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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What do my friend have that I don't have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - i am 39 and am told by people that i look a lot younger. attractive and smart, intelligent with a good job, good sense of humour, own home and car, one son aged 12. i have friends that i go out with occasionally, although they are all settled down ...

I want to take things slow. How do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I recently posted a question about a boy online who I was flirting with. I've met him briefly face to face as he is a friend of a friend. Any way we're arranging to go out/stay in with a few drinks when we get back to university and we've discussed ...

What will people think of my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - recently i have been having feelings towards girls and i don't know wether i should tell anyone and am affraid of what people will think about me if i told them....

Should I be scared because my perfect hot guy wears kinky underwear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Hello! I started dating 2 months ago this very hot guy, who is so perfect. He's a lawyer, he's very beautiful in his mid-30s, he's wealthy, has a nice house and on top of that he's very nice and generous... The thing is last week, I surprised hi...

I make the effort. He doesn't. Why does he do this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Hi! I've been talking to a guy for about two months now. I'm really into him, and it seems like the attraction is mutual. I think we really click. In the begginng he kept on asking me if I was talking to anyone else, and I reassured him that I wasn...

24 and never had a girlfriend. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - I can't find a girl, no matter what I do. I can't find anyone to even go out on a date with me. It's gone beyond even trying to find "that special someone" or "the one", I'm just trying to find any girl who will go out with me. Every girl I ask out ...

Is it weird to not enjoy making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Is it weird to not like making out with someone? I've only made out with less than a handful of guys, and they were all during relationships. They've all gone the similar way...it's cool at first and I don't mind making out, and then eventually it's ...

Do I let him go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 December 2010 (?) - My BoyFriend And I Were At The Movies And I Grabed His **** And Well He Wad Already Hard And We Put Our Jackets Over Our Selfs So No One Can See And He Took His**** Outt Amd I Stared To Kinda Jack Him Off3(; And Then He Wanted To Finger Mee But I ...

Is their an avenue for my liking Muscular and Strong women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - I consider myself to be a normal and straight guy. However, I find myself attracted to women with a muscular build, who are also strong athletically. Now, don't get me wrong, I said muscular not masculine because women in bodybuilding who abus...

I have a crush on my son's coach!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - please help i have fallen for my sons cricket coach. he started to flirt with me and as im shy i didnt do it back and then we started to talk and see each other alot as he sees my son to coach him.after a little bit he would text naughty texts but ...

Should I wear the promise ring like an engagement ring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I'm a bit confused. For Christmas my boyfriend got me a Promise ring. I'm not confused about that, I'm very happy about it actually! It's just that we are young and I want to wear it on my ring finger because it's basically a promise to get ...

Is it wrong to have a " special" friend while in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I am involved with someone and so is this man that I am asking about. We met thru work 2 years ago. He has reached out several times to me thru calls and text which I thought was strange as we are both in long term relationships. Our communication ...

Anything I do for him is not enough for him. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I finally took the step to move in together. We've been together for almost 5 years. We've had our ups and downs....but for the past couple years, I have really felt like he won't ever commit to me. He says that he even...

What do I do when she says "I don't feel that way about you yet?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Hello everybody, I need some help with my current situation. I have gone on 5 dates with this woman over the last two months. She is a mother of two and has been divorced for a year, the marriage lasted 8 years. (Not sure if it is relevant) So h...

He's still flirting with girls on FB and texting even after just moving in with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I recently started dealing with my old high school boyfriend again. So far so good. But I have a minor problem. He spent the holidays with me and he's still here. He only leaves to go to work or go home to get clean clothes. But I noticed he's ...

Frustration for both of us over my slow arousal point. What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is very good at oral sex and i really enjoy sex with him. I get frustrated, and so does he, because it takes me way too long to reach an orgasm. Sometimes i feel as if i'm concentrating too much on it, and maybe that is why. What is s...

Is it cheating if he's separated but waiting for divorce finalisation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a man who is going through a divorce and has been separated from his wife for several months. The only reason his divorce is taking so long is because of financial issues. We have a pretty healthy relationship so far. He is so ...

How do I let him down without hurting his feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - What do I do when 2 guys are fighting over me? They are both cute but they hate each other. D and I have been friends for two years and he's moving next year. F and I have dated 3 times before and even though we are not dating now, he still tells me ...

I like my friend's brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I'm 13 and I can't get over my friends brother. He is one grade level younger than me but he's 13 too because his birthday is in September. My friend doesn't know I like him. My friend and I aren't BFFs but we aren't just friendly. At least 5 times ...

Should I wait until next year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Ok, first off, I'm 14. I'm still in middle school and I'm single. i don't mind being single, but there are times when I would want a boyfriend. Like really badly. So, there's this guy who's junior in high school. I've started to like him. We've ...

We love each other, but should we start something long distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so irecently moved from NewYork to Florida. While iwas in NewYork, imet this guy. We instantly clicked, and he is now one of the two people who ireally trust. He is the first guy iever fell in love with, and he has fallen for me too. We had a ...

How can I get him to say sweet things out of the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - First off, ilove my boyfriend. Ireally do 3 he's truly amazing ! He makes me feel like I'm the only girl for him. He definately goes above and beyond for me. The only problem is that he's not the PDA type. Imean he is physically and all that, but ...

Why can't I talk to girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - i feel difficult to communicate with the girls. I used to talk and play with girls when i was small. Those girls grew up and now they are big. They have all the qualities what i wish to have in a girl. I feel to have sex with them. But i couldnt ...

Does she like me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Hi, i used to see girl in my church, though i'm a new member of the church, but whenver we are in the church service we stare at each other, i don't know may she also feel the same i'm feeling, cos i like her, what i'm scare abt i have never ...

Should I be unsettled by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I'd love some advice on whether I should be unsettled by something I found out about my new bf of 4 months past or not. So far, things have been awesome, like he's too good to be true:) We met through work, and he's gorgeous, thoughtful, ...

One of her friends is in love with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - A group of friends including my girlfriend went out for a night. As people went home, she was left with one of her male friends. He confessed his love for her, but she told him that she's in love with me. She was sharing a bed with another female ...

Convenient FWB? Or a relationship in progress? I'm confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - About 7 months ago i met this guy online (lives out of town) he came out we had a nice time and ended up sleeping together. He then returned two weeks later but I didn't feel it, and told him i didn't see things progressing. We decided to be FWB as ...

My BF is obsessed with sexting me and I think it's inappropriate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost three months. I love him and he loves me. Very much. Our parents refuse to let us date, so we date through text messages, late at night, when we are alone. He likes to virtually "do" me while talking. He ...

My boyfriend called me fat and that is destroying our relationship

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. This is my situation... I've been dating this guy 'L' for almost 10 months, we've been friends for two years and I'm very in love with him. He says he loves me and I believe it because he has proven me he does love me. Our relation...

He was my friend but all he cares about now is popularity

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I have known this boy for about 6 years and we always picked on each other, but last year we talked, and we became really good friends. We were best friends. I was totally in to someone else at that time, that i never notice that he like me. ...

My BF and I get so nervous when we are together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I ask a question on here why my boyfriend and i get so nervous around each other but I have to ask something like that. If you haven't read my last question then I shall give you a summary of it. my boyfriend and I get super nervous around each oth...

Why he didn't call me back after spending a great time together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I'm a very attractive girl and I've been texting with this guy for a while. last week we went out and had a great time together. I know he liked me. We kissed, hugged but when he drove me home I didn't invite him in. After kissing inside the car I ...

What can I do to keep a girlfriend happy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - i have a girlfriend and am scared that she may not want to go ahead in this relationship, so i want to keep her happy what can i do to keep my girlfriend happy? ...

Does he prefer the sex toys and and porn over me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Ok so I've seen this posted before, but mine feels a little different. I know my boyfriend likes to jack off. Never botherd me. But we are going on almost 2 yrs and sex is fading. Maybe once a week. Now he has this fake vagina, that I got for him. ...

Does he truly love me or just like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - i'm 17 yr old girl and i'm in love with a guy truly and deeply from 2 yrs ago. We were friends for 1 yr ago. Altogether i've know him from 3 yrs ago. i want this relationship to develop into marriage. The only problem betwen us is that he doesn't ...

Is he serious in his long term commitment to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Alright, so I'm kind of stuck on what I should do, so I need some advice. I'm a 25 year old gay male who has been in a 4 month long relationship with a guy who I met on a hook-up site over the summer. We decided to start dating and I've been pre...

I lied to my Mom, but I love this boy so much

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - About 5 months ago i met my uncle's wife's brother at my little cousin's birthday party. They all live in mexico so i rarely see them. This boy and I didn't talk, we just looked at each other and smiled, through out the whole party. After that...

Do I move on? Or just stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - So, i'm in high school and I have a best friend and he's a guy. We text everyday and flirt. I've liked him for a little more than a year and he says he's liked me too off and on since last summer. Well since this past summer i've really fallen for ...

Does it sound like he's truly falling for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I met my current boyfriend in a chemistry class last semester. We finally went on a date 2 months ago and have been together ever since. He is smart, tall, funny, athletic, takes care of himself, and everything else I've been looking for! We see ...

We split, but I'm still madly in love with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (?) - Hello everyone now recently me and my gf split and are now pursuing a friendship. Yet we still argue like we're a couple. She recently got mad because of a joke, when she thought I was serious. But I was not. I don't want her completely out of my l...

Why is this breaking my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Why is this breakng my heart?. He's nice and he's sweet but sometimes he's a complete jerk. I mean i love him and everything. He goes out of his way to make me happy, but seriously he's 3yrs older then me, i'm 15. He has a major fit when i tel...

I'm frustrated because my body can only manage a fleeting arousal of seconds

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I have an issue when it comes to sexual pleasure. I get aroused when I'm with a boy, or by myself, but my arousal is in vain. I only feel pleasure for a few seconds before it is gone. I have tried many times, in every way, to achieve any sexual ...

32 and I don't know how to approach women successfully

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Hi there. I’m 32 and still trying to get the hang of this dating thing before I lose the will to live. Im really trying to put pressure on myself to find a girlfriend as the gaps between partners in my life has been just too big meaning I’ve had ...

Almost 14 and no relationship experience yet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I'm 13, 14 in January, and I've never had a relationship. I've never kissed anyone either. All my friends have at least kissed one, and most of my friends are in relationships and are really happy. Is this honestly normal for me to be nearly 14 and ...

Does it sound like he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - There is this guy in one of my classes who I am friends with, and I like him. He is always putting his arm around me, and laying his head on my shoulder, and stuff like that. And whenever we're alone he jokes about how its the perfect time to make...

Is it risky of me to do this no contact for a month knowing I want my BF and the relationship back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - ok so ive been with my bf for 4 years he cheated..he confessed it and told me that it made him realize how much me and the relationship meant to him and he was willing to prove to me how much he wanted this relationship and to earn my ...

It just disgusts, saddens, and makes me depressed everytime I think about my girlfriend's past

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - So this is kind of a interesting situation. My girlfriend is 16 years old, and I am 18 years old. We have been in a steady relationship for about a year now. I have been having problems getting over her past. At one time, she got mixed into the w...

How do I tell him I'm not ready?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months. we are both 15. he says that i have changed his life because i make him so happy and i am amazing to him. he also makes me happy and i am in love with him. recently he fingered me, and i wasn't ...