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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I was his rebound and two years later still think about him... how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Sorry if this is long but I need some help. About 2 years ago I met a guy who I fell really hard for. He was so different to anyone I'd ever met before and he made me feel like I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He's in the military ...

He wants to have a kid but I'm definitely NOT ready for it! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he asked me if I would have a kid with him. We are both 15 and I just laughed it off as if he was joking and when he didn't mention it for the rest of the night I thought it was a joke. The next ...

Why did he get so moody when I invited my friend over too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - ok so my parents went away for the weekend and my boyfriend was going to stay over without my parents knowing, anyway i asked my best friend to stay over as well but when my boyfriend came round and she was here he got all moody. then when i told ...

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Why is my boyfriend doing this? Is he cheating? my boyfriend left his facebook on and i went through his messages..i felt soo bad but am glad i did cos i found out hes been talking to lots of girls...those girls hardly have any clothes on in their...

Yikes... Sex before marriage???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) - hiii, im 20 years old in a committed 1 year relationship. whilst being a christian and going to church twice a sunday and leading as good a christian life as i can (i drink every so often, dont do drugs or smoke etc) i do however have sex with my...

Why did he start to cry when we had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) - My boyfriend and I had sex yesterday, while we were having sex, he started crying. I asked him Why he was crying but he didn't say anything. I tried to get him to talk about it later but he wouldn't. I don't know what I can do. Help please!!...

I don't know how to approach him about the problems we're having without him blowing up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I have a problem, my boyfriend and I have been dating a year. Lately, we have been having problems, most start off as little tiffs that escalate to huge blow outs. I'm tired of it and I know he is too. But, I don't know what to do about it or how to ...

I love both of them but I'm really confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I messed up bad. I been in two relationships for the past year. I've got caught by the same boyfriend twice and the first time i apologized and about after a month he took me back. but didnt know i was still in the other relationship.. i lied and ...

Do you think he's trying to use me until he finds someone he's more interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Can someone please help me figure out what this guy is trying to do with me? So I met this guy about 5 months ago... Been talking mostly on text and instant messenger. Even though, I cancelled our first date, we went out once and had a great ti...

Help her to deal with my past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hello! I'm new here and looking for some advice. To start, let me fill you in on my past. I am a 23 year old female living in the south. I grew up around a lot of drugs and sex was glorified in my family. I didn't really have any rules at all and ...

Phone conversation help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend's conversations have been kinda dull lately. i want something to spark up our relationship because i dont want it to become boring. im not a boring person and he's not either but the silence on the phone is killing me. Help!...

I feel his friends are more important to him than I am...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - well im 18 yrs old i turned 18 oct 7th and ive been with this guy every since i was 15. i got pregnant and had my son at 16, so he is basically all the men i knew, he is about to be 21 i am very faithful to him, never lie or cheat or nun to him i ...

It's fine in a dark theatre, but he won't hold my hand in public??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I've been having a crush on this guy. We always talk online or through text, but when it comes to school, he won't even say hi to me. We've watched movies together, with just us. The first time we went to watch a movie we we're in the movie theater ...

Our relationship is great thus far, but I haven't said those 3 words!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - [Mod note: 2 questions from same poster combined. I'd love some advice, especially from any guys, about my not saying I love you to my boyfriend. We've been going out 4 months. I'd been single 1 year, after splitting up with a guy I'd lived with...

Need advice on sexual techniques??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, This might sound a bit weird but here it goes. My boyfriend an I have been together 2 years now, I used to be good at woman on top sex position but now when we do it he takes ages to cum or I can't go fast enough. I thought maybe it...

My relationships go nowhere, any secrets to finding a good guy??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I am a 20 year old female that can not find the right guy for anything. i have dated soo many guys and only have had 2 serious relationships that both lasted 2 years. both of those guys left me heartbroken. they both left out of nowhere. this one ...

Should I try to keep the relationship going regardless??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) - People in the story : Me (year 9) His ex-gf (year 11) And my boyfriend (year 10) The other girl in this story dated my boyfriend a little while ago. He dumped her because he really didnt like her anymore and then he asked me out a few o...

Is it normal to be in a relationship and not use tongues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - This isn't anything serious - I saw a question yesterday and it got me thinking. I hate snogging (as in kissing with tongues.)I've been with my boyfriend for a while now (just over a year) and when we first started dating that's how we used to kiss ...

Just found out my ex is pregnant with my baby but I have moved on!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - hi there I was with this girl for 6 years and just saw her weekends told her it was over cos i said i fell out of love with her really i just found someone new, well my ex is pregnant and its mine but i now want to live with this new girl i met a...

Is he just a good guy, or the right guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I have recently split up with a long term boyfriend because he was so occupied with the future that he wasn't there for me in the present. He is a good guy, but I don't know if he's the one. Now I am starting to date another man who is currently...

Should I trust her? Says she she loves me, but dates another.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - My ex gf say said she loved, then a guy walks up on us, and turns out she was on a date with that guy that night? we hung out almost every day for a week, then we talk, but don't do see each other, then the next night shes on a date with a guy, ...

Why does he always criticize me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I never really understand my boyfriend he criticize my past a lot. I only really been out with like 2 guys in my life excluding him and he always seems to find a way to make me feel bad. He always mentions that he can't believe those are the guys I ...

My boyfriend becomes verbally abusive when he drinks

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - When I first met my boyfriend he was always a gentleman and always made sure to say the sweetest things. As time went by we began to hang out and I began to fall for his act of kindness. Off the bat I knew this relationship was not an attraction ...

The always-in-trouble boyfriend, the lover and pregnant me...help me out of this mess!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Alright ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months,the first year we wer very good i was the happest girl in the world.hes a great guy weve never had any trust issues we are alwas together. after the first year we moved out together that was ...

Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - So me and this guy are always on and off, he's only 2 years old than me * 1st time- we hooked up, he stopped talking to me * 2nd time- we kinda worked things out and talked for a little then we hooked up again, then we ended things after a lit...

I love my boyfriend but kissed another guy...what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. However recently I have been having feelings for another guy. I kissed him and find myself thinking about him, but I love my boyfriend. What do I do?...

Love across continents, never met him, my parents are hell bent against him....but I cant seem to give up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We met online January this year, and it started off with a friendship. We shared a lot of things in common and one day he asked me if we could be something more t...

She becomes defensive when I talk to her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - i meet this girl a year ago anyway we now live together i pay all the bills and take care of her and her 2 kids she says she loves but do,s not sleep with me and always wants money and leaves me for awhile comes back and hides in the bathroom and ...

I can't leave her, she will nap out of it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 4 years just gave me an xmas card from her. It was just a standard card from a standard pack and said 'merry xmas and all the best for the new year'. This is the usual stuff she has given me and written for past 2 years now. I ...

Why does he have cold feet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I been dating 3yrs living together for 2yrs. When we got involved with was both separated from our spouses for over a year with the intend of getting a divorce from our spouses. Well my divorce was finalized this year he has put ...

Should I try to make it work, for the sake of my kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - First of all I know I am a pig and a horrible person, so there is no need to tell me that. I have been married for almost 8 years and have 3 beautiful children with her. Since the begininning of our marriage I questioned our marriage, we were ...

Upset he hadn't got me anything for Christmas.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - A week away from Xmas and my partner tells me yesterday he's not got me anything; doesn't know what to get me and has had other things on his mind! Hints for a particular ($10.00) DVD I've been chasing and found have obviously gone unheard... (All ...

He won't call me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - ok, so this boy asked me out after i told him i wanted him to ask me out. I don't have his number but i gave him mine. my whole grade knows that he asked me out. and its been like a little less than 3 days since he asked me out and he hasnt called ...

Did she have an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - A few months ago, I met a beautiful girl and we started dating sporadically. We started seeing eachother more frequently until she got comfortable with me and confessed she was on meds because she had panic attacks following a street rape that ...

Help my girlfriend turned into a different person.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I apologize for the length of this but I really need some perspective and advice on how to behave with my girlfriend right now: I met and starting dating a girl a little over two years ago and thought I had found the love of my life. She lived ...

Star crossed lovers or friends? What's the best advice to give?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - Right so, here is a situation. My friend, who is a girl, has just broken up with her boyfriend of a year and a half. Now, she is an extremely attractive young girl, funny and intelligent. All of that. However, I can't bear to see her upset and gi...

Addicted to my ex's FaceBook, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - Its been two weeks since I broke up. I have managed to get her to talking terms(though on facebook). Apologised and been forgiven my wrong doing. She told me she doesn't want a come back and I have decided to wait because I love her. She has been ...

Are there clues to find guys who prefer small boobs?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - How can I find guys who prefer small boobs over big boobs? I have small boobs, and I'm tired of always finding guys who prefer and like big boobs better, but who "don't mind" small ones. Yeah, I know I'm insecure, but I can't help it, and I always ...

It bothers me that he was once engaged to someone else!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - This is a fairly simple question. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and I love him. He is older than me and 5 years ago he was engaged. They ended up not getting married because she wasn't ready to give up her life of partying, as he ...