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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Help! Do my guy friends like me as more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - So I have some guy friends I hang out with. For privacy, I'll call them Boy A, Boy B, and Boy C. Boy A: He's pretty much said straight out that he likes me, but I don't like him more than a friend. How do I tell him that? Boy B: I sort of lik...

How do I ask her out without ruining our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Okay so there is this girl who I have liked for over a year now, but we did not start hanging out until October this year. We talked in class (I'm in high school) but I never had the courage to ask her out. This year I started talking to her again ...

How do I not make the same mistakes in my future relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - I've broken up with my ex about a month ago, and its only in the aftermath of things have I realised stuff myself. A recent bit of information from my ex girlfriend and what she said about me got me thinking. Yeah, it is a biast opinion from her...

How does one stop actively looking for a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - How does one stop actively looking for a relationship? I tend be constantly doing so, and looking at many friendships with women as potential relationships. I wish this weren't the case, and I just want to allow more natural developments. It...

We're both so shy, how do I get him to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - so i am talking to this guy our moms hooked us up we live four hours away from each other we have been talking for a month now i have went up to see him twice the only thing is we dont talk much in person we are both really kinda shy. he is really ...

Girlfriend chose concert over me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Alright so there was this concert last night. Now my girlfriend had been looking forward to this concert for a while. It wasn't really a huge show....just a couple low key rappers. One of her friends bailed on her and I told her that I would go to ...

I asked her out because her friend told me she liked me, but she said no!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hello, So I am 14 and am really starting to like this one girl. She is a year younger and is very pretty. The one bad thing is that we have only hung out like 3-4 times. Her friend said that she liked me and wanted me to ask her out. We were ha...

My father is furious over my new bf, I am 16, how do I cool him down??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Um... I need help quickly. I got my first boyfriend about a week ago. He's really sweet, caring, etc. (not going into detail, just know he is a nice guy.) And I told my mom, who was excited, and knew i liked the guy before he asked me out. Now my ...

My bf is abusive, what can I do to stop this??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Im only 16 my boyfriend treats me really bad he pushes me screams and does all kinds of things. I try to breakup with him but then im afraid because when i do then he gets more mad and hits me. He then feels sorry and wants me to not to be mad. I ...

Should I be concerned with her thinking of other men during sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - In order to spice up our sex lives, my partner and I have been imagining others occasionally. It turns her on to hear me imagine she's another girl. Likewise, she is turned on by imagining other guys. Whilst it has worked a couple of times for me ...

Would my height be a problem "if" this happened??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - This question is purely based on IF I break up with "Dana". We are very happy and I have no intentions of ending our relationship. In the event that we do, there is this girl, "Marie". She's very obviously into me, and I wouldn't mind dating her (if ...

Why no contact from him on the weekends??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy who owns his own business and is always crazy busy, he is a client of mine that we hit it off from the begining. We have a connection to each other that is so overwhelming to me it makes me weak everytime i think about ...

What is he really looking for??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a month now. We've been out 7 times and there's great chemistry, we have a million things and interests in common, and we are very comfortable around each other, which is great. I've already met his girl and guy best ...

I was scared to go out with him, and now he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Well i have a problem with this guy... well it started in eighth grade.(now in tenth) I had told him that i liked him, and he had said that he liked me back but when he asked me out i said no because i was scared and he would be my first boyfriend, ...

I have no feelings for my boyfriend, and he's perfectly happy with that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I don't think I have feelings for my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 3 months and we were pretty good friends before that. He has an amazing personality and he's fun, but I'm just not physically attracted to him. I'm not nervous or excited ...

What am I involved in with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Been involved for past 6-8 years with male partner with sex as the only reason for us meeting or communicating. He is more than willing to meet with me anytime at my request. This male is NOT married (confirmed)or in any other type of commited ...

What do I make of this online-turned-real life boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hey, this is my second time asking for help with guy problems haha, I guess I just don't have any luck. Well I met this guy online and totally clicked with him. He lives not that far from me, a couple of train rides away. Early on in the chatting ...

How can I get this good looking boy to notice me with all of these other good looking girls around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - well i am 16 and i am in my first year of college,i wouldnt say that i am beautifull or any of that becasue i dont have much confidence in my apperiance but i do in my personlaity even though a lot of peaple say i am stunning and i turn heads but i ...

I might have lost out to another since I didn't ask her out when I had the chance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Should I tell a girl that all my problem is because of my love to her. I fancied a girl who everyone believe she used to fancied me but I did not take it at that time due to I was not ready to go on to a new relationship since my last one ended u...

I swore I'd never marry again but now I want to! How do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - This is a bit long, so thank you in advance for reading. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year, living together for 6 months. We are both in our early 30s and have known one another for 15 years. I am his first "serious" ...

I'm living with my boyfriend's ex and she hates him, how do I tell her I'm seeing him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have a complicated situation I need help with. A few months ago my mom kicked me out and I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years for a month before we broke up. When we broke up I moved in with a friend who was my boyfriends ex-girlfriend(they ...

How can I date him and keep my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I am in love with my friend 'Adam'. He's not my best friend or anything, but we sit by eachother in a few courses I met him in. He is SUCH a sweetheart to me, is really funny, kind, and cute. I'm pretty sure he's going to ask me out because whenever ...

He asked me out, I said no, I've been regretting it ever since!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Okay so here it is. I used to sit next to this guy in class and we got along really well. Long story short we both liked eachother and he asked me out. But i said no because i was scared. He still doesn't know that i actually liked him. That was ...

I'm really tired of waiting to be dating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - There's a weird pattern that's been happening over the last couple years involving my lovelife... First of, it's practically been non-existant. However, I'm called the smartest of all my friends understand emotions, how relationships wo...

Can people who are good at making money and excel at academics get a normal girlfriend who loves them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Can people excel at academics get a nice and normal girl friend who loves them. I am one of the people who excel at academics in a pretty good state school in england (I am not trying to show off). I will be in sixth form next year and I have ...

My sweet six year old becomes a demon when my boyfriend comes around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Is it true that little girls will become more whiney and unruly to get attention, when their mother has a new boyfriend? i was in a new relationship and my sweet 6 year old became a demon when ever he was around What do I do?? I dont want to spank ...

Why did this girl come to me and not my Casanova friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hi, recently i met a girl, but man was it easy! This has never hapend to me ever! She came to me and started flirting with me, it was as if she was instantly attracted to me when i walked in the room, she approached me! The thing is im good looking ...

My girlfriend ends up kissing her best friend whenever we're on a break!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - please i need your opinions , every single one possible , i just do not get what my girlfriend means when she tells me she always had feelings for her best male friend ?.. i know that they kissed and done stuff together but i dont know what to think...

I never get hit on!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I am a 19 year old woman. I'm five foot four 115 pounds in very good shape. Have green eyes long blonde hair and I'm a model and a nurse. I'm friendly and I smile but men still NEVER approach me. I don't feel like I'm unattractive and I make eye ...

Will he say yes if I ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Ok well ive been getting mixed singals from this guy i like. Hes so sweet and considerate and caring. He makes me love him. i havent met him n person cuz i met him on Facebook thru my friend/his ex girlfriend. But hes sent me videos of him on ...

Do you sometimes have to play games in relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Do you sometimes have to play games in relationships? I met a guy a short while ago and he came on really, really strong...not sexually, but lovingly and wanting a relationship. He kept saying he was afraid to get involved with me because he worri...

As a journalist, why do I keep dating/meeting men in the science field?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I'm a proud college graduate with nearly two years of dating experience. I have a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism and the college men I've met, have been in the science/math fields. I don't have a problem it, but I keep attracting men in those ...

Should I wait or is it stupid to waste my time on someone that wont change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My boy friend is in prison and I'm in love with this boy he says he loves me. He always says it even if I dont, the thing is I want 2 trust him but its like I cant, my heart wont let me.. guess Im too scared too get hurt.. The question is should I ...

Don't feel attracted after 2 dates with internet dating site girl...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hi, i am hoping for advice as i met a girl on a dating site and we exchanged flirty texts before going on 2 dates. The first went well but she looked different as she was larger than her profile pictures showed, i decided to ignore that and took her ...

Please help me and tell me how to enjoy my sexuality more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have always wanted to have a one night stand and i was offered the chance and i refused it. i can't believe it, i am so regretful for saying no. I have been years without sex and mad at myself for my boring sex life and I only got myself to ...

I love her so much and the thought of anybody else having had her troubles me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm not normally troubled by many things, but I'm finding it hard to actually be happy in a loving relationship with my girlfriend. I guess I have a problem with switching off and taking the relationship as it comes. We love and care for...

I'm stuck in limbo!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a real problem and I desperately need it fixed. It includes, relationships, dating, love and sex all in the one. About three years ago I met my first proper boyfriend. I had been innocent until him, I lost my virginity too, w...

Should I tell my ex everything?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Here's my angry little story. My ex and I have been broken up for a little over three months now, and I was deeply in love with her. We were in a long distance relationship and saw each other about once or twice every two months. And we were dating ...

Does anyone else do this foolishness to themselves or have been in a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - This isn't really a question since I know that no one is a mind reader and I know that the situation I'm in can be resolved by me completely ending it. But, I just want to know if anyone out there has someone on their mind that just won't leave! ...

I tell you, I feel scared and trapped. I'm not sure if I really want to stay with this man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - I am currently in a relationship of three years, only the last 6 months of which we have been living together, we have had a long distance relationship for almost 18 months. I love the guy and up until recently I have wanted to spend the rest of my ...

Help!!! Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - im 14 and me and this guy have known each other since we started high school and we stared goin out recently and we were out today with all our m8s and theres this 1 boy and he saw us kissin and he called me a s**g and my bf walked away from me an ...

She wants me when she's drunk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - I'm so confused. I had been with this girl for 8 months, she ended it and its been 4 months since. We're beginning to get along well again. Tonight at a party she got pretty drunk, I wasn't too drunk. She was saying how I was right over the break up ...

He keeps asking all my other friends out, but he won't ask me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Wow i have alot of problems. Well this one is about this guy Jared. Ive been getting mixed signals and i just wana scream ASK ME OUT ALREADY!! But im afraid. I was texting him today and he made my day:D He asked me what i wanted for my b-day. At ...

Anyone have any advice on how to kickstart a relationship after having a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly three years and we have a four month old daughter together. Ever since our baby was born my girlfriend has stopped showing me any form of affection (including sex). When I try to talk to her abou...

I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they have the real thing right in front of them.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend looks at porn all the time when he is not with me. I know because he has google chrome and it shows the most visited web pages when you go to open a new tab. It's sickening. I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they ...

Troubled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly six months and i am so happy, and i love him to bits! I went out with my friends a couple nights ago and i know this sounds incredibly lame and like i'm making excuses but i had a lot to drink and ended up ...