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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What's wrong? Should I just wait for my married lover to contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I'm not sure why my male friend acted this way. I was out with him tonight and one of my family members. He used to fancy me, even though he is married, and I'm not sure if he still does, as i hadn't seen him since September. He got back in touch ...

No response, no replies, What's up with our LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I haven't heard from my LDR in almost three days. Yesterday, I assumed he was still asleep but when I texted him, he said he had been dealing with some stuff since the day before. I said ok and later on texted him saying I love you, but got no ...

Dates or just being friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Case 1:I met a guy in my university (in a rehearsal in music society) one week ago. He was quite nice and friendly.I introduced myself and we talked a bit. After we have finished our first rehearsal, all of us (members) had a social in a bar. This ...

Anonymous texts from my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - hi, i hav a question n im really confused here i hav a boyfriend im 30 yrs old hes 42 yrs old, we' ve been seeing each other for 7 yrs but six months ago he told me he was leaving out of state for work....so ok he left everything is good till i ...

I can't get over being romantically rejected by my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Hiya, I am good friends with a work colleague for the last year and a half. A group of about 8 of us hang out a lot and are all very tight. Bermuda can be an odd spot so us ex-pats stay together. A few months ago this friend and I started to spend...

Should I contact him? Or are we over for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. Our relationship, which sprouted from a friendship lasted almost two years. He was my best friend. When he broke up with me, it was out of the blue. Our relationship was perfectly fine. But I acce...

Porn, looking through hooker profiles, creating an on-line dating profile, wanting a threesome...I'm seriously questioning his motives!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I'm in a bit of a dilemma and I need your opinion! OK, I'll start by saying that my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, and we see each other almost every single day, and he truly seems to love me. He speaks of marriage and he ...

What do I do when my boyfriend flirts with a lot of girls??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Ok,supposedly this guy is supposed to be my boyfriend but he is known around school as the biggest flirt. I am the type of girl who gets serious when I'm in a relashonship. I really like this guy be cause he acts different around me but all the ...

I want to pursue her even tho I have a girlfriend...

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22 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I live together, but I am seriously falling for someone else. I wrote before about this situation early on when I was questioning about meeting "the one" when you are involved with someone else. We have this mutual friend (who by ...

I'm in love with a girl for 3 years and I cant express it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - hallo all. there is this girl at my univercity that i make eyecontact with for the last 3 years! i once had seen her at a club but just said hi and some drunken bullshit (about 2 years ago) i really like her and i think she also does (otherwise...

I'm no one's soul mate and it hurts that I have no personal life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - My mother passed away this year from cancer. She had been sick for 3 years and I had taken care of her. In the process, I hadn't given any consideration to my personal life or any of my own needs. Now that she's gone, I realize that I HAVE no ...

My boy friend's asking for closure

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me two days ago and now he wants to meet to "answer any questions we have about us or any clarification." why? What does this mean??...

Help me understand mu boyfriend's mother please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Please help me understand my boyfriend's mum! she tells my boyfriend he is useless etc., and moans at him when he doesn't do a job she wants doing straight away, and complains that my boyfriend and I are on the phone too much (all 7 months of our ...

Should I be flattered or offended by all the male attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (?) - Hello, this question is a little strange...but I appreciate any advice. I've always been awkward with men, boys and even my own father at the age of 13 . I was puffy, had pimples and was nerdy. I'm of eastern European decent... Now that I'm 19 I...

Why is my taste in women is so indiscriminate and I'm married as well

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Why do I want to be with almost every girl I meet. I have a wife and she is great. But, from time to time I would like to be with other girls. Whats up with that??...

My boyfriend's female friend is literally living at my place...with us!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has this friend that's a female, but heres the chatch they use to go out together but split up cause of some differences. Well at first I was ok with him talking to her and her working with him at his garage, but now she's every where ...

My daughter hates my BF, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I have a question, what do you do when your 11 year old daughter can't stand your boyfriend? I have been seeing this man for about a year and a half and had some issues in the past, but am working on them. He genuinely is a good man and good fat...

Coping with girlfriend going away for 8 days?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, My girlfriend will be going away on a holiday tomorrow with her family for 8 days. And I am going to miss her so much! I don't know if 8 days is actually a lot but what I know is, its hard for me. Making things worse, I will no...

I was in love with a terminal cancer patient and she passed away...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I need help with laying old ghosts to rest. I'm 17 years old, a senior in high school and for 4 months, I was engaged to 15 year old girl who had terminal Leukemia and CIPA (she couldn't feel any pain or sensation in her entire body 8 months ago, my ...

Time to move on and forget about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - So a friend of mine (lets call her "Amy") and I started talking to each other 8 months ago (April), after being only distant friends for a over 4 years. We were really flirty, and really enjoyed talking to each other and going on walks together. ...

Is it time to let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3yrs now and the 1st 2yrs were great and problem free. By lately things have been really getting out of hand. We fight almost everyday and whenever i try calling our relationship off, he refuses, and begs me ...

What on earth does she want with me???!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Alright I've been going out with this girl for about a year, we're both relatively young. I'm 18 and she's 17. We've had plenty of problems even with this being both of our first serious relationship. We're both virgins and I've tried to talk to ...

If I'm someone he would consider dating in the future, then why would he suggest us being FWB now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - hello i have a quick question, iv been on and off talking to a guy while going through a difficult time trying to decide whether or not to just let my relationship go or patch things up. this new boy knows this and trys to tell me to let it go for a ...

My Cousin's seduction strategies are working, now I want it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I met my cousin for the first time a year and a half ago during the summer. She moved down to my state to attend college in the city. Long story short i realized that she has been trying to make attempts to seduce me. Trying to undress in the same ...

Is it possible he only liked me for what he thought he was going to get from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I have been knowing this boy for almost 3 years now and he and I have finally made things official. I like him alot and he told me that he's had feelings for me for a while now. I've gotten to the point now that I dont care what he says to me ...

I think my ex may be expecting more than I am when he visits AND I have a new interest and am wondering when is having first sex a good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Hi all 3 I have a few questions for you guys to consider.. any feedback is appreciated more than you know. Quick background: -I dated my best friend of 3.5 years for all of 4 months this past July-November. He's in the Marine Corps ...

Iv been cheated on numerous times but I cant seem to move on, Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I was with my now ex boyfriend for just over 3 years. I met him when I was 19 when we met and he was 21. I fell completely in love with him. During the 3 years I tried to be the perfect girlfriend. (I even paid his bills when we broke up) He got me ...

What did my boyfriend mean when he said he loved me "Because you need to feel like someone loves you." ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - A few days ago, my boyfriend and I were cuddling and he asked me why I love him. I answered "Because I think we are meant to be together." I asked him the same question and he said "Because you need to feel like someone loves you." I asked him what ...

Should I date him and not tell anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - okay so i have 3 classes with one of my closest guy friends..we talk about literaly everything.. even about sex for ex. when he went and got his physical.. he says he got "raped"..it was funny but we literaly do talk about anything and he doesnt ...

Fifty and Fabulous? Throwing in the towel..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I really do have bad luck with men. Unlike other women who posted here, I do make good choices and always take care of myself. Dating married men has never been an option. In fact, I am very careful about who I date because I have a son who's 13. ...

My boyfriend doesn't feel the same way about me as I do for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - What shall I do!? This is going to sound really pathetic and I'm pretty sure what the answer is going to be. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now, the thing is he does not like me as much as I like him. I get very jealous...

I'd like to date him but I'm too young

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22 December 2010 (F) - hi, so i was in love with this guy, like really in love. But i was shy and nervous around him. He's quite a bit older than me (4 years to be exact). I'm 15, 16 in half a year. A couple months ago when i was just turning 15 i asked him if he 'liked' ...

I'm scared of rejection but I want to go out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I really like this guy. We live in the same town which is, I see him almost all the time. We havent spoken to eachother in almost 10 yrs. I want to say to him that I want to have a relationship with him,but, he got out of an engagement w/ someone a ...

I'm getting ready to graduate. Have I lost my best chances for dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I'm getting ready to graduate college in May which is a pretty cool thing to me. However I do have some worries. I am one semester away from graduating and yet I have never had a girlfriend, or even kissed a girl (let alone more than that). And ...

Do I go for my millionaire boss or the lazy guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - ok i am VERY confused! my feelings are all over the place and i dont know what to do! i am 19 years old and a virgin and i have only had one boyfriend during high school but it wasnt serious at all...i dont like to say it but the thing is i am ve...

Do we really have the same taste or is he doing it to impress me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - when ever i say something i like he says i like it too for example i said i like to watch funny videos he said me too i said i like to play video games he said i love games i said my favorite food is rice he said i love rice ok so there ...

She's gorgeous. I don't want to mess this up, if I have any chance at all.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Sooo, last night at my friend's birthday party I met one of the most beautiful girls in the world. We talked about relationships, music, etc and laughed a lot and we hugged like four or five times and at some points she even held my hand and kiss...

He says I love you at the weirdest times

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - so far now ive been dating this guy about 5 months and we kinda had a fight about all his i love yous hes said to me. He was very shy at first and still five months later hes still shy about saying it. he was the one to even bring it up in the first ...

I want to see my boyfriend every day but hes always got other plans

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Am I being too selfish I see my boyfriend almost everyday even if its just for a minute but when he says he is gonna try and come over and the next thing ya know he is with his friends at a fire... But days he will be over later.. What am I supost ...

Is he being unfaithful to me already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I met a boy out in town a few weeks ago. He says he likes me and wouldn't ever mess me about. But he gives mixed signals all the time. One day he didn't stop texting me. And didn't stop telling me how much he likes me Then the the next day he didn...

I have feelings for four other guys, plus my ex, still.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I have no boyfriend at the moment but I am getting feelings for like 4 guys. I don't know what it means :/ I had a boyfriend a year and a half ago and I broke up with him. BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER. I didn't get over him for ages. Now he annoys me becau...

She said it would be OK, but now she's changed her tune. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 30 we've been dating for 2 months,and before we hooked up I told her I had been laid off from my job.She said she understood and didn't care because we had history together so she knew I would get myself together, I do ...

Why do I always end up with cheating jerks? I want to be loved for who I am

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Nowadays I'm feeling down, and i have relationship problems. I'm a nice girl, have manners, I'm honest. But why am i always the one that ends up with a jerk of a boyfriend! A boyfriend who always tends to break my heart. Like right now. I just got...