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Dating: Help and advice

Love Triangle, Mr. Big vs. Aidan. Who Should I Choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I'm in a Love Triangle, which you could compare to Sex and the City's Carrie-Mr.Big-Aidan. And I don't know who to chose. In my case I've been in a relationship with Aidan for a year. He's the sensitive type that would do anything for you.He's down ...

How can I help my baby girl get along with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been living together for 6month now...and i am trying to get my babygirl use to our new home everything seems to be good but i do notice the relantionship between my bf and daugther isnt the best i would like to find a way ...

Why does he back off when things start getting interesting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hi guys. This may be long but please bear with me! It started when i stayed at college for a week (im on an animal care course so we have to do a week at college to look after animals) in this week i was put to work with this boy, and this was when ...

Do his actions mean he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Well, theres this guy in my Algebra class. I've known him for YEARS, but I had never really known him. Before this year, I only knew WHO he was. but this year, we've started talking alot. And I feel REALLLYYY stupid for asking stupid questions! ...

How to tell if my future partner has a high sex drive without asking her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - I am someone with a high sex drive. i am in my early 50's and I have the same drive as when I was in my 20's. I broke up a few months ago and am trying to get back in the dating scene. I know that a relationship is more than sex. Ideally I'd ...

Did I say the right thing to her? I'm confused why she won't date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I posted my quesion here afew days ago about how I met a girl and we went out and ended up kissing and she told me she was single. But then the next day said she was kinda seeing someone after I suggested we go out again. Anyway the prob...

Is asking for him to text me if he's going to be home late too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - so this is kinda complicated. I am living with a guy i hate been seeing. we sleep in the same bed. have sex and we are not with other people but we don't label ourselves as bf gf because with labels comes expectations. this is an exclusive ...

Make out lessons needed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Ok my boyfriend and I have been dating for only 2 months, I really like him, he is really sweet, but my question is when we are I n his car or last week went to the movies, he starts getting really into me and kissing me and stroking my legs and ...

Frustrated and confused ... What's missing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hello DearCupid... I am frustrated and confused. I am in love with a coworker. I've been stuck in a status quo for quite a while now. There's something missing but I don't know what it is or why it's there. To keep it simple: 1. We're both...

How often should a couple speak throughout the day?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - What is considered the "norm" for how much a couple should speak throughout the day?...

Does a guy mind if his girlfriend has pimples?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Will a guy mind if his gf has pimples? Like more pimply now?...

How do I go about dating her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hi people I want to know how to proceed to date a girl who I met at the gym. I met her a long time ago and then lost touch because she stopped coming to the gym. She used to make a lot of eye contact at the gym and I managed to speak with her o...

I'm in a Belle, Edward and Jacob situation! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - August 2nd 2008, I met a 24 year old man at my church as he came to preach/sing. (my EDWARD) NOTHING HAPPENED, just began to speak as friends over myspace and such. (he lives in FL and me In MD) Then he came a second time in November 24th or ...

Falling for my driving instructor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I know this is such a cliche but I really think I am falling for my driving instructor. We get on extremely well, have the same sense of humor and we have been out for drinks together, which went v well and I am sure that he likes me too. He is ten ...

What's with this threesome double standard?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend told me he'd like to try a threesome. I told him I'd do it but that I'd also like a threesome but with another guy. He went from totally enthusiastic that I said yes to furious. I told him I didn't want him to do anything with the other ...

How do I deal with this drunken mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - i have been with this guy for about 7weeks now and i am really really happy and completely besotted by him but a couple of nights ago i tried to kiss his friend. i don't remember it happening as i was completely under the influence but now i feel so ...

How can I find out if my best friend likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - How can I find out if my best friend (male) likes me? plus, how can I let him know without actually saying? I don't want to lose my friendship....

How can I get talking to him more and should I let him know that I like him ?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I like this guy who works at a place that i go to to get help to get back into work. He gave the induction that i went to, and now i see him whenever i go in to see an Advisor. I usually see him on a computer or something, but i dont get to speak to ...

Her behaviour with this new guy makes me question if her feelings for me are fake.....Is she keeping me as a reserve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Recently, i started to like this girl very much and i have very strong feelings for her.I can barely stop thinking about her at any given moment in a day. We have been talking to each other daily, we talk about normal stuff.She even asked me on...

I feel as if I am falling for him all over again but I'm worried about his girlfriend of 10 months

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I recently contacted an old love on fb. We've been corresponding for months but havent seen each other for 24 yrs. We had a brief passionate fling but I ended it as I was already in a relationship..he said I broke his heart. We've both been ...

I still like him but he kissed my friend! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I have a big group of friends of both boys and girls, we go out with each other most weekends and know each other really well. A month ago i was at a party (and drinking) and i kissed one of the boys. I didn't think it meant anything but then the ...

Should I have sex?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I am not sure if I should have sex or not and I was hoping for some input based on the following 1. I REALLY want to have sex 2. I trust my partner and have been with him for three years. 3. I feel at 25 I should be having sex or at least ...

What dod I do about these petty arguments? They're ruining a good thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I know in a relationship its healthy to have arguments sometimes but i hate those sometimes. I hate fighting with her. I love her to death and it just seems like those sometime fights r over little things. Im glad there not big things but i hate ...

I really miss my ex, but I have a new guy. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hey so im a girl and i was going out with a guy for nearly 5 months when he broke up with me. he broke it off because he thought we had taken the relationship too far (sex) and it would be bad to continue.so he broke my heart and i didn't take it ...

What is his deal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - lately i have been so confused; the guy i like seems so on and off. he flirts with me and the whole bit, but when confronted with it he just kinda shrugs it off. he's got me spinning so bad i'm basically tying in knots! it breaks down like th...

Do I act on my feelings? I'm worried I might be stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4903 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hi, Heres my story. I met this girl through mutual friends about a year ago. We became very close friends very quickly. Eventually began to feel very attracted too her, and she felt the same way. The problem was that at the time she was not into...

He still hasn't called it quits with her, even though he knows that I'm fully prepared to love and be with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I love him. About a month ago my very good friend asked me to the movies. I accepted and when I arrived asked how his GF was doing, we will call her Sarah. Sarah decided they needed a break two days previous...so he was upset. I ended up tryi...

Does he still think about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I ran into this guy I dated for a little while tonight. I was crushed by the break because we were looking for different things and I got too emotionally involved too soon. Anyway, when I see him he's cordial and asks how I am, I respond casually ...

Does he just want to be friends with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago. He made the effort to seek me out and add me as a friend on facebook, started chatting with me via instant messenger, and gave me his phone number (he later asked me for mine). I didn't pursue him nearly as much as ...

He says I need to relax and take things slow

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - i have been seing this guy now for about 4 weeks. we are so happy with eahother and i know he is going to ask me out soon. only problem im faced with is he is now having major work issues he has pushed me away from it which is not fair on me and he ...

What happens when 2 very controlling people date each other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (?) - Does anyone know what happens when 2 very controlling people date each other? What happens in that relationship? Do they stay together for long? What's readers experiences? Thanks! Any comments would be greatly appreciated!!!...

I cannot imagine that I would be desirable in bed even though I'm only 25!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - I'm a 25 year old male. I am heterosexual but have never slept or been with a relationship (outside of 'internet' messageboard 'experiments') with any woman. I have never detected any desire from the opposite gender nor have I genuinely desired ...

What do guys look for when they want a long term relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - What do guys look for in a girl they want to date/have a long term relationship with?...

This guy showed so much potential and now nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - About 2 weeks ago i met up with a man that i thought was absoloutly amazing! He took me to the beach, we watched the sunset, talked, kissed! We both had an amazing time, he told me that he was so happy to hang out with me and that i was heaps fun, ...

Does she know it is a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - We're both single. We're going alone, just the 2 of us, to an NBA game. I asked her 'out' while she had a bf and she asked if there were only 2 tickets. I said yes. She agreed to go but things came up. Two weeks later she broke up with the bf. I ...

I'm lonely but my g/f forbids me to move into place with girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Just wanna know what your opinions on this. Well, I'm currently living alone in one of my dads house. The thing is, I dont mind living alone, but seriously, it's boring. I got no one to talk to, my girlfriends too far away. I mean, really far...

I want to make him jealous in a good way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4903 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - hi what kind advice could i get to get my man to want me more or just to make hem a little jealous in a good way...we been togther for two years now but it just seems like nothing bothers hem about me i knw its a good thing that he trust me but ...

He talks to me every day and yet doesn't seem to want to date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - So, I met this guy about 2 months ago. Since the day we've met we been talking every day. I really like him so far and he seems to like me aswell. We only hungout once, we went to the movies and he paid although i didn't want him to, he insisted. ...

I don't know about this relationship...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Well I just got done talking to my gf and she seems to not want this relationship, she always changing pictures, and then she told me her dad does not want her to stay with me for even 2 weeks. Then she wants to blame me for getting offended...

We've been seeing each other for 2 months now but he said we were only hanging out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Im 18 years old, and im seeing this guy thats 20. We're not official yet, we're just getting to know each other, etc. We've been seeing each other for a little over two months now, but have only had 4 dates in those two months as he tends to be b...