p...

Since I started this relationship all my bad body image fears have come back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Well....I've decided to stay single and out of the spot light for 2 years until recently. I've had bad relationships in the past and they sent me from hell and back so decided to allow myself time, healing and to regain my independence. I have met a ...

I come across as possesive and clingy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, Basically I'm just looking for some tips because recently I've started thinking that I'm perhaps quite a possessive and clingy girlfriend. I don't ACT super possessive and clingy as I don't want to come across that way and freak ou...

I cant accept my b/f loves me more than he did his ex girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I can't seem to get over my boyfriend's sexual history. We recently moved in together and are expecting our first child. We plan on getting married. My boyfriend is 5 years older than I am, so he obviously has more sexual experiences than I do. ...

Although she knows I love her with all my heart she broke up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - Here's the situation, my girlfriend and I were together for about 2 and a half years, we are both 24 years old now. We fell madly in love with each other and literally got along amazing, had so much fun together, and really could not get enough of ...

Torn between the two and not knowing who to choose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Im 17 and ive had alot of bad relationship experiances in the past I started seeing this guy who i work with, his really genuine but he prefers his mates over me and convocation is limited. Theres this other guy that ive liked ever since i can reme...

My boyfriends behaviour has changed and I am skeptical about his reasons

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm a little skeptical about a few things that have been going on with my boyfriend recently; am I in the right to be skeptical, am I just overly paranoid, should I consult him, and if so, what is the best way to go about that? A little bit of ba...

I want to stop worrying so much and focus more on my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Sorry it's so long but I hope there's someone out there that's willing to read this and answer it for me! My boyfriend and I have been together for a Year and 3 months. Well, a week before our one year anniversary, he broke up with me and sai...

Since I asked him out on a date, he now ignores me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Im fustrated with this and hope someone can help. Im friends with this man, that ive grown to love. We use to get along so good, always flirting and helping each other out even talking a little online. (we're co-workers) Ive asked him out before and ...

How do I spark my relationship up and do something defferent to interest my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - How do I spark my relationship up and do something defferent to interest my boyfriend. We have been together for a couple years and have done lots of experimenting. Most recently I have been getting sexy ligerie to wear for him and he loves it. I ...

Suggestions about 'breaking up'?? Anyone know any good ones?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - This isn't really a relationship question. But i was wondering, does anyone know some songs about you and your girlfriend breaking up and then you replace her but start to realize shes the only one you need and you want her back. Prefera...

My guy wants me to move in with him..but he hasn't mentioned it to his family! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. we have talked about moving in together. it makes sense for me to move in with him as he has no mortgage or rent to pay. the problem is it is an old cottage on a farm and has no central heating, ...

My bf has anger issues, he has cheated and he's hit me 3 times! Stay or go?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - hey guys. well i will start with the basics. i'm going out with a boy who is fifteen (the same age as me) and we've been basically going out since year eight (seventh grade) so over the years we have obviously become very close, but we have been ...

Need ideas for my gf's birthday coming up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - Hi all, Happy New Year! It is my girlfriends birthday coming up and I need some help thinking of a/some presents for her. I've done the usual - Necklaces, bracelets, Watch, and even an engraved pen before plus taken her on holiday, meals and shows ...

Is this behavior the way most gay couples behave? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - I am a 47 year old male that has been in a gay relationship with my partner for 3 years. A year into our relationship, I discovered he was frequenting video stores, having anonomous sex (he said no penetration, just jerking guys off), meeting ...

Will he ever ask me to marry him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Ok so I am stumped on a big life scenerio. I am 25 years old and have 2 beautiful boys with their dad (we will call him John Doe). We have been in a relationship since we were both 15 years old...we did split up for about a year and a half when we ...

First time sex coming up. No clue what guys like...any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - ok my and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years and we've never had sex because we were fairly young when we got together so i didnt want to just immediately sleep together!! We do other stuff lots but we've never actually tried going the ...

He claims the women he messages online are just friends! What do I believe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for almost four years. Last August i discovered that he had been texting and calling another woman day and night. He had even been round her house (to fix her tap...hmm..) whilst i was on holiday with my children and ...

I confessed that I liked him and he said he's not into it right now...what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I actually like dis guy. He doesn't more much about me but we know each other for 5months professionally. I too don't kno anything about this guy. But his good nature and character made me like him. And I just went up and told him I like him. He's ...

How can we improve our sexual situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for two years now. we are engaged to get married. i am for the most part content in our relationship. we have over come some obstacles. the only big issue that we are having still is our sex life. he has ...

Should I wait longer for him, or should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I am at college at the moment, and met this guy on my course in the first few weeks, we seemed to hit it off, flirted and texted a lot. He told me he likes me a lot and I told him the same. Recently we have been seeing each other outside of class, ...

Does she like me, or is she just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I am a 19 yr old bisexual female and have been bisexual for years, fighting to keep it secret from family, especially my homophobic mother. Most of my friends know I am though and have no problem of it. Recently, I was re-acquainted with a friends ...

I was worried I might be pregnant so I dreamt I had a child with four eyes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Ok, so I don't really know how to say this, and I'm pretty it's all going to sound like a worried, scared teenage girl asking for help, but that's exactly what it is, so I'm sorry. Basically, last night my boyfriend and I had sex, and though I've ...

My best friend dumped now I love him and she's trying to get back on with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I know how bad being in love with your best friends ex sounds and I know people will think instantly "Don't go there. You're risking yuor friendship" but it seems different to me because SHE was the one who messed up their relationship. They'd be...

Despite our 14 year age difference she wants to take it to the next level

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - I guys I was trying to ask google for a answer to my heavy heart when I found this community. I met this girl on-line a while back. We became very good friends. And with time we got very close. When we met she was going through a crisis or ...

My LDR can be really nasty to me sometimes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I could do with some advice please. I don't know what to do right now about my life and relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months and i thought everything was going as well as it could be. We are technically in a...

I am not sure how much cum is normal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - hi i have a new gf and the other night after sex we go talking about how much cum is normal. she told me her x would cum loads. what is the normal amount and do womon prefer more or less...

My b/f's friends are into weed and I am having trouble accepting it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Hi - I have just moved countries to be with my boyfriend and I am just starting to get to know his estabished friends most of whom he knows through sport. He has been cagey about me meeting them, even though I was really looking forward to it, and ...

I have met my perfect girl and yet am unable to perform!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - Why can?t I stay hard? I bet you?ve heard a lot of questions like this, but I?m at my wit?s end. I?m a healthy, active 22 year old male. A month ago I got out of a 4 year relationship with a woman who I loved, but felt nothing for for over 6 ...

I am a lonely single girl, wanting to know where to go to meet straight singles

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm 26 and have never had a serious boyfriend. I've been on dates and for the first time, I casually dated a guy for 8 months! He did not want to commit, but I'd like to count this as something. I am cute, young, funny, smart, interesting, ...

I know he loves me but I don't know if it's enough

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - For the past few days me and my bf of 8 months have been arguing. Like any relationship we have had our ups and downs but for the most part we have had the most beautiful loving relationship. but for some reason i can't seem to get over this ...

She left me because she wanted to 'grow' as a person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - My first post here.. sorry for making it sooo long.. Everything was perfect and I was the happiest bf ever We would say "I Love You" and we are the type of people that don't toss around "I Love You" like if it was nothing. We would talk...

I have ugly feet and keep them covered all the time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Ok I have a problem..I never showed any of my boyfriends my feet because I'm very insecure with them.I love my boyfriend and we are about to move in our own apt. He never seen them. I would like to do all tha fùn things with him that all the girls ...

I lack self esteem and it hurts my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - i have a problem that hurts my boyfriend...... its wierd the way i act when im with my boyfriend and we are out in public for example we are eating out for dinner lets say well if a girl sits beside us i feel lets of a woman when i see their bodies ...

How much space do I give her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - How much space do i give her? Summed up, ive known her for about 5 months now. We have been serious now for the past month. All of a sudden (like 3 days ago) i start getting a bad vibe/attitude. Really short replies on everything. Come...

How can I get him to communicate more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - hey i really need advice, my boyfriend does not like to talk or show any emotions or affection however i am a very emotional person and i love to show him and talk to him about my feelings but he claims he doesnt like talking about his emotions or ...

When it came down to it... why did he not do what he was dying to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I started a fight with my bf ealier today, i felt bad. So to make it up to him I told him he could do a certain sexual act on me that for months and months i told him he couldn't b/c it just wasn't my cup of tea. Well I figured he'd just jump r...

How can I make her really WANT me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - I have been with my gf for about 2.5 years. i love her with all that i am. we plan on being together forever. for about a year she has been giving me blowjobs/handjobs. today, yesterday and the day before that, things were getting hot and heavy. she ...