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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Was a fling or does he want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone. My boyfriend of 19 months dumped me almost 2 months ago. We were in a long distance relationship as of September this year when he started college, and he's currently home for the X-mas holidays. He attends college overseas. I'm cu...

Help. Baby daddy family drama part 2.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My son's biological father, we will call him Cord, died in June of 2009 he was drunk on father's day and fell off of a roof. My son was six months old at the time. 1. Cord was never there for our son even before he died. He never helped me financ...

Rollercoaster relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Right so my bf and I have had a big rollercoaster of a reationship. But the happy times have always outweighed the sad in my eyes, so i never gave up. However I did start to feel I cared more for him than he did for me, because I still did all the ...

If she snitches on me I'm done for!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I just recently broke up with a boyfriend and were still friends. Up until a couple days ago we have been hanging around each other every day all day. Then I stopped it because I still really liked him and he was pretty much using me as a booty ...

How do I fall back in love with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am 17 years old (please don't judge on my age, I'm very mature for my age and know what I want) and me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. At the beginning, I was madly in love with him. We had so much passion, so much ...

Need space in the relationship.Some advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months.I love him alot but he doesnt give me any space at all!He always wants me to be by his side every second of the day or on the phone with him.He doesnt give me space to meet my other friends or some ...

New girlfriend flirts excessively and sits on laps

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - So, I think my girlfriend is crossing some standard boundaries. We just started seeing each other. We are both into each other and she suggested we get into an exclusive relationship. I agreed. However, there has been 3 events that have turned me ...

Am I being paranoid or does it mean he has done sumthing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 4yrs recantly had an argument which he left our home 4 5days, he spent most of our split in his mates sisters house with his mate. since we got bk 2gether he seems as if he is hiddin sumfing! when ive asked has anythin ...

17, nearly 18 and I've never had a girlfriend - should I be getting worried?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Less than five months ago I was a complete loner – I had never been to a party, only been out with friends and peers a few times, mostly on events organized by my school. I had a revelation in the summer that I myself would have to do something ...

She's too close to my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I met a guy about a year ago. He and I started dating we broke it off 6 months into the relationship and remained friends. One of my best friends met him around the same time. We both met him through the guy she was dating and interested in at the ...

Is it wrong to want a guy who is 8 years older than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - If I'm 19 and wanted to talk to this guy whos 27 is that bad? I'm not saying I want to be his wife or girlfriend, I'm just talk or maybe have sex. Nothing more. Is the gap between use bad? He knows how old I am and I've known him for 5 months. ...

Is it normal for it to hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - hi, i've been with my boyfriend for a few months now and we went a step further and he fingered me it was okay but nothing like i expected, the next time we met i tossed him of and he fingered me again except this time it hurt and i told him, i just ...

He isn't pressureing me which is great but I want to make him happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2 1/2 close to 3 months. All we've done so far is make out and he's felt me up a little. I want to do more stuff but I'm very nervous because my boyfriend has had sex before and several different partners, ...

My boyfriend has Asperger's. How do I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Okay, I just got into a relationship with this guy. I love him a whole lot. From the begining he told me he has a social disorder, but never which one. About a month ago he told me it was Aspergers. I've been looking it up and it sounds horrible. I ...

Could this mean he likes me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So i've caught my guy friend staring at me from a distance about 3 times and he doesn't look away when i catch him. Also he doesn't smile when he's staring. I just stare back at him when he does it. He's very confident but i'm really shy. The other ...

He's keeping in touch with a "friend"

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29 December 2010 (F) - my best friend and i have taken it to the next level... we have been serious now for a while. he keeps in touch with a "friend" from his past by text and he has no idea that i know about it and that i know who she is. he says he hasn't been with ...

BF suddenly claims that he's commitment phobic! Where does that leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am a 24 year old woman and dating a 26 year old guy we have been together for a year now .suddenly he starterd acting up for me like not taking my calls and stoped me from coming to his place he said he has commitment phobia and says he doesn't ...

Is he just getting comfortable and feels he doesn't have to try anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So I just recently started dating this guy and weve been together for about 2 months but ive been really good friend s with him for about 3 years before this. anyways im 21 and hes 18, i ont really know if that makes a difference but anyways im kind ...

After 3 years I still don't have the confidence to ask her out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Im going through my teenage years but struggling quite a lot.Im a teenage boy of 14 years old and ive never asked a girl out.Ive liked this particular one for three years and i still dont have the confidence to speak to her.I have thought about ...

How to deal with the game he seems to be playing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I don't know how to deal with this guy that seems to be playing games. Basically, when I show interest in him, he backs off even though he was the one who pursued me. He would always be the first to call, to ask me out, etc. But like I said, when I ...

I'm paranoid about what could possibly be going on with my girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hello , i just want to know if its just my mind or if its actually happening !! im in a long distance relationship and believe me when i say my gf and i were soooooo much inlove , i still love her though like crazy but we had our ups and downs an...

Is it wrong to go out with my ex's best mate? Or should I wait a bit?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i'm in bit of a pickle! I recently finished with my bf about a month ago. He says that he still loves me and askes for another chance but i don't love him back. But here's the thing, two weeks ago one of his best mates said that he fancies me and if ...

What can I do to re-gain her trust and change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Okay so here is the background: I was with this girl for about a year when we broke up in October 2009, I ended it because I didn't feel the same way about her- I didn't love her anymore. She was absolutely devastated and plummeted into a...

My best friend and I like the same guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy at a birthday party and I liked him immediately! Later I found out that my best friend really likes him as well, eventhough she never really talks to him. Me and him became friends right away and had fun, which made her mad. Later me...

Is there any real way to "break through" to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I realized this year that I have probably had a relationship with a sociopath. Although we never got romantically involved, we became "close"--at least from my end. (I have written about her before here, but in short, the reason I say she...

We love each other,so why aren't we together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi cupids , I don't even know where to start , it's so complicated ... I met a guy about a year ago , I fell for him pretty quickly and we were hooking up quite alot in the beginning , he was a bit of a player in the beginning and i slowly backed ...

Is he uninterested? Or just shy to go out together alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So I'll try to make it short. I met a guy at my uni, and instantly we found a lot in common, talked a lot and stuff...I really started to like him, and overall I'm a shy person, but he seems to be pretty reserved too, even though he's kind of ...

Torn between the love of my life and being my mother's full time carer, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am in love with a *British male beauty pageant winner*. I am in Australia and I have known him for years but I am finding it very difficult because I know he is the one for me and he feels the same. The problem is that I am my Mum's full time ...

How do I make my first offical relationship work? Any tips??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - OK. The whole story about what happened is written below, my question is, I'm new at this, so how do I experience this relationship right? It's been a long time in the making, but today at a friend's birthday party, a guy I like that also am...

Is it too soon for two college students to consider marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - hi. i'm 21 and i am kind of confused. i've been with my boyfriend for a year and and a half. he has always been there for me, in the good times and the bad times. i know for sure he loves me for real, and that he would do anything for me. we're both ...

What types of signals does a guy send when he likes you ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i like this boy and i told him that i like him in person but it was really acward and he diden't say anything ometimes he sends signals that he likes me well it seams like it im rally confused . what tipes of ignals dose a guy send when he likes u ?...

Do you think he feels guilty about being with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My partner and I are both 58. He's widowed 3 years and I'm divorced 11 years.We adore each other.We both have sons in their twenties (all still at home) but he also has a son of 8, a late surprise child.As a result I spend most of my time travelling ...

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and ...

This has gone on too long. How can I get him to ask me out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - This guy and I obviously like each other, because both our group of friends can see it. I've told him many times before that i've liked him and at some point i asked if he liked me. Every time i asked, he said yes, but this whole thing between us i...

Me? too shy. But I want too tell her how I feel, and I think she has a crush on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - i have a crush on this girl and i think she also has a crush on me. But i'm very shy to even chat with her on phone, except through text. It's been 3yrs since i've known her and i can say the chating i've had with her since then till now is not more...

Said he adored me. We broke up, so then he scared me when became abusive. Now wants me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Please help i loved someone, he looked cute. i dated him now 2 years together. He says he adores me, but one day we fought so hard, so i decided to break up. He started to scare me, with the msgs. He had he started to shout and say bad words, and ...

Do guys date their former friends flames?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Do guys date their friend's former flames? I dated this guy for a month or so and regrettably we slept together. Things went way too fast, he was very aggressive and self absorbed, traits I didn't notice until my feet touched the ground again (no...

No boyfriend makes me feel very lonely and sad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Feeling really lonely: I, not to sound cocky, believe and truly feel that I am a down to earth, smart, attractive, fit, interesting, fun and caring. However it feels as though no one will ever love me or even look my way... I am still in high sch...

Did I lose a good guy by vacillating? And can I trust the other guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Been dating again - Guy one: European guy Was perfect until we fell out with each other over a derogatory word. Guy two: US guy 2 wants to fly me into Florida and has bought me a flight - now am battling what to do. Been getting to know guy two ...

Should I fight for him even though I'll get a nasty label at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I'm a sophmore in high school currently but I've liked this guy since freshmen year. He was in my English one class and we had a lot of the same interests; music and stuff. Now, I'm a chubby girl then most and the fact the were the same size-ish ...

Is there hope her with this girl? How should I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - hi friends, I am 27 years old ,I am attracted towards a girl who is 21yrs old. She has boyfriend from last 4 years Three months back i some how managed to get her number. I called her, told her I messaged her. But she did not reply, and she told her...

I have always love her, how can I make her mine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Ive known this girl for almost 4 years we have been best friends since the day we met. Ive always wanted to be with her and she wants me to take her out on her birthday tomorrow. I want to make her mine how do i do it?...

I am AWFUL at reading women and I really need help here. Does this girl still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I’ve known her for 1.5 years. I've asked questions on here and 99% said she was really into me. They thought I was dumb for not asking her. She sort of felt up my abs at a party. Touched my shirt where my stomach was.Smiles with me. Said she had a re...

Seeing my ex boyfriend tomorrow. How should I handle it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - [Mod note: What do you mean by "do something stupid"? A little more information on what you want people to stop you from doing might help! Keep smiling and don't let him get to you!] i have an ex boyfriend that broke up with me because i moved no...

Why is he blowing hot and cold? Is he insecure or he is not serious in the first place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I was talking to this guy for about a month when suddenly he went completely M.I.A for two weeks...then he contacted me apologizing, saying that things were moving too quickly and he didnt want to get hurt so he tried to just cut it all off between ...

Parents don't agree...Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I'm turning fifteen and I am dating a guy who is turning seventeen. We kiss, make-out but have never gone to far. His parents have begun to think that he is too old for me by two years, they also think that my parents don't agree with our ...

He has a girlfriend...how do I tell him I like him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Here we go again. So I used to like this guy A LOT. I was or maybe still am on and off with liking him. When he didn't have a girlfriend I didn't want him to know that I liked him but somehow it got out and he gave me his number. I am the type of ...

I'm not sure I'm ready to make out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while. but we havent even got the chance to kiss. we are going somewhere in a few days and it will be the perfect time. he says he wants to makeout and alot of other things, but im not sure im ready. ...

Should I give this secretive relationship more time or just seize the day and go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - For the past six months, I have sort of been seeing this guy. We met at a house party and got talking the day after when he asked for my number and things happened from there. We have spent time with friends and more time alone. Recently, we were at ...