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Dating: Help and advice

If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I ...

My soon-to-be boyfriend has no friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a very close friend and we hve great chemistry. He has liked me for a while now he said, and he would love to go out with me. I told him I'd think about it, but I'm sure I'll say yes because he is such a great funny and cute ...

We have great chemistry. I like him. But what are your thoughts on fact he has no real friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

I need some dating advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Alright i need some advice on how to ask out a girl because every time i ask out a girl i manage always screw it up ...

Compliments, more compliments. But then he told friend that 'I'm not his type' What's his agenda?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So im 19 and he's 30. My friend set us up to go out and everything. And it was nice. i ended up liking him, but i guess he didn't feel the same, because i am here and he is goodness knows where. So here's the thing, we went out and he told me, ''wow ...

I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half ...

Why look at me, when you could look at someone prettier?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. He and I are honest about everything and are open about many things. I have asked him over and over if he looks and other women. But he says he doesn't look at other girls. I don't think I ...

My BF broke my trust, now he says he's worrying about my feelings. What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My bf broke my trust this time last year by lying to me. And he told me his Christmas this year was sad because he missed me and was worrying about my feelings. What does the latter bit mean? ...

While she has all these boundaries, I have needs too. What do I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I have a real problem and hope the folks here can give me some advice. I was previously married for 18 years. The relationship was loveless, sexless, and just bad. I felt unwanted, unneeded, etc. No sexual contact, no hugs, kisses, etc. ...

Does he really love me, even though in person he's different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for a while and I really do think I love him and when we text and talk and stuff he tells me he loves me very much. He tells me that he has never felt this way for a girl before in his life. He makes me feel ...

If a girl regularly wears tight clothes or shows skin, does that mean she may not be faithful in a relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - OK, I may get flack for this, but the Agony Aunts have given me wise advice thus far so I will give my question a chance: In brief: If a girl you know dresses very immodestly, is that a red flag for a possible future relationship? ...

How do I ask this guy I've only met once out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Ok so I'm 18 and recently met a REALLY hot guy, looks about 24 or 25, who works in a phone store across from where i work in the mall. Most days that I work, I get put at the front of the store to greet and promote. We make alot of eye contact a...

Should I go for this boy, or could he be a womanizer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy in high school. We only have one class together, but we hang out with the same group of people in every break, or almost. He is very nice, funny, handsome, sentimental, smart. And I'm not idealizing him; he really is, all girls agree, ...

She likes me / She likes me not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - There's this girl that i like who is in my university. We live on the same floor of our halls of residence and i have a massive crush on her. I told her about it as i just had to get it out and she said that we were just friends. We were in a club ...

Is this the end? He left my daughter and I stranded on the road.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I just let my boy friend move in with me because he didn't have a place to move to, so we agreed we would split everything 50/50. It has been 2 days and he works a lot so we don't see a lot of each other. We went to go transfer internet and cabl...

How long should you date before marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - How long does anybody think they shoould be in a relationship before they ask to marry them? x...

Is she attracted to me? What does prolonged, intense deep eye contact mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. anyway, we eventually exchanged numbers and began flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldn't expect friends to do on a college night). her ...

Guys:Have you ever liked a girl in the beginning but changed your mind when you got to know her better...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Guys,have you ever liked/interested in a girl a bit in the beginning (when you first met her),but when you got to know her a little bit better,you started to lose interest and you didn't want to go out with her,but you wanted to be her friend?If ...

Do you think he has a tendency for homosexual games?? Or am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Dear friends, Your opinion is valuable and always taken into consideration. many thanks in advance!! I dont know how to write this in plain English. I have been dating this guy for three weeks. Even though i like him, i'm a bit skeptical about hi...

Is it possible to wear a condom and then not know it has come off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - This is a strange post but I can't stop thinking about it. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We get on well and have a good relationship. The other night he came around to mine and we ended up making love. Somehow the condom came ...

This boy is so shy, so did his Uncle lie to get this boy and I talking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I know this boy, he is around my age. His Uncle is good friends with my mother and he told me that this boy likes me which sparked an interest in me. After some time I too became to like him, but the problem is this boy (After getting to know him ...

Should I forgive him? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Wednesday the 15th I had a date set up with a guy. We were going to go for supper which was his idea. Then last night came and he said he was really tired cause he had to work a bunch of night shifts, which I understood and he said another time. ...

Getting to know her without a phone number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Hi there people I am a bit of a shy guy and wasn't sure about how to approach a girl whom I really liked. I saw her at the library and managed to speak to her once and got her name. She used to glance at me often with direct eye contact although...

Boyfriend doesn't try to impress me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half. Yesterday was our six month anniversary. Kind of a big deal. My sister ended up taking us out to eat. My problem is he doesn't try to impress me anymore. We do the same thing day in and...

My parents are against this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for well over a year. We are both freshman in highschool and everyone looks at us as a serious couple and knows that we wil last. He comes from a rough background, his dad left him and his step dad beats his mom ...

I don't know why I can't get a man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Although many people say I am attractive (not young) I dont know why I cant get a man. I meet meen who would like a "fling" as "they already have a partner I meet men who say "You must have slippedd through the net someone should have snapped me ...

We don't know what to talk about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I just started dating a new girl we really like each other and love spending time together but if were just having a conversation it gets kind of awkward because we don't know what to talk about and don't know too much about each other yet. Is this ...

I don't want any confusion as to what we are expecting out of each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Few days ago, I asked a question about an involvement with someone and whether or not that he likes me or he may be using me as no one knows about whats been going on between us. After being used in the past and the effect this has had on me, I...

How to tell my boyfriend to workout ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I want my boyfriend to workout. He seriously has everything I look for in a guy. But lately he has been gaining weight. I love him so much and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. But I really do not want him to just let himself go and m...

My boyfriend is too clingy and I want some space!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend had just moved in to live with my family.My boyfriend and i sleep together,he snores and shakes like he is having an attack,hugs me,and if i move he will notice.He hugs me at night and never let me go.I cant sleep,since he came to live ...

We went to 2nd base, now he wants to go to 3rd and I'm not comfortable with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i'm so confused. i'm in my first proper relationship ever. the guy i have been dating is amazing. i love him so much. we have been dating for a little over a year. before him i thought i would be able to just make out. i was wrong. i went to 2nd but ...

Should I date one sister when I want another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Zarah and Samantha are twins but not identical. I know Zarah through work. Zarah then introduced me to her twin sis Sam. Zarah keep trying to set me up with Sam. But I want Zarah as she's better looking, friendlier etc. Zarah's been with her bf Mark ...

I really don't know how I'm supposed to react!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I am pretty close to this guy at school. We have always lead a love hate relationship until lately when we have become very close and its been more Love than Hate. He started doing this thing where, if I am sat next to him if he gets tired he ...

Do we have a future? He won't get a divorce.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - im 21, he's 28. we're coworkers at a restaurant. ever since he first kissed me out of nowhere a year and a half ago, we've been making out, texting, even hanging out when we can outside of work. we never hooked up. hes not pressuring me at all, im a ...

Haven't heard from him in over two weeks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I met a guy at a club the first weekend of this December -- well, we started dancing and it just went from there. He was really cute and sweet and funny and I felt comfortable with him. Anyways, he said he had to leave and asked if I wanted to come ...

I love my girlfriend and we're in an amazing relationship even though we're so far away....then why did I cheat?????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Ok so here's my situation I'm with the love of my life and she's the bestest person ever and we share and talk about everything Everything is great and i truly care for her and miss her and always think about her and she has the same feelings fo...

How can I meet his friends and not get all self conscious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I am 18, dating a man that is 34. I am in love, and don't see age as a problem here. Our relationship has almost been two years now. He wants me to meet his friends, yet all of them seem to look at age, rather than at me. I am a shy person as it is, ...

Does he really want to be my friend or is he messing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex texted me that he missed me. He then called and said that he wanted to see me and that he wishes that we could be friends like before. How should I take this? Back story: We were together for about six months and then had a mutual bre...

Really confusing mixed signals - driving me mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - We're best friends, we spend a lot of time alone together, we text almost all day and I can trust him with anything! He always says he's my knight and he always takes care of me, and does cute things to make me happy. And when we're together we're ...

My ex is in an online rebound relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hey there. I really need someones help. I'm 19 years old. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up. We been together for almost 2 yrs. Before we ever started dating, I had gotten out of a relationship a few months before we stared dating. I was in high ...

Why do I pee during sex???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship and a great sex life. We talk about everything and are very comfortable with each other. During sex, I usually come a lot, and again and again but lately I've been having trouble coming during sex. It's ...

Girlfriend finds me physically repulsive now

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I would like to get a read on what is considered "normal" loss of attraction in a relationship, so I can at least put upper and lower bounds on what would be reasonable as it applies to my circumstances. Backstory: I am 31 years old, and have be...

Why he acts like we're dating if he doesn't want it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - so i have a friend who i've only known for a week and a half. well the first time we hung out he was blowing up my facebook to hang out, so he came and picked me up and took me to the club he works at (also a favorite club of mine) well that night ...

Am I being realistic? She wants to wait for her cheater. I want to wait for her

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30 December 2010 (M) - I came out of a relationship about 3 months ago. And since then I've been chatting to friends and such, and my one friend was going through a break up/being messed around by her ex who is basically a womaniser. Anyway, through my friend and through ...

Finally I've realised how much he liked me. What can I do to re-establish our connection?

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30 December 2010 (F) - I have known this boy for about 6 years and we always picked on each other, but last year we talked, and we became really good friends. We were best friends. I was totally into someone else at that time, that i never noticed that he liked me. ...

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance rela...

I'm 14, and want to find the love of my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I really want to find the love of my life. I'm 14, yeah you might say i'm too young but none of us know how long we will be in this godforsaken dump we call a world. I adore anime and long for a girl who is much like a girl from one of the animes, I ...

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex....

Did he just want to hook up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Ok i’m going to get right into it. I meet this amazing guy. We meet three weeks ago so of course i’m not in love but i can’t stop thinking about him. He’s two years older and he lives a state over about a 3hr car ride. The first day we meet he was ...

Is my ex-teacher crossing a line with our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So.., this is a little longer than I intended, haha, sorry. I left Junior High just this summer and am now in grade ten (Grade ten...eep!). Anyway, there's this teacher at my old school who is, in every way possible, perfect. Now, I know that soun...

He's not Christian but I am. Does it matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hello. I don't have feelings for this boy who is anti-christan we only get to we to see each other for a great while and he gets lonley when i am not around plus he lives far away like 2 hours. So i was wondering if anyone can fall for with an...

Is there a chance that we could be together in future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - She tells me she has feelings for me, but it's on and off for about 1 year. She is in a relationship with her bf for about 4.5 years. They broke up but patched back many times. He is very possessive and she went through so much of emotional hurt ...

Help! I only like older women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I an 17 and i consider my self mature enough for a real relationship i am a up and coming body builder i look ok and girls like me but i dont like girls i like women i like mature women i always have i have been through the high school drama and ...

How do I get over this crazy in love feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy when i was 16. From the first time i met him, i was really excited. I thought he was beautiful and i really admired him. So we kept in touch through the years, granted its only been 5 years. Fast forward to the present, and i think ...

How do I help my ex move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex several years ago because I just fell out of love with her. She didn't do anything wrong, but we just didnt connect and in the end, my feelings for her changed. She doesn't have any close friends and still considers me her ...

She broke my heart! How do I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - "I need time to think." Those words from my gf have resonated in my mind for over 5 months since she suddenly dumped me. I'm new to dating so I have 0 experience in this sort of thing. I spent my high school years as a combination of a nerd and a ...

Help! I feel like I'm being cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me a month back and then we got back together. Since we work together he gave me his password yesterday to do some of his work. I know i am not supposed to check his IM conv history but out of curiosty i di...

Is he drinking behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have a pretty big problem. My boyfriend is a former alcoholic. I have trust issues with him. The past few times we have seen each other he has smelt very strange. I thought maybe it was bad body odor. Then he came to my house and the next day my ...

His mom walked in on us having sex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi. Im not gonna go round the houses with this, its embarrassing enough! My boyfriend and i (of 7 months) were taking advantage of his free house yesterday lunchtime ish. His mum unexpectedly arrived home early and caught us having rather heavy sex, ...

We kissed and now things are weird. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I like this guy hes 17 and im 15 he kissed me the other day and wanted to go further but i didnt and we talked about tht but he was glad we didnt go further cuz we barley know each other. but ever since then things have seemed kind of off. I talked ...

We had sex and he told everyone! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Im 15 and about a month ago i had sex (i was a virgen) with my 17yr old bf bc i thought i loved him. He promised me tht no 1 would know no matter what but less than a week later he broke up with me bc he didnt want attachments bc hes goin to the ...

He has trouble orgasming in me! Is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has not cummed in me ever we have been together for 2 years. Is there something wrong with me or him? I feel like im trying really hard to please him but still nothing. He said he has only been able to do it about 5 times in his ...

Help! My girlfriend is too insecure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - hey. my girlfriend is so insecure because of what i have done in the past or so she tells me. i Am going to be compeltely honest and i need you people to tell me if its me or if its her issues. We have been dating for 11 months and we both do l...

I'm pregnant but he doesn't want it. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i am 43 and my boyfriend of 2yrs is 27 i just found out im pregnant and i already have 3 kids he has none we are very serious and i thought he might be happy about this but he is very unhappy says hes not ready and does not want it.. what should i ...

My boobs are small and I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hello, i am 15 and i have small boobs. i am going on holiday in July with my boyfriend and his family and i am inbarased about them. I was shopping not that long ago with him and we were talking about bras and he asked what bra size i was and i ...

My ex is confusing! Should I just forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - well my ex's has bin confusing me because sometimes she acts like she likes me still and then other times she seams like she just hates me or is annoyed of me and i have no idea what to do i was going to just stop everything but i don't know if that ...

There's no sex in our relationship. Is she cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Hello I have been in a relationship for 7 years with my girlfriend,and we used to have sex every day sometimes to the point where it was a little much.But now for about the last 8 months she has not had sex with me, and I mean NO!! intimacy at all, ...

How do I avoid temptation for him?

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30 December 2010 (F) - im in college at the moment and my boyfriend goes to uni a few hundred miles away so he's never home. when he is here its great because we are a perfect couple, theres no flaw to us, but when he's not here....its not the same. he's a popular boy, ...

Why did he reject me for New Year's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - dear cupids, I have a boyfriend who I have had for the last six months I have been trying like crazy to get together with him for winter break. He finally said let's do something new years eve and I was so excited that I could have screamed :) half ...

I'm scared the sunbeds will kill him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My bf always used to use sun beds before we went out. I then kindly asked him not to whilst he was with me cos I know loads of people who have died from cancer or have at least suffered from it. I cried the first time I saw him after a sunbed and he ...

Am I dumb for staying with my fiancee' if he has cheated more than once?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Me and my fiancee' has been together for 3 1/2 years but for a year straight he cheated on me and the 2nd year was shaky then the 3rd year we got right and he changed. Now we are going on our 4th year and I still can't get over what he has done in ...

Help! I'm only attracted to Latinos!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My profile flag is the Mexican flag, but I´m from another country originally. I`m teaching EFL here. I love it, but I am really in a bind and need advice! I don`t think I`m EVER going to be happy! I would like to have a boyfriend, and s...