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*lltheabove1212
writes:I’ve known her for 1.5 years. I've asked questions on here and 99% said she was really into me. They thought I was dumb for not asking her.She sort of felt up my abs at a party. Touched my shirt where my stomach was.Smiles with me.Said she had a really fun time with me.Told me how she wanted to ask me all week to go to dinner with just the two of us. When I asked her why she didn't just ask me, she said "Aw(: I didn't want you to think it was weird." Sometimes she seems kind of nervous around me. We've been decent friends for a while, but never the buddy-buddy stuff. We went on a drive together to get some food. We hung out and talked in the parked car for about an hour total. She complimented on the way I dress. When I asked why all of the sudden she wanted to hang out a while ago, she said she thought I was the coolest one in the group. She kind of struggled with answering the question. Then out of the blue in a conversation she said "Ya know when you asked me that? Well I've been thinking, and it's just I knew I didn't have much time left here, so I wanted to be with the people that mattered the most to me. Made me feel like I mattered to them. So...:) yeah." She told me to text her today Insisted on making a CD for me of songs she thinks I would like. Overall it seems like she worries about what I think about her. Recently we talked on the phone. I had her laughing for most of the time. We had thought about plans to get together. She was all for it. Then she texted me saying her mom didn’t want her to make a road trip, but we could try to get together in January. If not, she said she knows she will see me again. And she missed me. I suggested me driving up to see her. She said something about her house not being good and it’d be better if she went elsewhere. She said she’d keep in touch. 1. Is she playing hard to get or something? Or 2.Getting tired of me waiting to ask her out? Or 3.Is she freaking out because she is falling for me, and wants to break it off because she's been hurt before?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): I think shes scared to make a move.
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reader, alltheabove1212 +, writes (29 December 2010):
alltheabove1212 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionanon user, why would she cancel out then? it sounds like she's trying to get away or something. Wouldn't she try harder if sh e liked me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Um yeah, I'd say she likes you but feels insecure. I don't know which amount of encouragement you're giving her, but if you want something to happen you might want to tone it up a bit.
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