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Dating: Help and advice

Should I just ask him if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - hey everyone. i got boy trouble :( okay so i've got this friend. we've been talking since october and were really gud friends. When he flirts i do flirt back but he always starts. i think he likes me i might be reading signs wrong but i strongly ...

Is he playing hard to get or not? Should I just dump this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Hi So basically i have been going out with this boy for a few months now, but i feel that he doesnt really love me even tho he says he does. When i text him or chat to him on facebook he takes ages to reply and doesnt make much conversation and when...

Even though we broke up..do you think he still likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up a few days ago but we only broke up because he and i weren't able to see each other as much and actually get to hang out and talk the way we used to. When we hung out we would always be in contact. He'd always want to ...

I told her she was wrong to have this man spend the night! Was I right in what I said to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - A very close friend of mine is involved with a man for more than 3 yrs and in spite of the fact that she knows he has a live in GF she has continued to see him(is she right in doing this? of course she isn't BUT I guess the heart loves who it ...

Even though she has a boyfriend...should I still drop a few hints that I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - so basically ive known this girl for a bit but we never really talked and when we did it wasnt really much. but ive recently started to like her. i really like her but shes also got a boyriend. i dont know whether shes likes me but we have star...

How can I make this relationship blossom into a marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice from readers, especially males, about how to keep my new relationship going from strength to strength with the ultimate aim of marrying this guy-I'd like to know what to do and what to avoid to achieve this. We've been ...

Is he taking advantage of me, when all we do is just kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so there's this guy and i like him and he likes me also, i know this because he told me. so he is like a bad boy type and he drinks and stuff like that and he also flirts with girls but he doesn't even realize when he is doing it.He has kind ...

How do I respond to a woman who flaked out on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - I am 42. She is 34. We've gone out on two dates and have gotten along perfectly. The first time I took her to a concert, then to dinner afterward where we talked. At one point, she said, "you're so cute." The second time we went to a club, t...

Why can't I keep eye contact with girls?

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3 December 2010 (M) - Ok, so for the first and second quarter of school ive been taking public speaking and one of the big things in that class is obviously eye contact. And i seemed to have noticed a problem that ive never realized before taking this class and im ...

Why is my boyfriend trying to manipulate me as if I did something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend did something innapropriate. He flirted with another woman. He specifically asked me not to flirt with other men. I approached him about it, first he tried to act like he was joking, then he blatantly lied about it. But he never ...

My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...

Is it ok to go back to his place on a first date?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Hi I met a guy and we are going on a date. If he asked me back to his house after the date should I go? Is this ok on a first date? I have no intention of sleeping with him this quickly, so there will not be any sex, but if he offers to contin...

Is it too late to talk to my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - there s that guy that i like for almost a year but the problem im too shy to talk to him and he likes me too and i didnt really give him any attention at the begining till i noticed that he was always following me around and looking at me so i ...

I really want a boyfriend. How can I get one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (?) - I desperately want a boyfriend. I know this sounds really desperate but most of my friends and friends of friends have now got boyfriends and I am like the only one not to have a boyfriend can you please help me on this subject how will i get...

How do I stop him smoking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - hi today this boy i have the biggest crush we talk in class alot but never outside class got caught smoking and sent home cause hes under age , also today we had an exam and he missed it cause of it, im not just doing this for me but for his heal...

I loved her first but now she's dating my best friend and he's cheating on her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - I've been best friends with this guy, we'll call him "Jack" for about eight years now. He's a real player and I'm starting to resent him for it. A few years ago, we met this one girl, we'll call her "Vera", at the same time. I took an immediat...

Why doesn't he just let me move on? I don't understand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Is he interested or is he just bored? We hadn't talked for about a month or two when he randomly said hi. He asked me how my love life was and I've always been an open book. One of the reasons we started to end was because I'm the jealous type and ...

Just been dumped and it's so hard to let go! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - I dated my boyfriend for 1 yr, 9 months, and have lived with him for 1 yr, 4 mos. I left my hometown to move to his small town, not knowing really anyone. He recently broke up with me and I am in the process of moving, reasons being we fight too ...

I don't want children and its affecting my dating relationships

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - I am really close to just throwing in the towel. I'll try and summarise as much as I can! My first girlfriend died in a car crash when we were 19. We'd been together 2 years and I know first love is always a biggie but to lose someone like tha...

There wasn't alot of chemistry on our 1st date, should we try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - 2 days ago I had a first date with a guy I met online. the date, while not a complete disaster, was not the best. i think we were both a bit nervous. At the end of the first part of the date, he asked me out to dinner (he like purposed doing ...

Running out of things to talk about with my online girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

3 December 2010 (?) - Ok I've been talking to this girl online and I really like and she seem to like me, and we text each other like nearly everyday and we are making plans to meet up. But it's gotten a point where I can't think of anything to talk about and I've asked ...

I think I have lost that 'spark' with him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - when this guy first get near me i would get so nervous. and i guess i could say my heart would feel like it was beating fast. when we first went out he kissed me and i felt that "spark." But now its been two months. and i dont feel the same. he ...

I've tried so many times to get over her but I just cant!

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3 December 2010 (M) - Hi Well basically there's this girl that I've liked for almost a year I think I love her, but I don't think she feels the same and one of my friends also likes her it really gets me down I don't know what to do, I've tried my best to get over her...

In love with two very different men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - I'm in love with two very different men, any advise? So it started about 8years ago with my high school sweetheart, we only dated for a few months but after all this time I have never stopped loving him, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, b...

First date at home and private? Does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - I got this girl's number from one of my classes a couple weeks back and after a few days of txting and getting to know each other, i ask if she wanted to go to lunch and a movie, so we made a time and place on the phone, and so that day when i went ...

I'm the only single one left in my group of friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - I'm in my mid 20s and find myself to be the only single one left in my group of friends. Everyone I know is already married or engaged to be and I've never even had a girlfriend or even dated for that matter. There's been times where my loneliness ...

Why can't he just be man enough to tell me what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Ok, so i'll start from the top. I met this guy, we'll call him Chris, while I was working my side job as a wedding photographer. He was a groomsman in his brothers wedding, and pursued me from the start. I was not the least bit interested for ...

How can I make her brother go away so I can ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - Hello. For the last year or two I attended badminton training during summer break. In my first year there, I met a girl who seemed to connect pretty well with me. Then life happened, and I wasn't able to see her until around September of this yea...

She's out of league, is it wrong to ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - Well, there is this girl I like and we are pretty good friends. Even though we dont go to the same school, she and I sometimes talk text, or facebook chat with each other. But the problem is she said she likes tall guys but Im only 5'9" and she gets ...

He's been my crush, my brother, and my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I've known this one guy literally my whole life. Over the years he's been my crush, my brother and my enemy figure. When I was smaller I was...well fat, but i've lost the weight now. When he saw me, he kind of looked surprised. And when I met up ...

She doesn't approve of me socializing with other people.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - I am a 47 year old scottish guy, i work and i also have a very small business, i met a 23 year old girl through this business about two years ago, we had great fun to start with but i,m very cautious of moving things on, she is the life and soul of ...

My bf's a drug dealer and also very agressive but I still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 9 months. I thought I'd be happy with him but guess what? I'm not! I want him to stop dealing with drugs but no one on earth could stop him. The more i try to stop him the more agressive he gets. I love him so much ...

Boyfriend has a child with another woman, tells me after two years together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I have had the same boyfriend for about two years and a half now. We've had our share of problems but we've always been able to manage to get through them. He's from Mexico, and while I'm not Mexican, I speak Spanish, so we communicate just...

Things are great when she's happy, but when she's not ...

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3 December 2010 (M) - Hey first time asker i've been seeing this wonderufl girl for over 2 and a half years now. and things are mostly great, when she's happy... but when she's in a bad mood things go bad, really bad, really fast. and i don't know how to deal wit...