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writes:hi, i've been with my boyfriend for a few months now and we went a step further and he fingered me it was okay but nothing like i expected, the next time we met i tossed him of and he fingered me again except this time it hurt and i told him, i just wanted to know is it normal for it to hurt? that same day when ever i went to the toilet it hurts.... is this normall?? Reply to this Question
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reader, ellaaa +, writes (13 March 2011):
ellaaa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the help!
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reader, madasshell1  +, writes (30 December 2010):
Maybe he was too aggressive. He may have even scratched you. I agree, all hands should be cleaned so bacteria doesnt get transmitted. But maybe you were tense. You have to relax, tell him to be gentle and not shove it up there, clip his nails, and get checked for uti just to be safe. But it hurts to pee, because the trauma is still new, if it doesnt subside in day or two, then I would see a doctor.But when you are a virgin some discomfort is normal with any kind of vaginal penetration until you are more accustom to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): You need to make sure he washes his hands before he touches you. He may have given you a uti/urinary tract infection.
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